Would you need to sleep with someone before you considered marrying them?

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cutelilPigeon · Accepted Answer

My only requirement is that a guy preferably doesn't have a high sex drive and doesn't have incredibly high expectations of me in bed. I basically just don't want to be a disappointment to him. but I can actually talk to a guy about these things without having to sleep with him. So my answer is No.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

yup. I mean, that'd be shitty to marry them and find out you have zero sexual chemistry after the fact. Plus, I wouldn't see any sense in marrying someone who is nothing more to me than a friend (ie. someone who I get long with well outside of the bedroom).

QueenofCups · Accepted Answer

Not necessarily, but very few guys today are willing to get married without sleeping with the person first.

morrigan_aensland · Accepted Answer

Absolutely YES

AndyOh · Accepted Answer

Yes, in today's world I would want to sleep with her, and find out all those things that I would hate to find out later: Is she a chronic snorer, have vivid wild dreams, sleep walker, or is sexually crap in bed. I would hate to find out all this after we got married.

slutsdontgetoral · Answer

If a woman was a virgin and saved herself for marriage, I would roll my dice and wait until we were married. If she was bad in bed so be it. Rather have a good girl who is bad in bed than the town sperm receptacle who is good.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I need to know we have similar views on sex and similar sex drives. Because I don't want either of us to be sexually frustrated. But I don't specifically think I need to sleep with them.

Anonymous · Answer

I want to keep my virginity until marriage but I'm starting to change my mind because compatibility in bed is important to marriage success... Maybe I would do it when I'm engaged and ready to commit my life to my man.

splashofyellow · Answer

I'm not intending to marry anyone but if I was, I would want to test that side of the relationship too before saying I do for the rest of my life.

Bleh-___- · Answer

Not necessarily. I feel like sex is something that can be worked on

madgoat · Answer

Yep. Would be odd not to have done, nowadays.  Unless, of course, you're being literal - I can consider a great many things without being married.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, i think through doing that one, you can know if they are good at sex and 2, it's like the ultimate step to see if you really do love each other.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Would it matter if they aren't great at sex? You would still love everything about they were. Besides, that's something they can work on with support and communication from their partner. I mean everyone is awkward at it at first.

SteelWill75 · Answer

Nope. If. you really love them you'll overcome anything together.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't see the point in waiting. I'm not religious.

killjoy2017 · Answer

No but you should be sexually compatible, which will involve long awkward conversations.

Anonymous · Answer

I''d like to, however still want it with the one i married. If I did it and did not wed her, I would regret it.

momo770 · Answer

I don't plan on marrying, so no. U?

Marsha003 · Answer

Yes but only after dating a bit

justagirl95 · Answer

Just like a car, try it before you buy it

badnews · Answer

If I were to marry, yes.

naraku · Answer

Need to? No Want to ? Yes.

JustCallMeLeon · Answer

1000000% if course. Too much of a risk.

TonyRyanAgain · Answer

Yeah, it's like test driving a car.

ImATragedyNow · Answer

yes I would

jammy85 · Answer

I don't believe In marriage so no

SarahsSummer · Answer

Yes.

fauchelevent · Answer

I would, yeah.

Girlie15 · Answer

No. Sex isn't everything.

ssawyer10 · Answer

Yes yes yes

boochie0 · Answer

Nope

BronzedAdonis · Answer

without a doubt

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, absolutely.

Jager66 · Answer

nah,

missbelieverr · Answer

Noooo!

Anonymous · Answer

Yup of course

BillyBob93 · Answer

no...

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