What are the signs that she regrets rejecting you?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so she rejected me back in the march, I went no contact to forget about her, but couple of months back she started contacting me constantly and even bought me present for bday and other small stuff. Does it mean something? Do you know any signs that she regrets it to look for?

[Nana0092]

Here are the signs that she regret rejecting you.
Based on my personal experience:
1. She initiates random contact with u after not hearing from you anymore ( she probably rejected you with the thought of her getting a guy who's more cooler/ attractive than you) and ended up realizing you're more than good enough
2. Tries to impress you : share happenings on her life , and do things for u ( such as giving you gifts 😉 Which you just mentioned. They always find a way to pursue you now that she realized you're the cool guy she's been looking for

3. If she tells you something about how she feels about you or feel sorry for rejecting you before then it means she's now open for another chance for the two of you ,
Believe me no girl will go back to someone they already rejected in no purpose. I know it's kinda weird but she's liking you now and probably putting you on top of her priority list.

My advice is don't play the games : think of it if you still like her somehow just talk to her nicely and see how you also feel after all. Don't make it complicated

[stormbreaker06]

What about if she reconnects randomly after 2 years?

[Fitness-Fanatic]

She may be letting you know that rejecting you doesn't mean she doesn't want you in her life. It just means she has no romantic interest in you.

It seems she doesn't want to cut contact with you, so while she may not regret rejecting you, she may regret her rejection has caused distance between you both , and prevented you from having any contact at all with one another

[RAMboJ03]

If that's case though, I wouldn't even bother OP. If you're interested in being with more than friends a girl and she's not and she just wants to be friends, I'd cut her off. This situation sucks for guys cause you're there for her for everything and you treat her well cause you're really interested in her but refuses intimacy with you, and a lot of women don't get how frustrating this can be for guys.
So you're basically her boyfriend without being intimate, sounds like some bs to me.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

@RAMboJ03

Everyone faces rejection at times. It's painful, but its part of life. You can't be everyone's preference.

The asker has a decision to make. Either keep on ignoring her , so he can move on, or try to remain with her which would be very difficult.

[SapouraK]

we pretty much start to drift apart... less texting and less meet ups. also girls would also stop physical contact

[Overmind]

Spend the time to educate yourself on eye contact/body language and you will never need to wonder if a girl likes you again, not to mention the many other benefits once you really grasp the concept and apply the concept.

She could be interested, or she could just want to be friends, she could of also wanted you to pursue her a bit because of social consequences etc..

If she says that she wants to be friends and you want more look her dead in the eyes and tell her in a deep voice that you could never be friends with her after the things you fantasized about doing to her and that will instantly polarize her on the subject and you will have your answer:)

[Asker]

Yeah I understand, but there is a little problem. I already have some great history with this girl, we had strong eye contact, we even ended up cuddling in the bed during movie, hugging on party, and so on, but nothing sexual since we she was 15 and me 17. After she rejected me, I told her that she should make up her mind first before she started doing all these things with me and that it should be better to not to talk anymore and I basically kinda blamed it on her... We weren't talking for some time until she texted me and since then she's texting me a lot and I feel really bad for myself because I started the conversation like once or twice... and now, when she bought me my birthday present I'm really confused. Anyways, thanks for your reply :)

[Overmind]

No problem. Sense you clarified, I would suggest you escalate things and see where that goes.

#1women do not allow themselves to be alone with men there uncomfortable with and

#2if she's cuddling and touchy feely that's a solid signal, as long as you respect her boundaries you will be OK.

She will let you know if you cross them then pull back and let her chase you until you escalated things enough.

[AlphaGhost]

She may be trying to initiate something serious, so yeah She is trying something you should also move forward by giving her response with-in safe limits to see. WHat She is up to !
but don't just give her to much response give her little then observe the response and calculate your action but "let the cat come out of bag first".

[Asker]

Thank you sir, definitely going to try it. I'm just confused because I wasn't expecting her to act like that :D

[OptimusPrime2017]

I would be cautious if someone from my past rejects me all of a sudden only to be interested in me years later. I just gave up on the idea of love entirely. Considering the fact I've grown even more cynical of the idea and I personally believe that love doesn't exist and I see no point in having feelings for someone anymore. Been there, done that. Out of possibly 3 to 4 rejections, the 5th one, ended pretty well, as I've asked out a different girl around the 5th time, from personal experience, only one time had it actually worked out well in the girl saying yes. The rest usually a girl says no. So for now, I've given up and lost faith in the idea of love, as I believe that love is nothing but a joke. I just dont express any feelings anymore to spare myself the potential outcome of things going horribly wrong.

[Trevelyn7]

Sounds like she may be if your gut says she's sucking up to you or trying to get your approval. If this is the case and you still have romantic interest, she will only take seriously as a sexual entity if you ignore her, act unimpressed, or treat her like she's not special.

[theblueknight]

If she suddenly acts super nice and friendly afterwards. It's even worst if she asks you to hangout after with just the two of you (pity date) and acts too friendly or even flirty.

[QueenofCups]

Might just mean she likes you as a friend.

[Asker]

Yep, I'm just confused because she started acting the way I wasn't expecting it and I have no idea how to feel about it. Thanks for the reply :)

[Redneckkk123]

It could just mean she wants to be friends. Even know she rejected you she still wants you around as a friend. But in another way she could be regretting rejecting you. I'd definitely be looking out for any signals she may be throwing out.

[Nice-girl-101]

Lol. You pulled the "no talk rule" . google it. No talk rule breakup. There's your answer. (I hope)

[Anonymous]

Shy girls: Shying away (more than usual)
Outgoing girls: Trying to get your attention
meh girls: staring, just a lot of staring

[Kebbinn]

Lmfao meh girls just a lot of staring

[Anonymous]

if she talks to you like flirting