Why do girl think it's ok to kick guys in the balls for other reasons than self-defense?

[Anonymous]

In "the heat" (a comedy movie for 12-year olds) someone gets intentionally shot in the balls twice by a woman and then collapses. It's presented as "justice" and "girl-power", no comedic relief.

Even in movies like "Smurfs" or "Ice Age", movies for little kids, female characters kick male characters in the balls so hard they collapse, it's not in self-defense, they don't express regret, there's no consequences for them. It's presented as funny.
In every single sitcom I have ever watched female characters kick and knee men in the balls so hard they collapse just because they're pissed.

Why do we teach boys never to hit girls, but groin kicks, which can even lead to DEATH, are presented as funny in kids movies?
And yes, there is a real danger of maiming or killing:

Girl Kicks boy, loses testicle
https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/3656602/youtube-vlogger-will-zeven-loses-testicle-kick-rock-paper-scissors/

8-year old loses testicle
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2507840/Derby-schoolboy-James-Fletcher-8-loses-testicle-kicked-groin-bullies.html

Boy falls into COMA
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2605306/Dublin-schoolboy-coma-suffering-heart-attack-classmates-squeezed-testicles.html

Man DIES after kick in testicles
https://nypost.com/2016/04/15/ruptured-testicle-leads-to-murder-charge/

Woman KILLS Man by grabbing testicles
http://metro.co.uk/2017/06/29/man-died-after-his-testicles-burst-when-daughter-in-law-grabbed-them-6741484/

I know, this is question number 1.000.000 on this topic, but this should just tell you how important our balls are to us!
I love my balls. They are my masculinity, and at the same time my greatest weakness. The most intimate, precious and fragile part of my body. Destroying that is the worst thing you can do to a man, both physcially and mentally.
And I think it's extremely fucked up that people find castration funny.

Why don't our genitals deserve the same respect as yours?
Is men's safety, health and dignity less worth?

[Trolloween]

I don't think seeing something in the smurfs or a film means someone will run out do it. It's the same argument about violent video games and movies, even young kids know what is fantasy and reality.
Also you are negating the truth which is seeing a guy get kicked in the balls is hilarious, haven't you seen jackass?
But overall I agree that women should stop thinking it's OK to hurt a man in any way if they don't expect much worse back. If a woman uses 100% strength against me why shouldn't I be able to do it back as hard as I can? Yes the are wesker but no more than a strong guy vs a weak guy and weak guys know not to pick fights like that.

[Asker]

Jackass is different. They know what's coming, they agree to doing it, and when it is done by another man, it doesn't make you question their empathy, because you know they know how it feels. Also you can retaliate. When someone gets a football in the junk or something, I think it's funny too. I can even laugh about that, when it hits me.

About the Smurf argument: Then why is it always just men who get hurt? Why so often their genitals, and why so often at the hands of women?
Why is violence against women on TV taboo, then?
And "because there's less violence from women" is no argument. 40% of domestic abuse is committed by women, and violence is a circle. Teaching women that it's not as bad when they're violent is all but empowering. It infantilizes them, and relieves them of moral responsibility.

[Asker]

Also, the consequences of e. g. shooting someone are obvious. But people are not aware of the possible consequences of a groin kick, and that even children have the force to permanently damage those organs; you always just see the funny side. It is not as stigmatized as for example violence against women, thus there's lower inhibition.

[Trolloween]

I do totally get your point and similarly why are men always shown as being dumb and the one in the wrong? Our society coddles and infantalises women because anything other than that is considered sexism somehow. But at the same time I would draw a line between what's on TV a d real life, I ha e never met any woman who thinks its OK to kick a man in the balls and if I did I would expect its ecsuse they are a cunt not that they don't know its wrong because of something they have seen.

[Asker]

I agree with you. Still, no man, asshole or not, would hit a woman (at least publicly), as they are aware of the stigma of that action. I think that this display of one-sided violence and the coddling, while overly shaming and blaming men, enables those cunts to a degree.
And I found this hypocrisy very hurtful as a child.
If men are not tougher and stronger, why is it better to hurt us? If men and women are the same, and violence committed by men against women is wrong, then why is violence committed by women against men funny? Why are womens genitals holy, but ours are a joke?

There is something chauvinistic in the social pressure on men to ignore such an obvious logical contradiction at our own cost, while being forced to take responsibility for violence we haven't committed, that created a lot of resentment towards women, my own masculinity and society as a whole in me. I'm glad you added to your original comment the fact that you know what I'm talking about.

[Trolloween]

A lot of it is pandering, it seems guys these days feel the best way to attract women is to constantly belittle their own gender and act like they have something to be guilty about. They want to be the white knight guy that would never be critical about anything women or a single woman does even when it's a real issue. I agree with your point about violence in general people don't seem to realise that women are responsible for almost half of domestic violence and possibly more since shame stops men reporting it, but they also use cause far worse injuries on average than men because they use weapons to make up for their strength and pickup knives or pans etc. Really nowhere in society for men's issues, just compare how many homeless men their are or safe houses vs women. But I maintain that a kick in the balls is funny and not really the main issue at play it's just one piece of a bigger picture

[Asker]

And you think a kick in the balls is always funny? Even when it is with intent, against his will, and hurts him so much that he collapses?

[Asker]

Doesn't the initiation of force against someone and against their will violate the same principle as punching a woman in the stomach does?

[Trolloween]

I would just say if a woman kicks a man in the balls he has every right to punch in the jaw as hard as he can. The law wouldn't see it that way it would only be the man prosecuted but that's how I feel about it. I meant kicked in the balls on TV sorry not real life should have been clearer, looping back to the point that I don't really think people copy things they obviously know is wrong

[Asker]

Oh, ok. That makes sense.

[Mynameisbobby]

my sister did that to me all the time her and my mother would just laugh at me crying on the floor. girls can kick a boy in the nuts and women and girls think it's funny. I feel like I'm less than a girl maybe from abuse.

[Asker]

They both sound like terrible human beings. Get used to it. They'll tell you you're a disgusting oppressing monster, and that you're privileged, while punishing you and laughing at your pain. They only care about themselves. I am really sorry for you. Have you told your mother how that makes you feel?

[Mynameisbobby]

my sister is in jail for abusing me. I live with my uncle who adopted me.

[Asker]

Dude, I'm so sorry. I hope things go uphill for you from now on.

[Mynameisbobby]

thank you my uncle really loves me I'm doing better

[Asker]

Happy to hear that :)

[Catholicgirl22]

I dont know but it's certainly dangerous. Personally I think any physical response such as a punch to the female perpetrator would be justified and should be expected.

[Asker]

I'd rather people would just take it seriously, then noone would have to get hurt. But I agree.

[CarpetDenim]

I’ve noticed the same thing and I find it disgusting.

[Asker]

Thank you, that is reassuring. :) I noticed that your profile says you are 15, but also that you are married. May I ask how old you are? I was wondering if it depends on peoples age/maturity/generation. Just roughly if you dont feel comfortable telling your exact age.

[CarpetDenim]

The marriage thing is just a kind of joke with my boyfriend who’s also on here. But we’re not actually legally married and I am actually 15.

[Asker]

Oh ok. That's very mature and empathetic for a 15 year old. Most girls I know are either indifferent to this kind of stuff or amused by it. (and boys are no better)

[CarpetDenim]

I used to laugh at it when I was little but then as I got older I realized it was actually pretty fucked up to be laughing at the sight of another human being in immense physical pain, and tbh I was really disturbed I seemed to be the only one growing out of it and arriving at that conclusion.

[Asker]

Most people only change when the majority pressures them to, and are as egocentric as they possibly can. The fact that you changed by yourself without expecting profit, shows that you care about doing the right thing. You should take pride in this. :)

[CarpetDenim]

Thank you

[thedelicatepoly]

Yes man cases. possibly hundreds i have found where men where killed by just being attacked on their most vunerable delicate part of the body the poly (testicles) . the fatal blow was delivered by squeezing or a kick. usually during an argument, some were in self defense during a domestic dispute, some where pure attacks on the poly intending to kill. mainly the attackers are female usually a spouse , girlfriend. cases mainly in china, india, africa and middle east.

india there is a legal database. just type in testicles, squeezed testicles there are hundreds of cases to the public where women have killed males by squeezing or attacking them in the genital area. the cause of death is neurogenic shock.

Chinese woman kills man by squeezing his testicles during fight. All over the news.

"while she was squeezing his poly, she was screaming "i will squeeze it to death, you will never have children again" he dropped dead within seconds. the attacker is the lady in black t shirt. deceased victim on the floor with legs bent, female paramedic tried cpr to recussitate him. but he was declared dead

two women mother and daughter in law prostitues kick man in the poly killing him live video

SELF DEFENSE CASES. two woman killed their healthy young husbands just by applying force on their genitals. one woman kicked him bruising both testicles and he died on the spot, another woman caught and pulled the deceased penis and testicles smashing the left testicle.

SENTENCE - manslaughter killing - two female prisoners applied force to their respective husbands’ testicles thereby causing severe pain and neurogenic shock resulting in death - unusual and dangerous form of killing - need to impose strong punitive and deterrent sentence - appropriate sentence - 6 years and 6 1/2 years imprisonment in hard labour respectively - Criminal Code Ch No 262, S. 302.

PREMEDITATED PLAN TO ATTACK THE POLY TO CAUSE DEATH

20 year old woman kills stronger man by luring him for sex. while rubbing his genitals she squeezed so hard he squealed and died on the spot. real court case

case 7 need translator

more interesting i found cases of pre meditated murder, by a forensic female doctor who wrote a book on all her cases where she inspected deaths of men. one case a small woman killed her strong husband. he was found hung on the door. they suspected suicide, but the doctor wang xuemei seen no signs of violence on the body and no chemicals in the body, . the deceased males boxers or underpants were put on backwards, she took them off to inspect the poly (private parts) and she found a small laceration on the sac of the genitals. she almost missed it. then she opened the scrotum to inspect the testicles (the most delicate organ in the male body) and found them to be bruised.

the wife was called in for questioning and just admitted to murdering her husband. even more scary was they didn't even argue, she lured him with sex so he can get naked. after they finished he fell deep asleep. as most males do after ejaculating. now his thighs and legs were open and vunerable to her planned attack. she pinched the testicles with full force, he woke up with a high pitch wheeze and convulsed and fell down with his eyes rolled back almost instantly. that much pain on the poly can stop the heart. she tried to make it look like a suicide so the took a rope she prepared and hung him. them came back home crying acting like she was sad. even more is that she is a nurse and learnt the anatomy of the male genitals and knew its vunerablity. she had googled neurogenic shock from testicle trauma. will squeezing testicles kill a man? evil world. women know are planning this type of attack on a man during sex. what an embarrasing way to die. if it was not for this hero forensic female doctor who closely inspected his poly. she would have gotten away with murder

[Anonymous]

Well every time I see a girl get kicked in the crotch and collapse (happens often in my life because I do martial arts and cups are uncomfortable) I laugh. Hell, I watched a video of me getting kicked in the groin, throwing up, passing out, and then lying on the ground for thirty minutes (time lapse) and laughed during that because it was funny. A single kick brought me down to the ground because and only because it happened to connect with my vagina, the weakest point on the human body. It’s hard not to laugh when it happens to other girls and as hard as I try to stifle them, they usually come out. One girl farted from the stomach pain it caused her after she collapsed and was writhing around and I just lost it laughing. With guys, it’s different. They get enough shit as it is and it’s not just pain they have to worry about, you guys can lose your ability to reproduce. I think it’s funny when it happens to girls because it’s not something we see (we’re force fed nutshots in pop culture) but not when it happens to guys. I would never kick a guy in the balls, I always check to see if they’re feeling ok after one gets hit, and I don’t laugh when it happens irl or in a movie/tv show. In fiction I just roll my eyes, in life I try to show that I care.

[Anonymous]

"I love my balls. They are my masculinity, and at the same time my greatest weakness. The most intimate, precious and fragile part of my body."

That's exactly why nutshots are often treated as a comic relief in our society. Men are supposed to be stronger, but the spot that represents their masculinity is also their weakness.

Anyway, I think it is very common to see young girls kicking boys in the balls and finding it hilarious because kids are immature. They do not understand or think about the consequences. Most adult women would not hit men randomly in the balls without a good reason.

[Chillman15]

Never had a problem with a woman hitting me there every woman i've been with is extra careful if anything even when she had em in her hand haha which is still scary cause one squeeze and we're fucked. In high school i was kicked and squeezed by a girl, kick was a stupid bet and the squeeze was cuz we wanted to see how easy she could drop me. Right away 😵 so im glad most women only kick in defense haha

[thedelicatepoly]

carefull. you can make him faint in seconds. even worst there are dozens of cases of women killing men just by squeezing or kicking men in the testicles. google wife kills husbands squeezing testicles, or testicles neurogenic shock death, or look in paclii or indiankanoon legal online databases for the public , type in testicles squeezed and you will find hundreds of cases where women have killed men usually a spouse or girlfriend in a domestic dispute fight attacked the deceased male only on the poly (the testicles) some of these men were also healthy and strong, but this is a very delicate and most vunerably part of the male body. the testicles are rich in nerve endings, even a little flick on the poly is unconfortable, now imagine a full wrench squeeze on the glands, the guy would squeal, tremble shake and convulse then drop unconsious with his eye open and rolled back. i seen a case in china reported all over the news youku the website type in 海南海口 停车起纠纷 男子被抓下体身亡 120423今晚 she squeezed a shop owners testicles until he convusled and dropped dead. witnesses also said while he was screaming and trying to remove her hand, she was yelling "i will squeeze it to death, you will never have children again" its all over the news. when the ambulance arived they found the male on the floor legs spread apart no blood or weapon they wondered how he died, the female paramedic was trying cpr but to no avail. but when the post mortem autopsy was done, they found his testicles and scrotum bruised

[rgii55447]

Because it is funny, but that doesn't make it right, unless the guy is okay with a girl who likes to do that of course, but it all comes down to permission and stuff.

[martyfellow]

It’s Hollywood, ‘empowering women’ who will grow up to be mistresses of the corporate bigwigs and not care about ordinary people--men OR women

[AssholeNumberOne]

Because they're stupid and think they can get away with whatever they want cuz they're girls. It's disgusting.
I hate when women think they can do that. #masculinist

[Samantha3512]

Girls who hurt testicles for reasons other than self defence should be jailed

[Desuyonee]

i found it exciting
wish find a girl to do that to me ;DDF

[Asker]

What, castrate you? Put you in a coma? Kill you?

[Desuyonee]

yes yes yes ;DDD
i have all of those fantasies

[Asker]

Did something happen to you as a child or something? ^^

[Desuyonee]

nope ;DD
why ;DD

[Asker]

I was just worried about you for a moment XD

[Desuyonee]

im just pervert
mothefuckin pervert ;DD
imma sick fuck ;DDD

[Asker]

Right on.

[Desuyonee]

and fug you too cuz of you're an anti ;DDDDDD

[Asker]

Dude, I have nothing against you or your fetish. But if something like this happens in real life and you still think it's good, that's like saying: "I like sex with women, so it's good when men have sex with women, even if it's against their will."
You say fuck you to me because I am against assault and mutilation? Yeah, I'm a real piece of shit.

[Desuyonee]

dont get it wrong if u r not against to my shit ;DDDD

[Asker]

Exactly.

[Anonymous]

some women like it I got this shirt and it rocks

[Anonymous]

it is mainly young girls since groin attacks (for males) are often shown in the media, girls tend to think this is okay and funny.

[Offingapp]

They are specific, today they kick after kiss.

[Asker]

I dont understand what you're trying to say ^^

[Offingapp]

I want to say, I do not understand girls

[Anonymous]

I don't think that it is ok

[Asker]

How old are you? Not trying to creep on you, just wondering if it depends on someones generation/age how they see it

[Asker]

Also, do you think it is appropriate to show someone getting castrated with bullets out of vigilantism in a movie for 12-year olds? If so, what is the difference to a woman being violated with a knife in such a movie?

[Im_a_nice_guy]

Yeah I do martial arts and getting kicked in the crotch happens often. I've had it 3 times and don't want to lose the ability to reproduce. I think it is serious and maybe should be banned from martial arts. I am guilty of using the kick in the crotch tho.