Why do girls think it's funny or ok to kick a guy in the balls?

[Anonymous]

All through school some girls would do it just to "see what would happen", then laugh at the boys when they collapse and cry. And they would show no regret or compassion.
How are those girls any less disgusting than boys/men who hit girls/women until they cry and then laugh at them?
Why don't boys feelings matter?
Why can't you see that something like this can be traumatic for a boy and destroy his selfworth and his trust for the other gender?
Why is "curiosity" an excuse for something like that? Little boys are curios as to how a girls breasts feel like, does that mean they should just be able to touch them? No, of course not!

Can you explain to me, why girls don't feel bad when they see a crying, helpless and hurt little boy?
I often feel like women think we have no feelings, and that our lifes and happiness matter less than theirs. Is this true to some extend?

[MMarina]

Violence is never ok, no matter the gender. Physical, psychological, emotional violence is not okay. Those people are either too young to know, or need a serious wakeup call.

[Asker]

I agree... but do you think sometimes that men are less capable of love and bonding, or feeling emotional pain? Or do you know someone who does? I think many people do.

[MMarina]

I think they just don't show it OR it has been shoved down so badly that they have kind of shut it off. But it can happen to women as well

[Asker]

Yeah that's what I think too... I used to have a lot of emotion. Then I started feeling like the world only acknowledges the feelings of women and girls and now I don't feel anything, and by that I am confirming the very notion that made me the way I am... So thank you for your answer. It helps with my anxiety

[MMarina]

I think we are moving towards a world that values emotions more. Even for women, being "emotional" is not acceptable. Just yesterday I was told I need to be tougher. I said no, thanks. I don't want to be. You get to choose who and how you'll be. Free yourself :)

[Asker]

I'll try, but it's easier said than done ^^ thank you

[MMarina]

You're very welcome

[Elliegirl]

There’s nothing funny about that. I don’t think hurting people for fun is ever ok.

[888_sarcastic]

these girls a total bitches
Its not funny
these girls aren't "curious" they are bored and want to look cool

[Asker]

Why would that make them look cool?

[888_sarcastic]

Because everyone talks about it after and the become the talk of the day. Girls would be like "did you hear --- kicked ----- in he balls yesterday" and then everyone would be told. Whether for a good or bad reason girls would talk and guys would back off slightly

[Asker]

Wow... that's kind of sociopathic

[carl-smith]

They do it because they can get away with it and they get away with it because we are taught not to fight back.

My girlfriend does it when she is in a playful mood and she find it funny that I refuse to curl up and take it like a man and stand still

[NiceGuyNumber4]

Women don't have the ability to empathize with male-only issues. For more examples, see Google "Feminism"

[Asker]

I don't think that's a gender specific issue, but a human shortcoming. Most men only have "compassion" with female-only issues because they are conditioned to by society.

[NiceGuyNumber4]

Nah, men gladly lay their lives on the line for women. Men and women just treat women better in general. Look up the "women are wonderful effect". It's engrained in our DNA to care about women. The same is not true for men.

[stillagoodgirl]

The act itself isn't funny but rather the guy's reaction

[Asker]

When it's like a light tap, yeah, but when he collapses and cries? Seriously? You think that's funny?

[Asker]

If you think it's funny when a little boy gets kicked in the balls so hard that he collapses and cries, you are fucking sick. This is so disgusting. How is it any better to make a boy or man feel this way than doing it to a girl or woman?
What are men to you, fucking cartoon characters? Do you know how a boy FEELS when this happens to him? Fuck you.

[SarahsSummer]

I don’t know a single girl past the age of 6 who ever thought that was funny.

[jacquesvol]

I never met that kind of girls. You were hanging out with the wrong kind.

[Asker]

I dont hang out with them, that's just girls at my school

[clampfan101]

Girls aren’t the only ones finding it funny. Plenty of guys do. (Not me, though.)

[Anonymous]

That’s really weird and I’ve never seen a girl do that. She should have been arrested for assault.

[bodybuilderguy]

ok man sometimes in life you have to just realise that the world isn't fair and just grab your balls and move on and beating women isn't ok buddy

[Asker]

When did I say beating women was ok?

[scooogy]

I think that if they'd enjoy your pain, they would rather squeeze it and let you suffer for longer.

[Anonymous]

They think we’re just exaggerating and that they could take it easy but they don’t understand that it could kill us if you burst the festival

[gavacho2014]

Because they have never been kicked in the crotch.

[sameold]

If a girl does that punch that bitch in the face.

[Mediterranean35]

Cuz they are angel looking devils lmao.

[SportsBrah]

Its feminism dude, its ruining even anime.

[Flower-petal]

Absolutely not funny

[Asker]

Do you think sometimes that men have less capability to love or feel pain?

[Flower-petal]

No...

[Asker]

You never thought that? Do you know someone who might think that?

[Flower-petal]

No and no