Hello I fought with my girlfriend recently. She blocked me in whatsapp. She was really angry for me. Can you help to me?

[Mithrandir]

She was really angry because of I didn't show really much attention to her and she got really mad today for this reason. She blocked me on whatsapp and said that our relationship is over.

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[DaniHodge]

I didn't read the part about her saying that the relationship is over. If the issue is that she feels you don't pay attention to her and meeting problems, I think that you should talk to her about how you guys can find a compromise. I wouldn't be all that worried about her blocking you and saying the relationship is over right now because that's not the bigger issue. I think the main issue is how you want to solve the problem first. Then you can work on how to get into contact with her.

[Mithrandir]

She must be calmed down first and after that everything can be normal again

[DaniHodge]

True I do think she needs to calm down, but she brought up the issues for a reason. You should try to work on making sure she's happy too or she'll find someone who can

[Mithrandir]

Naah she can't find a new one because she has a love in her heart for me. I know that. I also show interest and plans with her but the not way she wants.

[DaniHodge]

How come? Is the way she wants not something you like?

[Mithrandir]

I show my affection and interest to her with my actions and she wants words

[DaniHodge]

Oh okay that's not so bad! Just do both because I get where you're coming from and while I definitely think actions speak louder than words, but sometimes it's nice to hear the words too.

[Mithrandir]

The heartbreaking point is she forgets all the things I do for her my actions in the past when she is angry. I am trying do that but you know men has not multiple functions actually. I try to focus on my thesis and my girlfriend at the same time.

[DaniHodge]

Right which can get really frustrating because it's not like you don't do anything for her. I think that you both deserve a little break just so you can collect your thoughts and then have a honest conversation and air all your grievances out. I believe you when you say that you're trying and I think deep down she realizes that too, and I think it's only fair you both have a discussion and talk about it.

[Mithrandir]

She is coming back to me everytime we fight we experienced it before.

[Mithrandir]

It ended

[DaniHodge]

It's done for good?

[Mithrandir]

Yeah probably

[DaniHodge]

Aw man I'm sorry to hear that :/

[Anonymous]

This so called relationship, if you can call it that, will never work. Every single thing that you mentioned is a product of the ego, and such an active ego in a relationship means it will always be dysfunctional.

What you don't realize is that she has done you a huge favor by blocking you. But you are used to the arguments, the drama, and all of the bs so you want back in.

[Mithrandir]

It has finished

[Edwin23]

Ignore her for a day or two, I bet you she calls or texts.

[DaniHodge]

Well no I wouldn't say he should ignore her, but definitely give her space if she's blocking you because she doesn't want to talk right now

[Mithrandir]

@DaniHodge so you say that she just blocked me because she doesn't want to talk or end the relationship

[DaniHodge]

I'll respond in my own thread so @Edwin23 isn't getting all the notifications

[Mithrandir]

It has finished

[Anonymous]

Well, what did you DO?

[Mithrandir]

I have obsession about meeting issues (where, when, and frequency) we argued about that much in the day and at night we fight just because I wasn2t realy showed attention to her and thats all