What exactly makes promiscuous women undesirable?

[PoliceLivesMatter]

What are some of the reasons guys find promiscuous women to be undesirable? I've heard many guys say they do not like promiscuous women. What are some of the possible reasons?

[MackFreeze]

It is a character trait. More or less a lack of will. Promiscuous women, I would say on average, can't control their impulses or desires and why should I expect a person who is promiscuous to switch just because their dating me? I would certainly hope they would, but, I am not that special to be the changing force in her life, she can only change herself, not others. If this was how the relationship was in the begging how would it continue? You could say the exact same for promiscuous men.

Now some change and that's great, for them I would give a chance, but I am talking about the currently promiscuous as I meet them.

I believe sex is important and a intimate thing, they think it's something to throw around and solely about pleasure.

Some people are promiscuous because they haven't had emotionally good relationships, want a man to do so, so they have sex early on to lock him Down and return the emotional gratification she needs. Now I don't know how true this is, but it's something to consider. So maybe not all promiscuous people are bad.

I would direct my tip paragraph to the women who fill or align with these things.
: Drink/Drunk, Party, Smoke, Promiscuous, Swear like a sailor, Tatoos.

They can align with the terms, "White trash" "Ghetto" "Thot" "Hood Rat" "Hoe"

The type of people who have near to no moral thought or care and do whatever they want because they said so. I think every needs a chance, including they, so if you meet one be kind and help them from the depths of carnality.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Great in-depth answer. Yeah, I agree for the most part.

[Anonymous]

There are many reasons, but some of them are biologically subconscious. Even if you don't want kids, you want them to be yours, you want only your DNA to flourish, and you only want your blood to be the heir to what you pass down when you breath your last breath.

A promiscuous women makes all of that impossible. You won't know if her child is yours, you won't know if she has the sperm from other men swimming around, you won't know if it will be your true blood line. Even when you dont want kids, you are still subconsciously programed to desire traits that are more likely to make having them successful.

There is also evidence that women absorb the DNA of men they have sex with forever (in their brains). And in other species, that DNA becomes combined into the offspring.

On the other more conscious basis, promiscuity, and a high partner count is simply a basic turn off for most men. A woman opens up to receive a man, there is nothing more intimate than having another human being inside of you... so when many men have been inside, the intimacy is no more.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

This might be the best answer. 100% agree. I've always argued that it's biological, though, some disagree...

[Marsha003]

I think a man wants a sexy woman and a sexual one, but one that is only that way with them. A woman who is that way with Everyman, makes a man wonder if she'll do that after marriage. Dating is fun but in the end we are all looking for that 1 person, and we want it to be forever. So men look for women to bang and women to marry and they're two totally different types.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

That's so correct. Thanks for your input

[Megalyssa]

Genes of every man that slept with the women stay in her. Unless she is much stronger or older. Same if a pure bred dog got fckt by any other outside her pure breed she is not pure anymore

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, you don't want to be with a woman that's had so many other men. I believe it's biological. My opinion, also disgusting.

[Megalyssa]

That's subconscious and strong. If she is very attractive its secondary to looks

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, I agree. I believe it is subconscious especially

[Fancygoldfish]

Megalyssa. Wow that's very interesting !! That surely increases the yuk factor for a guy. lol I think I'm clean. It's been 8 years. How long do they hang around?

[Megalyssa]

@Fancygoldfish
True, that's a good reason to be choose your partners wise. The theory is called telegony.

[Fancygoldfish]

Megalyssa thanks!! I'll look it up.

[QueenofCups]

My guy friends say they are undesirable as girlfriends because they are likely to cheat on you.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I agree with him

[RealgirlRachel]

Absolute nonsense. My wanting to sleep with a guy has no bearing on whether I am faithful, I haven't had a serious relationship but if I was in one I wouldn't be any more likely to sleep around than anyone else.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Well, if a woman has been promiscuous then it's reasonable to believe she is more likely to cheat on you because of her past with many men. She'll probably act out in lust. It's not for certain, but it's just what goes through my head and many men's heads as well. It's just more likely because of her past

[QueenofCups]

@RealgirlRachel I agree 100%, but a lot of guys I know think this way.

[tzdc21]

Let me explain the four big reasons why it matters to a man when dealing with a woman. Buckle up, this is gonna take a while.

1) Men and Women are both biologically hardwired to be attracted and disgusted by certain things. It just so happens that one of the things we guys are instinctively disgusted by are promiscuous women as our girlfriend and/or wife. That's just our nature, just like how it's in a woman's nature to look for a man who can provide and protect. Now when it comes to just sex, they won't care, but a committed relationship is a whole different ballpark.

2) Stats show that the higher a woman's body count, the more likely she will initiate breakups ans divorces. AND it's more likely she will have mental problems down the long run. You lose your ability to pair bond with every new sexual partner you have, and that's what helps relationships work through tough times... or in general.

3) When you (a woman) are in a relationship with a man, you are becoming a representation of that man, whether you know it or not. That means that what you say or do is gonna affect him to. So therefore, if you're a hoe, or you say or do some crazy and stupid stuff, not only are you putting yourself in a bad light, but you're putting your boyfriend/husband in a bad light. Because everyone is gonna be like, "This crazy girl is his?" or "This hoe is who he is taking seriously?" That is embarrassing for any man, even if he won't admit it to others or himself.

4) THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT REASON. There is a reason why since the dawn of time, men have demanded that the woman they take seriously are virgins. Not all guys nowadays want virgins now, but still want lower body counts from the woman they take seriously. And the reason why is because they want to ensure paternity. I assume I would be correct if I were to say that a deep dark fear for a lot of women is being r@ped in a dark alley by some creep. That deep feeling of fear that you get, the male equivalent to that is when he busts his ass, investing his blood, sweat, and tears into raising a child, and then finding out one day that the kid was never his. That's why guys have an issue with taking promiscuous women seriously. Because if you take a promiscuous woman seriously, and she gets pregnant, there's a good chance that child may not be yours.

[rjroy3]

The stigma around it.
How it makes you look being the guy whose with the girl every guy already fucked.
Concern about std's.
Concern about emotional damage because unlike guys, often times a promiscuous girl is that way not merely because she's horny. Oftentimes it's because of bad daddy issues or emotional damage.

Personally, I'm fine with promiscuous girls. But I still vet them out lol. I don't consider a girl who's slept with other guys a bad thing. But there's some concern if she's known as the local slut.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah I agree with just about everything except I wouldn't be fine with promiscuous women personally

[rjroy3]

Yea, that's a personal call. To me if a girl is completely fine emotional and not trying to fill a void, then I don't care. Because likely her sex life was being relatively picky of the guys she slept with. Probably all good dudes, while turning down a lot of "losers". Like I wouldn't fault a guy friend for being promiscuous with a lot of super models. Know what I mean?

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, I know what you mean.

[AlphaMaleTruth]

Men don’t actually degrade physically with each sex partner like women do. Biologically, a woman’s vagina is designed to form to one penis. After two or more partners, her vagina walls begin to break down and retreat. Hence the term “loose” like an old worn out shoe and the new “kegel” exercises to attempt to go back to her natural state, a virgin. After multiple partners, not only is she less desirable to men but she is actually crazier than a normal chaste woman. Why? Well each time SHE has sex with different partners her body’s ability to produce oxytocin breaks down. Oxytocin is an anti-psychotic for women. It’s also an appetite inhibitor. That’s why a lot of promiscuous women tend to get thicker or fatter around 25-30 due to the amassed sexual partners. She also stores the dna from every sexual partner. This dna alters how she thinks, feels, and even her looks. This dna will show up in any cucks offspring who later marries this female. She can no longer bond to a man nor child.

[philipph]

there are really great opinions here.
one other view here:
this strategy fulfills a role/ a need.
so there is a purpose - although there can be a great variety of reasons why - and i guess she won't know herself sometimes why she is acting her way.
i recently watched a documentary on female sexaddicts.
they suggested mostly two reasons: they want to be accepted and have attention as they desire an emotional connection but never learned to satisfy this with another strategy than sex.
the one thing that these women had in common was suggested to be an abnormal relationship in childhood to the father (abusive or neglected).
so i suggest to not blame them but even though one probably won't date one even when beautiful to see them as vulnerable and partially hurt humans - however dont try to fix them - except being a friend and supporter.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yes, I very much agree with the last part indeed. Possible traumatic or negative childhood can have a bad effect for some women. Abusive boyfriend or neglectful father.

[CT_CD]

Same reason most people won't buy a used sex toy. It's gross. You can clean the toy but it's still gross.

“If pussy was a stock it would be Plummeting right now…because you have flooded the market with it. You’re giving it away too easy"
- Dave Chappelle

[PoliceLivesMatter]

100% agree, yes.

[MackFreeze]

Solid answer man

[MysterE924]

And most women want to be treated like the only girl in the world when they’re after a guy they like. So they want that guy to be the gentleman and cross all T’s and dot all I’s. Why would any man of value do all that for a girl that’s been passed around? Promiscuous girls/ guys are simply a poor investment when it comes to relationships.

[CT_CD]

@MysterE924 I agree

[dmgstarfleet]

It depends-I Looooove promiscuous women-but not for a serious or steady relationship. Simple biological determinism-men can never assure that the offspring of their mate belong to them (absent DNA testing). This is not necessarily conscious-it is hardwired into our genes (Darwinism). Those who were cuckolded did not pass on their genes and thus disinclination to support such behavior was bred out of (most) of the male population.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yes, I agree fully. I always argue that it's biological, though, some, mainly women do not agree

[Fancygoldfish]

She's promiscuous If she's f*cking someone else and not you. :). I don't think guys want to be compared to other guys' performance in bed and so the more partners a girl has had, the more comparisons she can make. And they also don't like the idea of a lot of other guys having their hands and dicks all over their girl.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, a lot of guys don't want to be compared. That's one out of many reasons though. The last one is especially important.

[RealgirlRachel]

Absolutely spot on.

[Dude55]

I've never thought of it like that before. Out of curiosity do women think the same about a guy that's promiscuous? It's a subject that I only know to be discussed by men

[RealgirlRachel]

@Dude55 I tend to find a guy who has had a lot of experience is more likely to be better in bed. Also, girls talk... if I sleep with a guy and it's all about him and unfulfilling for me I'll tell my friends and I doubt he'll get laid in that circle again.

[Dude55]

@RealgirlRachel so from a woman's point of view a man who has had a lot of sexual partners is obviously experienced and not a negative thing like a man sees a promiscuous woman? I've had a lot of sexual partners and I'm not afraid to say that I'm very good at what I do because I'm not a one sided lover and i take note of what a going on, I've never told anyone how many women I've slept with but I'm sure they get an incline sometimes.

[RealgirlRachel]

@Dude55 I don't think they're nailed on to be better in bed. They may have had more partners cos girls think they're shot and dump them... but as a generalisation I believe you when you say you are good in bed because you listen to the many girls you'vyou've ducked.

[RealgirlRachel]

*fucked.

[AlphaMaleTruth]

Men don’t actually degrade physically with each sex partner like women do. Biologically, a woman’s vagina is designed to form to one penis. After two or more partners, her vagina walls begin to break down and retreat. Hence the term “loose” like an old worn out shoe and the new “kegel” exercises to attempt to go back to her natural state, a virgin. After multiple partners, not only is she less desirable to men but she is actually crazier than a normal chaste woman. Why? Well each time SHE has sex with different partners her body’s ability to produce oxytocin breaks down. Oxytocin is an anti-psychotic for women. It’s also an appetite inhibitor. That’s why a lot of promiscuous women tend to get thicker or fatter around 25-30 due to the amassed sexual partners. She also stores the dna from every sexual partner. This dna alters how she thinks, feels, and even her looks. This dna will show up in any cucks offspring who later marries this female. She can no longer bond to a man nor child.

[Alexgagnon]

it's a huge double standard really.. not all but most of the guys that claim to not want a girl with experience has no problem sleeping with them, they just won't date them... how messed up is that notion? men sleep around and it a pat on the back, but guess what boys you couldn't do that if no women is willing to have sex out side of a relationship... and to add to the bs argument that if a woman sleeps around she's more likely to cheat. this must then be true for men right. also the more sex a women has the tighter her vaginal muscles become. (because sex works out them muscles, like benching works out your arms) if you don't use the muscles they get weaker. so no sex equals a weak vagina and more sex equals strong vagina.
there is only one appropriate argument for not wanting a partner with a high number. and that is because you don't have a high number yourself... if you have a high number then try to slut shame, you are an ass hole and deserve to be alone

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Well, I believe it's biological as to why men find promiscuous women to be undesirable. It could also be insecurity, but I believe it's a big part, biological.

[Alexgagnon]

then again you would be wrong. Studies have already shown biologically our goal is to find the best genes and reproduce. the best way to do that is by seeking out a high number of mates and doing the deed. you just have to look at from a women view. if she were to sleep with a really strong man a really smart man and a really wealthy man back to back she has just increased the odds of good genes being used. where as men need to dump all over once to accomplish the same goal. so biologically we are supposed to be promiscuous in order to ensure our genes survive

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Never thought about it that way, you could be right. Here's what I think:

[PoliceLivesMatter]

It's lengthy but hear me out
1.) Women release more oxytocin which causes them to become more attached during and after sex more so than men. So, she's more likely to be loyal and stay instead of leave and move on to the next person like men
2.) Men impregnate women, women do not impregnate men. A woman's orgasm doesn't facilitate procreation as much as a man's does so a man needed to have multiple partners to ensure proper fertilization
3.) Women get pregnant. Women have to bear and take care of the child, while men do not. Could also be a reason
4.) Men can have children much later in their life compared to women. If a woman were to have a baby in her older age, it could possibly have defects like Down syndrome. This means women are more picky and it doesn't benefit them to have so many partners. Only the best when it comes to women's selection of mates.
This is my reasoning as to why men might feel that promiscuous women are undesirable. Biology.
Just my belief and opinion.

[Alexgagnon]

number one is irrelevant. is there a difference for you if a women has had 60 one night stands or 60 boyfriend she slept with? you assume a women should become loyal after sex.
number 2 only works if you are having sex for the soul purpose of making babies.
number 3 is also irrelevant if the person is having sex for pleasure.
and number 4 is a huge misconception, the risk levels of a woman becoming pregnant in her thirties and forties is about 5% higher than a woman in her twenties. also if you were to believe this and again having sex for the act of making babies would mean it actually beneficial for a younger woman to sleep around.. that way she can have help your children

[PoliceLivesMatter]

1.) When I mentioned oxytocin I used it to showcase how much more loyal a woman an be compared to a man after sex. Even if the guy is not super attractive, he's viewed in a better light because of the oxytocin. Most guys will want to leave and move on to the next woman. The lust for them has died the minute they orgasmed. So, when a woman has been promiscuous or sleeping with so many men, that might symbolize that she's acting like a man since men are more apt to sleep around compared to women. It's unnatural in my opinion for women to be more so promiscuous than men.
2-3.) I believe because a woman can get pregnant, sex is much more disastrous and takes more of a toll on her body. She can't go around from guy to guy because she'd be risking pregnancy, emotional, abuse, mental abuse, and physical abuse.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Women are more likely to be vulnerable to these things than men. So, when she voluntarily puts herself in these positions, it's unnatural.
4.) This was to showcase that women are in fact more picky than men. The fact is, women's eggs might not fertilize properly the older she is. So, a woman has to choose carefully her mates and choose QUALITY men. Promiscuity doesn't indicate that. You can't have both quantity and quality. This shows that a woman didn't vet these men properly and just let the entire football have sex with her...
I understand that procreation isn't why we have sex strictly, in not arguing against that. I'm saying, that there is a biological ROOT that still remain in our heads.

[Beatamarea]

Sex itself will not make a pussy tighter. The muscles are being passive when fucked. That won't make them stronger. That's stupid. Actually working the muscles will (kegels, cones/weights)

[AlphaMaleTruth]

Had to be one cuck. Men don’t degrade with each sex partner like women do. Biologically, a woman’s vagina is designed to form to one penis. After two or more partners, her vagina walls begin to break down and retreat. Hence the term “loose” like an old worn out shoe and the new “kegel” exercises to attempt to go back to her natural state, a virgin. After multiple partners, not only is she less desirable to men but she is actually crazier than a normal chaste woman. Why? Well each time SHE has sex with different partners her body’s ability to produce oxytocin breaks down. Oxytocin is an anti-psychotic for women. It’s also an appetite inhibitor. That’s why a lot of promiscuous women tend to get thicker or fatter around 25-30 due to the amassed sexual partners. She also stores the dna from every sexual partner. This dna alters how she thinks, feels, and even her looks. This dna will show up in any cucks offspring who later marries this female. She can no longer bond to a man nor child.

[ThatLeaf]

Experience in the bed they may feel like they might not be able to please them.
Women then to compared their experiences to previous ones. Men don't want to feel as though they lack something.
Prone to cheating.
Some men prefer a challenge rather than something easy to roll around with.
I'm sure there's more reason but off the top of my head I think those are the main ones.

[Anonymous]

They suck at being in relationships. Eventually they'd want to fuck again with random guys, so they'll dump you or just cheat. Most likely cheat because they want to maintain the benefits that come with a relationship.
Also, many promiscuous women end up settling because the best guys don't want them, so they'll go for less.
They also lie a lot.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, I agree.

[philipph]

😉 what men think...
what women think...

[Opinion Owner]

@philipph Sloots gon sloot

[philipph]

pls translate

[TheTallguy993]

Imagine you're about to eat a snicker bar. It looks tasty, feels good etc. but then someone tells you that it once had a bunch of flies on it. You're disgusted, right? But then someone tells you that they washed it in water. Even then, can you really see yourself eating the snicker bar peacefully?

The same goes with a girl whose been promiscuous. The girl is the snicker bar and the men she's slept with are the flies.

[RealgirlRachel]

Women ain't no Snickers bar, even if we can be a little nuts.

[Jinnie87]

In addition to the above, being promiscuous may indicate deeper issues like inability to commit, problems with men, deeper unfulfilled needs other than sex. Sex may be like a temporary fix.

[Anonymous]

You will be dating one, but at the same time in the back of your mind, you'd be thinking that a month from now she'll be screwing someone else. I guess it is OK if you go into it knowing that? I don't know...

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, I've felt that way as well. Just a higher possibility of cheating or being unfaithful when a woman is known to be promiscuous. My opinion of course

[Opinion Owner]

I have actually known some nice women who have had issues with promiscuity. But yeah, one guy one week and another guy the next... LOL... I remember when I was 23 I went on a date with a woman medical student. I was taking my time on getting to know her, but before I could take the next step, she fucked a friend of mine on their first date and it was a one night stand... LOL... It wasn't his fault, as he had no idea she and I had dated. Other friends caught on to it and they didn't care much for that lady... LOL

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, agreed. Makes you change your mind about a woman completely once you figure out.

[Opinion Owner]

LOL I had not thought of that scenario for a long time. It was over 20 years ago. I DID look up that doctor a couple of years ago and she is actually somewhat in my area. I looked her up just out of curiosity. I have ZERO interest in meeting up... LOL

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, I understand

[blackwolf3x]

used condoms.. communal condoms communal toothbrushes.
sweet sweet wine made out the sweat of every dude that made a splash or made a deposit

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, makes sense. You wouldn't want to have sex with a woman who's had so many men due to the fact that other men have touched her and been inside her the same way you have. It's disgusting in my opinion

[PlzFuccOff]

1. Higher likelihood of cheating
2. Lack of self respect
3. Potential STDs

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Agree on all points

[Felce]

How is that "lack of self respect", if I may?

[PlzFuccOff]

It's self destructive behavior. It increases the likelihood of STDs and unwanted pregnancies. There is also a phenomenom called "male microchimerism" where women have been shown to have male DNA in their brains. One hypothesis to explain this is that when a woman has sex the DNA from the spermatazoa travels to their brains.

[Felce]

I have absolutely no idea on where you even read that dna from sperm can travel up to the brain and settle there somehow - no offense, but it's ludicrous. Male microchimerism in women seem to be a consequence of carrying a male fetus, so it happens during pregnancy. Look it up - it's a nice read.
As for STDs, I can see your point if you think promiscuous males "lack self respect" as well, although it's a viewpoint I do not share.

[PlzFuccOff]

I never claimed it was a fact, I said it's a hypothesis that some scientists have. Which is true. And why is that ludicrous? The DNA from the foetuses travels to the brain, so why couldn't DNA from spermatazoa do the same? And yes, I think male or female, that all sexual promiscuity shows a lack of self respect.

[Felce]

Look it up, there are some neat articles on it that I can't link. I'll quote a passage from one: "During pregnancy, genetic material and cells are bi-directionally exchanged between the fetus and mother, following which there can be persistence of the foreign cells and/or DNA in the recipient."
Pregnancy is pretty weird and very interesting, in fact! Bodies do not usually exchange genetic material with foreign stuff, as far as I am aware of.
So unless I'm wrong, absolutely no way that foreign DNA entering your vagina could travel up to your brain and cause this kind of chimerism. It's like saying that if you put someone's vaginal fluid in your rectum, it could cause you, uh, female microchimerism?
If you find me some scientific article that satisfactorily explains how some pieces of sperm dna can affect the brain's dna this way, I'll have to apologise to you & them. I've had an hard time finding them mysef. Hope this answer was satisfactory!

[PlzFuccOff]

I'm aware of that. It's a fact I know. My claim was only that it's a hypothesis. How would you explain microchimerism in non pregnant women? Because they've been shown to have it too.

[Felce]

"In addition to prior pregnancies, male Mc could be acquired by a female from a recognized or vanished male twin, an older male sibling, or through non-irradiated blood transfusion."
Not only the brain has a "blood-brain barrier" that keeps out most things that should be out, but don't forget that, also, immune systems are a thing, and they react pretty badly to foreign dna. As far as I know, sperm cells simply cannot go too far - but even if they did, they just wouldn't be able to reach the brain and enter it via the bloodstream. Again: I'll gladly admit to be wrong if I learn of a way for sperm dna to get into the brain unharmed. But I have a very hard time believing that.

[PlzFuccOff]

I said hypothesis...😒

[Felce]

Dude yes, I got that. Hypothesis exist to be discussed and be either proven or disproven... certainly, they're no basis to build an opinion upon, in my opinion.

[Justinaveragedude]

My ex was promiscuous. She cheated on me, was dishonest abiut her relationship with me. And hurt me. I don't want some else like that.

[RealgirlRachel]

Guys like to think they're the best lover ever. God forbid we should have a frame of reference to compare them with... guys don't find promiscuous women unattractive; just those who might recognise they're shit in bed.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, agreed. Could be one of many reasons.

[yourmad482829]

no,. sone guys do find slutty women unatractive. I know because I am a guy

[AlphaMaleTruth]

Men don’t actually degrade physically with each sex partner like women do. Biologically, a woman’s vagina is designed to form to one penis. After two or more partners, her vagina walls begin to break down and retreat. Hence the term “loose” like an old worn out shoe and the new “kegel” exercises to attempt to go back to her natural state, a virgin. After multiple partners, not only is she less desirable to men but she is actually crazier than a normal chaste woman. Why? Well each time SHE has sex with different partners her body’s ability to produce oxytocin breaks down. Oxytocin is an anti-psychotic for women. It’s also an appetite inhibitor. That’s why a lot of promiscuous women tend to get thicker or fatter around 25-30 due to the amassed sexual partners. She also stores the dna from every sexual partner. This dna alters how she thinks, feels, and even her looks. This dna will show up in any cucks offspring who later marries this female. She can no longer bond to a man nor child.

[Cryostatic]

1. Insecurity. A lot of guys are terrified of being compared to other dudes.
2. Religious reasons. Some people place high value on virginity, for some reason.

That's about all I can think of.

[BronzedAdonis]

preach it

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah, I think insecurity is one of the reasons though could it also be biological?

[Cryostatic]

How, exactly, could it possibly be biological?

[PoliceLivesMatter]

It's lengthy but hear me out
1.) Women release more oxytocin which causes them to become more attached during and after sex more so than men. So, she's more likely to be loyal and stay instead of leave and move on to the next person like men
2.) Men impregnate women, women do not impregnate men. A woman's orgasm doesn't facilitate procreation as much as a man's does so a man needed to have multiple partners to ensure proper fertilization
3.) Women get pregnant. Women have to bear and take care of the child, while men do not. Could also be a reason
4.) Men can have children much later in their life compared to women. If a woman were to have a baby in her older age, it could possibly have defects like Down syndrome. This means women are more picky and it doesn't benefit them to have so many partners. Only the best when it comes to women's selection of mates.
This is my reasoning as to why men might feel that promiscuous women are undesirable. Biology.
Just my belief and opinion.

[Cryostatic]

God, why is it always about impregnation? We're not cavemen anymore.

But let's go ahead and pretend like we are, and that the biological imperative is the sole reason we fuck.

For #1, that oxytocin is released regardless of who she's fucking or has fucked in the past, and it'll last long enough to keep her around until she gets pregnant, and then she's sticking around because she can't fend for herself.

For #2-3, promiscuity is a positive thing, because the more cavesluts our cavebro gets to fuck, the higher his chances for procreation. It also helps #1 because when her last cavebro got mauled by a sabercat, she went out looking for someone else instead of deciding to lie down and die next to him.

For #4, this doesn't even make any sense. Old age and promiscuity have nothing to do with each other. A woman who doesn't have kids until she's 50 is a woman who doesn't have kids until she's 50 regardless of how many dude's she's fucked.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Sure I agree we are not cavemen and cavewomen anymore, but the intrinsic and subconscious feelings and inclinations within our brains still exist. There's no getting rid of that.
1.) When I mentioned oxytocin I used it to showcase how much more loyal a woman an be compared to a man after sex. Even if the guy is not super attractive, he's viewed in a better light because of the oxytocin. Most guys will want to leave and move on to the next woman. The lust for them has died the minute they orgasmed. So, when a woman has been promiscuous or sleeping with so many men, that might symbolize that she's acting like a man since men are more apt to sleep around compared to women. It's unnatural in my opinion for women to be more so promiscuous than men.
2-3.) I believe because a woman can get pregnant, sex is much more disastrous and takes more of a toll on her body. She can't go around from guy to guy because she'd be risking pregnancy, emotional, abuse, mental abuse, and physical abuse.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Women are more likely to be vulnerable to these things than men. So, when she voluntarily puts herself in these positions, it's unnatural.
4.) This was to showcase that women are in fact more picky than men. The fact is, women's eggs might not fertilize properly the older she is. So, a woman has to choose carefully her mates and choose QUALITY men. Promiscuity doesn't indicate that. You can't have both quantity and quality. This shows that a woman didn't vet these men properly and just let the entire football have sex with her...
I understand that procreation isn't why we have sex strictly, in not arguing against that. I'm saying, that there is a biological ROOT that still remain in our heads.

[Stef03]

the promiscuity

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yeah agreed

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Best answer

[Anonymous]

Because their shit is used

[anoddtod]

cheating