Why do so many girls think kicking guys in the balls is ok?

[Anonymous]

I mean, good for the ones who say that they would only do that in self defense.

But there are SO many who excuse this with stuff like "Oh, it was elementary school, so..."
"I was only 13" , "Yes, but only my brother, it's normal for siblings" like that would be an excuse for boys to punch girls in the face or grab their boobs!

Or some say they did it while playfighting, and the reason they regret it is NOT that their brother or friend COLLAPSED AND CRIED in pain, but because they got in trouble. Like what the fuck?

Some say they did it because they were pissed off, some because they just wanted to see what would happen!

Like what the hell are guys to you?
Yes, guys are bigger and stronger! But when it comes to KICKING ORGANS DANGLING IN A SKIN SACK, how is that any better than hitting girls?

Seriously, I think girls who do that to guys deserve a good hard punch in the stomach.
That'll hurt them less, and put them in less danger of serious injury, than the guys they kicked, but maybe they'll stop treating them like LESS THAN ANIMALS. I mean it.

Sorry for asking this question so often, but I just can't get over this.
It's not the fact that they do it that disturbs me, but that they are so fucking PROUD of it, and that they can admit to this stuff without being chastised or any repercussions!
No, I'm not one of those perverts.
I just find this extremely disheartening.

[Anonymous]

I didn't feel bad because I got in trouble (I didn't), I felt bad because he was in pain!
And "I was in elementary school" is a valid excuse! Kids do dumb stuff. I didn't know I was kicking delicate "organs dangling in a skin sack". I've learned a valuable lesson that day, and so did he, I believe.

[Asker]

It's as much of an excuse for you, as hitting girls in the face or grabbing their boobs is for boys in elementary school... I'm not saying that you're "guilty forever" or something, just that it's still bad, not ok except for TRUE self defense, and should be taught better by parents.

But if you felt bad AND didn't know, I'm not judging you.
It's just that some people look back fondly or proudly at it, or think it's something to brag, just because it was in elementary school.

[Asker]

* as it is for boys who did that

[Asker]

And the way you put it kinda makes it sound like a justification... what did he do to "learn a lesson"?

[Opinion Owner]

Pulled on my hair. He used to do it to all the girls. He kept doing it, but not to me. I was the only girl in my class not to have her hair pulled again.

[Asker]

Well I don't have any sympathy with him, and I understand why you did that. All I'm saying is that it's just as understandable and justified when a boy hits a girl who does something similar to him, as what you did. Just putting it a little bit in perspective. Girls can be huge bullying, violent assholes too. And they deserve no more sympathy or consideration than a boy who is.
If a girl does NOT deserve to be punished for doing something, then neither does a boy.

[Opinion Owner]

I agree. I probably wouldn't do it if I knew how much it hurts. I didn't aim there, I just generally kicked in his direction and my foot caught him between the legs.

[Asker]

As I said, I absolutely understand why you did it. What I have a problem with is the double standards, and that it's more acceptable for a girl to defend herself than the other way around (in many peoples' eyes) and that some even think that kicking a guy in the balls is somehow no big deal, or funny, or any better than hitting a girl.
I still understand why you did it. I was bullied too, until I lashed out once, and while I felt bad, at least she stopped... My female teacher was even on my side after I explained to her what was going on, but I still understand that my reaction wasn't good.

You're not the kind of person I'm talking about, I'm talking about careless/sadistic types.

[Asker]

But do you know why you didn't you get in trouble? Sorry, I realized that you wrote that just now...

[Opinion Owner]

I guess no grown-up found out. If it was on a recess he would probably be on the floor by the time recess was up and a teacher arrived, but it was right after last period. The only ones present were kids.
I guess he could have told his mom and I'd be in trouble, but he didn't.

[Anonymous]

I just don't hit guys in general. But to be brutally honest girls get slightly aroused when a man is hit there and they react to it because I guess it displays how in touch they are with their reproductive organs. And makes it obvious they HAVE manly organs.

[Opinion Owner]

And they begin to ponder on the thought of reproducing 😂

[Asker]

So what? Guys get aroused when they touch a girls breasts, that doesn't mean they can just do it

[Spongebob1528]

I have never been aroused to see someone in pain. That's wrong if you ask me

[Asker]

@Spongebob1528
I understand what you're saying, but people laugh at others pain all the time... how is that any better?

[Spongebob1528]

It's not

[Opinion Owner]

Nah I didn't say aroused at the guys pain. Just aroused at the sudden attention to the man's parts

[Spongebob1528]

I wouldn't do that in that situation but I get your point!:)

[Anonymous]

It's not an exuce. You can't just hit people or kick. Talk to them about it and if they do it to you, just elbow them on their chest hard

[Asker]

I agree, will do

[Opinion Owner]

Good!

[Krotrong]

Fun fact. Scientist say that getting g hit in the balls hurts just as much as giving birth. Only when you give birth you gain a child and when you get kicked in the balls you may never have a child

[Asker]

lol what scientist says that?

[jak0b]

Because women is superior than men, and balls are they way of showing a stupid male who rules.

[AssholeNumberOne]

That's terrible. Sorry you had to go through that, bro.
Because they're stupid and think they can get away with whatever they want cuz they're girls. It's disgusting