Why do I keep attracting women who want to cheat or are cheating on their partner to be with me?

[Anonymous]

[D_Bone_Steak]

You too huh? You are not alone. To me it seems even the ones that talk all that big game of being loyal and faithful... want to keep talking to their ex or guys they want to call "just a friend", or I find out they have a man already and they're trying to monkey branch to me (or I'm just a good time that's kept discrete).

At my age, I've just dropped the idea that actual good women exist. Tons of guys will get pissed at me because they sincerely believe their girl "is different and not like that," yet she wants to rub my muscles and giggles a bit too much at my dumb jokes. Sure buddy, she's different and not like the rest... lolz

I live by this philosophy now: No woman will ever be yours, it is just your turn.

[Hanrej]

Please tell me your secret. I want such a girl myself.

[Asker]

My secret is that I’m now at the point where I don’t care if things work out with a girl but would prefer if things did if I really like them for the long haul

[Anonymous]

I'll tell you my situation right quick. It's probably most likely because they plan on leaving their partner and you are attractive to where someone wants to start something with you. Whether it be friends or something more.

[Asker]

Ok but what about why they would leave their partner for me when they don’t even know me?

[Opinion Owner]

They could be jumping the gun here.. what if they genuinly wanted to get to know you better? What then. It just sucks that's what the situation they are in at the moment.. if no ones trying to get to know you and spend time with you genuinely it isn't or won't be real and fullfilling

[Asker]

Normally it’s just for continuous sex

[Opinion Owner]

Well in MY situation... its a little bit of that but I really want to KNOW him. It's more fullfilling that way