Girls, Why she hide her boyfriend from me?

[Anonymous]

After 4 weeks of flirting such as: staring, listening in Which resulted in her getting jealous because I didn't approach and instead spoke to other girls. she made extra effort to look nice, and was waiting to print in the library. I was studying. She was really nervous and didn't know how to stand and Kept fidgeting then tried to sneak a look at me. And looked away fast like she didn't know to look or not.
5 minutes later she saw me talking to another girl and seemed shocked. When I returned to my desk in saw her out the window whispering to herself, red in the face looking upset.
The week after she purposely stopped looking back. 2 weeks later I approached her to see what's up

1st time - we was nervous , she was nice and wished me happy birthday. But she couldn't make eye contact and was quiet. Her friends was nice and she laugh at my jokes. But she was looking at me out the corner of her eyes up and down So I left. Then she turns from being introverted and quiet to being happy and loud with her friends.
Later She was talking about me to her friends
2nd approach - she made more eye contact , was more talkative towards me and kept twirling her hair constantly. Then later on she was talking to her friends about me again and kept sneaking glances when in class
3rd time. I sat down and faced her an her friends but she was still shy. I wanted to make her comfortable so I complimented her a few times but was really nervous and her friends noticed. but pretended to not notice 10 minute later I was late for class and said bye to her friends and good luck for test.
she straight away talking about me to her friends then i look at her waiting for elevator and she stops talking and we both start staring at each other and she kept looking at me everytime she saw me. Why is she so shy and keep staring , talking about me and get jealous when I talk to another girl and sad if I not approach her..

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The week after i was too busy so didn't approach and her friends kept staring at me like never before.
I seen her make more effort in appearance and she was studying. She kept sneaking looks when I was returning books. Then i faced her direction to talk to my friend and she looked me in the eyes like she's upset that I didn't speak.

But I found out she has a boyfriend which she doesny know i know and she hides it from me I do like her but I dont understand why she does that

[sweetcandygirl]

This is a very tricky situation. If she was faithful and trustable she wouldn't try to flirt with you while having a boyfriend. I never understand people like this. If you aren't happy in your current relationship, just leave it!!

But for you, I would say try to back off. If she has a boyfriend I don't understand why she is playing games with you. Either she likes you or she just likes the attention you give her. We don't know. I guess both.

I would try to move on. She needs to man up and figure out what she wants cause this is just stupid for her to do. She is wasting your time

[Asker]

I tried to back off , because I always busy in preparation for university. And she obviously noticed I hadn't spoke to her.

Her friends, which also hide she has a boyfriend was staring at me unusually. Because I normally talk to them all at lunch. But I didn't , then i saw her trying to look nice.
But I only went into to return books and she was studying and she kept looking at me. Then i faced her direction to talk to my friend before leaving 2 minutes later and she looked me in eyes quite upset.

[sweetcandygirl]

You know what. Don't try to read between the lines. Just accept what is. If you really like her and you can't seem to concentrate, then you need to confront her or maybe one od her friends.

It seems like you care for this even, because you noticed her being upset.
But I don't know man, girls cam be quite emotional and what she is doing right now doesn't sound reasonable

[Asker]

I only noticed because I know roughly the things to look for. I only have 4 months before I move to university anyway so lol.

[Anonymous]

She’s looking to cheat on the boyfriend be weary

[Asker]

why does she have to hide the boyfriend , even her friends hide it. if i flirt they instantly look at her then ignore it. then asoon as I walk off they all talk about me. its happened about 5 times.

[apple24]

Girls love attention

[Asker]

I know, but after she saw me talking to that girl she stopped because she got jealous and upset etc. I think she was hoping that I would approach her. by which I started all the flirting. but because she was so nervous I had to approach.

I approached three times now , she keeps staring, talking to her friends about me , trying to dress up and look cute. and her friends keep hiding the fact she has a boy friend. despite my strong flirting and compliments and persistance she avoids mentioning him. she doesn't know i know that she has a boyfriend. but she plans on moving away to go to university. same as me.
whenever i dont go and speak with her she always gives me a sad look and her friends just stare at me , like she gets all done up with make up. to be fair if she told me she had a boyfriend i would disappear. but she only would have 4 months to get to know me because im moving cities.

[apple24]

Listen son. Move the fuck on. It's a matter of fact she fucking with you. Don't be stupid