Do you think that nice girls just like nice guys finish last or is different for girls?

[rapfan107]

[5x9BOB]

I used to be that nice guy High School. You know them the ones that are quiet smart butt shy and lacking in confidence. Spell always open the door for you smile and probably even wash your car if hey girl was to ask. The one who is polite and perfect in your parents eyes compared to your boyfriend. I ended up gaining my confidence through the army. There is no longer a care of whether someone likes me or not, it becomes mostly about how I feel about myself and my own character. I'm still a nice guy but I have morals and values that I will voice if someone is doing or saying something that is wrong. Not just standing up for yourself it's standing up for what's right that's what a nice guy is.

[Raghav33]

Nice girls usually Like Bad guys.
Not complete gangsta, but the one who dont give a dam about what the world has to say about them.
The ones who flirt around all women, hardcore by nature. Bt at the end of the day, they stick to one women.
Nice girls think of these guys as a part of life which was missing, and be with these guys.
Hope this helps.✌️

[Quintessence]

If by 'nice' you mean someone who is overly passive and agreeable because they don't have the confidence to stand up for themselves and say "no, thanks!" or "I'd rather not" once in awhile, then I think that nice guys and girls alike finish last.
Now, there may be gender differences in the kind of dirt you have to deal with, but fact of the matter is, if you're a doormat, you're going to get walked on. That's the way of this shitty world.

[rapfan107]

Dawm 🔥🔥🔥

[GeminiAgent007]

Bad boy thing is over rated, nice guys don't finish last.
Your not a nice guy if you kiss ass your way up just makes you a fake asshole. If your a doormat some people are assholes you will be taken advantage of. Be actually nice if thats you, a girl worth your time will recognize that.
Plus only the superficial girls want bad boys so why bother with them in the first place.

[silvermoon84]

Nice girls/guys don't finish last. Sure, they get the short end of the stick more often but they don't finish last, they just finish later and there's nothing wrong with that.

[silverqueen]

Nice people never finish last...

Doormats finish last.
Socially awkward people finish last.
Fake people who act nice finish last.

Nice people? They don’t finish last.

[deadpool1992]

65% agree with u

[Pauliho]

The typical percieved "nice" guy is nice to earn sex as a reward for being nice. No one wants that... And women can suss them out.

Genuine warm guys who are naturally kind at heart will attract undoubtedly of course. There's a clear distinction between "Nice" and "kind"

[badass_bradsta]

If you kiss someone's ass you'll finish last regardless of gender, don't disrespect them just don't treat them like a god and expect to sleep with them. There's a difference between being a "nice guy or girl" and being a kissass :)

[rapfan107]

Preach brotha💪👏

[Honeysuckle404]

This is the best comment ever. Completely agree. I hate this whole “nice guy’s finish last” outlook so much.

[10dsw]

I guess there's different definitions of nice but the dating market past 30 definitely favours women who aren't afraid to pursue. Pretty sure that was mentioned in some book called Date-o-nomics or something like that

[Plumy]

My boyfriend eats faster than me and when we go out I get little little bit annoyed that I always finish meal last, unfair...

[5x9BOB]

So what you're saying is your boyfriend is a nice guy yet when you eat you finish last?

[Plumy]

I think it's my fault for finishing last, anyway he always waits for me, he's the best guy ❤

[5x9BOB]

He's a good man for thinking of you, and as well you're a good girl for chewing your food. That maybe one of the things that he really enjoys about you so don't change

[mak_1]

This is interesting. I kind of feel like it’s a bit different for girls based on my girl friends’ personal experience.

[rapfan107]

Right like for girls is more likely to be nice and when guys are nice are considered like soft

[mak_1]

Exactly. I think that a lot of girls want a guy who is really dominant and not aggressive at the right times, and we don’t usually think that the “nice” guy can do that. This explains why everyone thinks girls tend to lean towards dating “bad” guys. Personally, I knew a really nice guy who liked me a lot but I didn’t start anything with him because I didn’t think he was dominant enough due to his sweet, kind-hearted nature. A bit messed up, I know.

[kaylaS91]

sure, nice girls finish last as well.
Why would it be any different if you're a girl or a guy?

[Celtero]

Not really since girls are playing by a totally different set of rules. Guys have to be aggressive to get what they want, but girls can get what they want other ways.

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

Surviving this world won't allow you to be nice. You're gonna hurt someone intentionally to get your way at one point. Or suffer always being last. No one that gets far is innocent.

[Anonymous]

I think usually it’s the same for nice girls. Especially nice girls who are still in high school/middle school/ and even college. I don’t think it’s that apparent though once Women and men get older.

[Koki11]

Nice guys finish last, but i like a nice guy with a backbone

[Greaver]

I’m a nice guy and I feel like I’m going to die alone all the time but I can’t stop it because girls like bad guys I don’t know why

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

Opposites attract? Find yourself a bad girl.

[badass_bradsta]

Man up pal

[Greaver]

I don’t want a bad girl I want someone similar to me and trust me you don’t want to meet my opposite

[Pauliho]

Bruh... Take initiative don't feel sorry for yourself or put yourself down. That's weak.

[Greaver]

Bruv that’s the problem I’m not Confident in my social abilities because of anxiety and I have a extreme fear of rejection and I don’t know how to talk to girls and plus I’m stuck in online school til next year

[Pauliho]

So? If that's the case then why even give a fuck about it then. Take advantage if it

[Greaver]

Take advantage of what

[Chaz269]

It's a little different, but nice girls struggle in love for most of the same reasons nice guys do.

[zzzondarrr]

Nice guys and girls usually finish last simply because if they are really decent, their partner will not look any further.

[legendaryintrovert]

Lol. What is meant by nice guy and who are not nice? Everything is just nice. All to think is what is immoral.

[grandcyclops]

I'm trying to understand the question, but from what I gather. Women don't want feel like they should have to sleep with a guy just because he is nice to them.

[TheUglyMonk]

NiceGuy™
NiceGirls and NiceGuys are equally funny and sad.

[esapps]

This question is pointless. No one ever asked whether nice guys finish last at work. Nice or not no one cares. Are you good at it is the pt

[hellacray]

Nice girls? Where?

[rapfan107]

I think there's still some left

[slskskskks]

i hate nice guys

[rapfan107]

Lol why