Girls are attracted to personalities not guys?

[Anonymous]

Girls aren't really attracted or turned on by men or their bodies alone.
So does that mean its not men their attracted to, its the masculinish personality men have women are attracted to?

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+1 y

My point is girls see hot girls: Observe she's hot and notes to self.
Guy sees hot girls: Checks out, may fantasise, possibly objectify in head.

Girls see hot guys: Observes their hot and makes mental note.
Guy sees hot guys: observes their hot and makes mental note.

So its obviously the personalities that they are attracted to.

[RJGraveyTrain]

God you're one of them.

I don't know how many times I'm gonna have to say that women can be physically attracted to men without wanting to instantly fuck them - that doesn't mean we're not attracted to men. Until you have the ability to transition into a woman you can't say this is true, so stop obsessing over it.

Jesus Christ.

[Asker]

Ik women aren't sexually attracted to men based on looked alone?
What im asking is are women really attracted men based on their physicslity alone? Yes they can observe their attractive but are they actually attracted?

[RJGraveyTrain]

I can be physically attracted to a guy, yes. But no one wants to date or fuck a stranger. Lol.

[Asker]

Do u think its true women are turned on by sex, not men?

[TheMoroccangirl]

I'm turned on when I see an attractive guy, however that doesn't make me want to date him. I'd date only if his personality fits my preferences as well. And no I don't date someone I'm not attracted to.

[gaguser2453]

to bad my personality suck

[TheMoroccangirl]

Work on it

[gaguser2453]

i can't if I dont know whats wrong people are always like ''omg you are so mean'' and im thinking to myself how? I thought i was nice

[TheMoroccangirl]

Are you straightforward?

[gaguser2453]

i get approached a lot, then I make people laugh when im not trying to be funny, then after a while I say something and they get mad then its back to square one. I wouldn't even say straight forward im just a weird personality. you ever meet one of those people who say things that they think is normal with no shame and you are like what the hell is wrong with this person? what I think is normal is not to others. they either think im joking or being a meathead

[Asker]

Mostgirls aren't like this im afraid:/ sometimes i even wonder why guys bother to be "hot"

[TheMoroccangirl]

I think it's depending on a girl's hormones. Mine are just high and he must attract me yeah.

[gaguser2453]

most girls aren't like this? LOL

[strangytie]

That's not everyone. Me? Yes but then again I'm not even 60% straight. I think for everyone personality is still an important factor.

[Asker]

Oh definately! When dating someone that is.
Im talkingg about just physical, sexual and or romantic feelings dont come from the physicality of men for most women

[BlackParade]

Dumb ass question

[Asker]

Well whens the mast time u heard a woman getting turned on by a hot guy they know nothing about. Exactly

[BlackParade]

All the time.. 😂😂what the hell 😂😂ofc... Are you dumb...

[BlackParade]

So your saying women don't get horny or interested in a man at all unless they know each other...

[Asker]

Yes i am.
They need to know their personality even a little. Thats why they can lust after famous people but never every day guysbwithout knowing them first.

[BlackParade]

Same for guys.. What's your point...

[Asker]

Most men dont need to know girls to feel sexual desire.

[BlackParade]

So you're women don't feel sexual desire unless they know the person... They're not true... Dumb ass question...

[Asker]

It is possible but the large majority need an emotional connection or sense of personality first. Ask any woman and they'll say the same.

[BlackParade]

Bruh. Know they don't.. My nigga than why do girls watch porn and get off to that shit..

[Asker]

Well for your information, lesbisan porn is the most popular porn genre for the straight female demographic of pornhub.
So this alone also showcases the fact its not men they are sexually attracted to.

[BlackParade]

So your saying... Women don't masturbate to videos of men...

[BlackParade]

Jesus christ is you high?

[Asker]

Kind of, And do u think its true women are turned on by sex, not men?

[LittleSally]

Not entirely true.
Although women are attracted to personality first, they also appreciate a good physique - and that means millions of different things to millions of different women...

[Asker]

And do u think its true women are turned on by sex, not men?

[LittleSally]

I don't even know what that's supposed to mean...

[Asker]

Well they aren't turned on or aroused by men themselves but the act of sex?

[pinkzoesbb]

In the beginning it's a combination of both, looks and personality. If the guy doesn't have a good personality his physical appearance doesn't matter. I've seen super hot guys as soon as they open their mouth it's a turn off their ugly inside.

[Cavewoman]

Wow, exactly what I wanted to say. Every word of it :-)

[pinkzoesbb]

Great minds think alike! 😊

[Asker]

And do u think its true women are turned on by sex, not men?

[wittymilf]

Women are attracted to men and how men make them feel. Women can't make other women feel the way men can.

[Asker]

But is that from the way men lust and desire women it in turn makes women desire men back?
Because women aren't turned on or really attracted to men's physicality alone.

[wittymilf]

Yeah woman are deeper than men they look at a guys personality as well as the package it comes in.

[Asker]

Men are only shallow when it comes to sex but for a committed relationship the men and women ik are pretty similar in that regard.
But would women be attracted and turned on by men if men didn't lust after women first initially?

[wittymilf]

Of course, women seduce hot guys all the time. Why, do you struggle to get women to want you?

[Asker]

But why do women want hot guys? If they aren't turned on or really attracted to appearance without personality?
And would women want men sexually if men didn't want women sexually first.

[wittymilf]

I don't care sorry

[wittymilf]

So many people have explained this so many times, but some guys have mental illness which prohibits them from listening, maybe that's a thing for you too?

[Asker]

Look why would u bother answering if u clearly dont want to help

[wittymilf]

Why would you bother asking if you clearly don't want help?

[Asker]

Because i do and your insulting remarks aren't conrabutative to a coherent understanding.

[ausername88]

It's all of it, what made me attracted to my crush was his personality then I realized how handsome he was

[ausername88]

No I don't think women are wired like guys unless they make an effort to lust, normally we just observe make a mental note and move on

[ausername88]

If it's in passing and not a dating situation

[Asker]

Exactly, so its obviously the personslities their attracted to.
They feel literally no difference when looking st hot guys and girls.
So how do they know their straight? Because its the personalities they're attracted to.

[ausername88]

But when we acknowledge another woman's beauty it's not in the same kind of way as we do with men, it's more of "oh she's pretty, hmm I wonder how she does her hair" or something like that for men obviously we think "wow he's really hot, look at those eyes and that smile dang now I'm nervous"

[ausername88]

And we or least I, but I can imagine that I'm not the only one who thinks this, but we don't judge females and males personalities the same way also so a girl could be cool and confident and plays basketball/guitar but I'm not going to think of those qualities in the same way if it was a guy

[ausername88]

And I'm assuming it's the same way with you as a guy observing other hot dudes, let's say you know a guy who likes to volunteer with children's programs and maybe does pottery or likes to go shopping, you wouldn't see those qualities in the same way if a hot girl did pottery etc. but you wouldn't be attractied to him (and no it's not wrong as a straight man to have the hobbies I mentioned)

[karahiri]

Not true. I see lots of attractive guys in public that I've never had a conversation with.

[Asker]

But were u actually attracted or simply observed their attractive?

[Asker]

And do u think its true women are turned on by sex, not men?

[karahiri]

I dont understand that...

[Asker]

Well its not men that turn on/ arouse women, its the act of sex?

[karahiri]

That's just weird... imagining sex with like... something invisible? Lol. I don't know.

[iguesskaitlan]

All people are different. It's a mix of a lot of things for me

[Asker]

But ur not even attracted to guys based off looks slone are u? (Not relationship wise, sexual attraction)

[iguesskaitlan]

No, there is a man or two that I've been with who are gorgeous, but not masculine. And they weren't standardly "handsome," but I loved looking at their body

[Asker]

But they didn't turn u on did they by looking?

[iguesskaitlan]

Yeah, but they can be attractive and a douche at the same time.

[Kenni]

if a guy is hot af but turns out to be a jerk, there is no hesitating dumping his ass

[Asker]

Yes i get this but im not talking anything close to a relationship.
Im talking anout just attraction.
I guess its different for guys and girls cause guys feel sexual/ physical attraction many times a day and girls always seem to compare it to a relationship which is not what im talking about. (No offense)

[Kenni]

yea but even one night stands. I don't myself to someone just because i think he's hot.

[Asker]

So what exactly does being hot even do for women if it clearly doesnr actually attract them?

[Kenni]

it's just a bonus

[Asker]

SO when women freak out over hot guys its more an act?

[Kenni]

you need to stop generalize women

[Asker]

Most women seem pretty similar in this regard

[BrittBratt2416]

Er.. who told you that lie?

[Asker]

It is just assumption due to the fact the large majority of girls aren't turned on or really attracted to hot guys without liking their personal.

[BrittBratt2416]

Not true at all.. girls low key check out men all the time. Especially if they like men that look like this: data.whicdn.com/images/159826329/superthumb.jpg
Trust me we are pervs too.. we just keep it on the down low lol

[Asker]

But how many men look like nick bateman? And yes ofc they check out, even i check out hot guys but i have no sexual interest in them and for the modt part its the same for women.
Womrn observe a guy's attractive but they usually be sexuslly interested or turned on without the personality.

[gaguser2453]

asker, workout, trim your eyebrows, get a great hairstyle. dress nice. all these things will improve your chances

[BrittBratt2416]

@gaguser2453 yep. Men may be more visual than us but we still take looks into account. If a woman isn't physically attracted to man or vise versa their not gonna waste their time getting to know someone or get their hopes up... that's why people get rejected right on the spot.

[gaguser2453]

the ''visual'' study had weak evidence of 50 men and about 50 women. we dont know who is more visual, there are 7.5 billion people out there. But this is almost universal. appearance gets you in the door.

[Asker]

Women aren't attracted to looks. They aren't grossed out by looks or dont mind their looks and thats all that matters.

[BrittBratt2416]

Lol if I'm not attractive to looks then why the heck did I find my boyfriend cute or approached him for a date? I'm a tell you a secret: Cause I found him physically attractive and wanted to get to know him better. You guys need to stop spreading misinformation like this. Women go by looks the same way you do... if we don't like the outside most people won't go any further to get to know the inside.

[Asker]

Well half of the replies claim they dont find men physically attractive before they know their personality and the others say hot guys are nice but if their personality is bad they couldnt date one.
Im talking sbout shallow physical/ sexual attraction.
And what does physical attraction even mean for women? I dont really experience this, for me its just sexual.

[Anonymous]

More turned on with he does with his hands and says with his mouth. Sweet talkers aren't always the best looking

[Asker]

So u would agree its more the personality they sre attracted to than men?

[Opinion Owner]

I agree... for the long run. If a guy is rude of course he don't want him

[Asker]

So girls aren't really attracted to male bodies or their overall physicality?

[Opinion Owner]

😦some!!! Not all girls are the same but most aren't that shallow

[Asker]

Why is it shallow? I can't help when i look at girls i want to fuck them?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh my 😳🙄

[Asker]

Its only shallow if thats all u look for in a partner. But unlike girls, guys csnt control what interests them sexually.

[Opinion Owner]

True, you like what you like. I just don't always act on my attractions

[Asker]

But is ur female attravtion to men even strong or easy to ignore sometimes?

[Opinion Owner]

If I'm around him a lot it's strong or if we've talked before I'll replay it in my head. Sometimes I have to fight myself from going up to the guy and talking to him.

[Opinion Owner]

Build up your self restraint, girls aren't that important to be acting a fool

[Asker]

I guess guys just act a fool cause for guys, girls are objects of conquest they desire.
And for girls, guys are just something thats always giving them attention so its more looking for a guy worth their time.

[Opinion Owner]

I'd agree with that!!!

[Asker]

Lmao exactly, why im confused about all that feminism shit when women are clearly first class citizens

[Opinion Owner]

I don't really understand feminism myself. I prefer traditional roles actually

[Asker]

I mean in my opinion in many ways it even favours women over med anyway?

[Pink2000]

Personality plays a big role (I've learned my lesson). Looks go are definitely a plus.

[Melina1982]

I would have to agree.

[Asker]

Are u attracted to the make physicality at all? And are u also attracted to girls?

[Melina1982]

I get attracted to the man's body after a get attracted to his personality... Women, on the other hand... I find the beautyfull but not in a sexual way.

[Asker]

So ur not even affected or attracted to hot guys?

[Melina1982]

I find them pleasant to look at.

[depeche2015]

Yeah I like personality

[Asker]

Well so do i but im still helplessly attracted to hot girls.
Are u also i to guys and girls?

[Asker]

And do u think its true women are turned on by sex, not men?

[catelyntje]

False it's personality and looks

[Asker]

And do u think its true women are turned on by sex, not men?

[catelyntje]

Nope

[Asker]

I saw a girl commet this and was just curious on your opinion, so u feel women are turned on by men as well?

[catelyntje]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

We're attracted to a lot of things. Voice too

[Asker]

And physicality isn't that high on the list.

[Opinion Owner]

For some

[Opinion Owner]

I don't make a note, I wonder if he's single and if he's a great guy

[Asker]

And thats the only difference between looking at hot guys and girls?

[Opinion Owner]

For me

[Anonymous]

no everybody attracts to look at first

[Asker]

How? With girls it seems like something thats just they dont find ugly and thats it

[Anonymous]

cool story bro tell it again

[Asker]

Read it again

[momo770]

cite your source

[Asker]

It is just assumption due to the fact the large majority of girls aren't turned on or really attracted to hot guys without liking their personality.

[momo770]

looking at hot guys is great, but if you're talking to a rock, that's not hot. With that said, I could definitely interact with a hot guy.

[Asker]

But what does a guy being hot even do for girls? Its just an observation thing for them

[momo770]

do you believe in eye candy?

[Asker]

BUT thats not even attraction? Basically when i check out hot guys girls feels no more sexual interest in them than i do.

[momo770]

I didn't know we were competing.

[Asker]

Lol we aren't.
My point is girls see hot girls: Observe she's hot and notes to self.
Guy sees hot girls: Checks out, may fantasise, possibly objectify in head.

Girls see hot guys: Observes their hot and makes mental note.
Guy sees hot guys: observes their hot and makes mental note.

[momo770]

and?

[Asker]

Well its obviously not men their attracted To is it?
there's no difference for them looking at men and women.
So its personalities their attracted to, not the gender.

[momo770]

Um no

[Asker]

In what way is this wrong? Sorry im just trying to understand

[momo770]

everyone is different and what attracts people is different. I think that's what you're forgetting.

[emerald77]

It's everything.

[Asker]

But women aren't sexually or physicslly attracted to men from their physical appearance, they need the personality first.
So its more the personality they're attracted to?

[Asker]

And do u think its true women are turned on by sex, not men?

[Nahid1234]

i cannot say.

[Asker]

Well dont answer