Dirty jokes, good, bad, or just weird?

[Lashes]

I use just about every humor out there but my favorite would be dirty jokes. I've been using it more than usual but I've noticed a reoccurring theme, the guys either avoid me completely or end up liking me and the girls well just hate me and call me a ho and a flirt. so my question is when a girl crack a lot of dirty jokes(along with other kinds of course) are you disgusted, attracted or what? does she come across as flirty or what? both guys and girls welcome to answer this I just want to know how I'm coming across to people.

[drummerdude27]

i use sexual innuendos and crack dirty jokes too so I would think it's funny. or I would act like I took it literally and play along with it. it got to the point last year where I only needed to wink after this one girl said something and it got turned into a dirty joke. I did get texted a lot looking for a dirty conversation by a couple girls though so that was the only down side. who cares what other girls say because you know it's just a joke so who cares. as for the guys who avoid you, you need to know who you are talking to. you can't openly say f*** in front of the really religious people and you can't say the and word in front of african americans. know how they will take the joke and stick to other types of humor around those guys.

hope this helps

[lefthand]

Dirty jokes are a kind of flirting since there is a risk of rejection and the conveying of sexual interest. Since I like women who flirt with me, I heartily approve.

fwiw, jokes are one of the big ways people first explore sexual interest in new areas. Pretty much everyone I know who currently swings opened the conversation because one partner was "joking" about it and the other took the hint. The same is true of leather, same gender play and plain old vanilla sex (when a woman is joking about blowjobs, it is more often that not an offer or a statement of interest).

The short answer is that if you are sexually attractive to the listening, dirty jokes will be well received.

[gialuan]

They're funny, but I'm more cautious with them nowadays. If you're talking to a guy one-on-one and you crack a few dirty jokes, he might take it as a sign that you might like him. It's happened to me before.

Also, if you're dating a guy and you make a lot of sexual references, he might expect you to

go through and do sexual acts with him; so don't make too many dirty references with him unless you're ready to get down and dirty with him.

[Anonymous]

i would probably think you're juvenile and want attention

[Brando]

It depends really. Sometimes she might look like she's trying too hard to be noticed for her jokes. Other times it just whatever. It also depends on how I see her. If she's a friend, then it's cool to joke like "one of the guys". But if she's like a crush or something, then it just seems to be sort of a turn off. I'm into girls, not girls that act like guys.

[thompson75]

Dirty jokes are cool, but too many make you come across as "trying too hard". It also can come across as cheap. I think they're cool to a certain extent, but should be kept at a minimum.

[JUST13]

Dirty jokes can give a hint on the girl's personality (shy \ outgoing) so it depends on what impression you want to leave. Don't worry they are just fine but too much can be a little wired you know?

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

Dirty jokes are fine, since when does someone not like to laugh 'hard' for for a 'long' time at a c*ck joke, they must be wrong in the 'head'.

(yes I realize those were all terrible :D )

[eidahl]

It depends on how good-looking you happen to be. =P

If it's guy making those type of jokes, I typically assume they're just desperately trying to impress and 'seem' funny.

[iXenomorph]

Dirty jokes are awesome.

The guys that resent you for it need to grow a pair.

[oliviamerino]

dirty jokes are the best! hahah tell me some lol