Why do I keep attracting damaged or promiscuous women?

[SingleTyron]

I know there are still good women out here but for some reason I keep attracting the ones went through a crazy period in their younger years, abused girls, divorced with kids, etc.

I'm a relationship type man and have no interest in ONS. I've been in 2 relationships and like all girls, both had a wild past. I tried being understandable and getting over it. I tried reasoning that it's all in the past what they did but what happened is both later on ended up cheating on me.

For some reason I'm not having any luck finding a quality, good girl. Or she ends up being the ''waiting till marriage'' religious type. I would like a woman in between, not wild that slept with over 30+ but neither a virgin; a normal woman that had several monogamous relationships, is family oriented and it's a plus to me if she's also career-oriented.

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I'm currently taking a break from the seeking dates because it's frustrating. I'm sick of those extremes.

[lilred1981]

Hate to say this but the problem is you. You can't have your cake and eat it to. Everyone has a past. What matters is what they are when they meet you. Are you sure you aren't forming a self fulfilling prophecy in your relationships? While everyone has control over their own actions are you subconciensly pushing them to cheat by being an ass about their past? Get yourself right and be the kind of guy the kind of girl you want to attract would want first.

[ProudofDutch]

if I look it is the same time hard for girls to find a guy

of that kind of type mostly the want have sex and when their fun is over with that girl that guy go find a girl for the next and so it goes this is a example but I understand you I hope you find that girl :)

[Anonymous]

Are you sure you aren't meeting some of these good girls, but overlooking them because they aren't as "hot" ... aka dressed in a way to gain sexual interest?

[narc-slayer]

Yes, it's hard to find a decent woman. I have had the same problem, they are promiscuous and end up cheating on me. Every single girlfriend and my ex wife have all cheated on me. I'm not an unreasonable person, but yeah there are no good girls out there. Hey, send some of those religious girls that want to wait 'till marriage my way. I can't even find those types. Keep looking and never settle for less than you deserve.

[Scottie93]

Just give up on ever finding love. If you can get sex from women without paying and aren't a selfish lover then search for friends with benefits and be happy with that. If you have to pay to get access to women then find a hooker or two and pay for sex. It sucks but it beats dying a worthless desperate virgin.

[Anonymous]

You don't want a virgin? A woman who is actually waiying for the right guy and you called that not being normal. That's a person who has self respect and dignity. ofc, you are going to attdact other fiends. becsuse the opposite of that is pervertic cheaying monster.

[Anonymous]

Because all women are damaged. We are all broken vases with our hope spilled out and gone.

[KingJR]

Well where are you meeting these chicks?

[SingleTyron]

Social gatherings suggested by friends, bookstore, whenever my friends invite to a special party, supermarket or college sometimes.

[Anonymous]

Probably because you're damaged or slutty.

[SingleTyron]

Nope, I've only been in those 2 relationships. I just want a relationship with the woman I described but it's hard to find her. I don't have a slutty past.