Do girls get annoyed if a guy is too romantic/sweet/cheesy?

[Arsi9]

Yes

No

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Results: - If the girl likes you, then she don't feel annoyed, she loves it.

[blondfrog]

No some girls are into that cheesy shit and I love that <3. 😍😍😍😍
Cause I am into that cheesy romantic shit too. Fucking I just wanna take her back to my house in the dark with the lights dimmed from the multi scented candle lights. After she finishes eating with me I want her to tell me about her day only to interrupt her with kisses 😍.

[Arsi9]

Damn, 😍 my romantic friend

[blondfrog]

Indeed ;)

[Syrian_survivor]

From personal experience yes lmao
I've always been the one to give the most love in a relationship, i have yet to meet a girl who can love me more than i'll love her haha

[Arsi9]

Same here 😉😉😉

[Loveherbut]

Same here i guess girls only like the chasing part but deep inside they like assholes

[urmumbiggei]

Have you guys ever considered that you are ugly, socially awkward or boring?

[Syrian_survivor]

@Loveherbut but i still believe in good women haha

[ObscuredBeyond]

@urmumbiggei : Define boring. If a woman needs to be drunk or on drugs to be entertained, then she isn't worth entertaining.

[Tomblebee]

It's cute seeing guys talk to each other about how they don't understand women.

[Syrian_survivor]

@Tomblebee it's cute seeing you stalking me 🌚

[Tomblebee]

How did you know?
Okay First of all it wasn't even a fat stalk I just saw this one soppy mho thing at the top of your thing, when i went to look at your profile picture coz it was diff chill man wtf.

[Syrian_survivor]

@Tomblebee chill hun I don't mind, it's cute lmao

[Tomblebee]

NOOO IT'S NOT CUTE i wasn't EVEN FULL OUT STALKING LET ME HAVE THIS UGGH

[Syrian_survivor]

Huehue I'll try to post more stuff you can look at *wink wink*

[Tomblebee]

Not gonna do it.

[PinkMichae]

I can't imagine why a woman would get annoyed considering a woman's number one complaint is their man stops being romantic once he has her. I myself have never been with someone that romantic. But I would appreciate the effort he makes to make me feel loved.

[PinkMichae]

Thanks for the MHO. Haha! Look like some butthurt lady downvoted me and others that say it's stupid to get annoyed.🤔 Must be a feminazi.😂

[Arsi9]

You welcome 😊

[elizabeta]

if it is too much
is annoying

[Arsi9]

@elizabeta please don't say that 😥😥😥

[levantine99]

never mix what we say we want with what we do. look at actions not theories.

[Aeleen]

I believe if you love eachother theb there's no room for the terms " desperate, clingy, annoying" etc.

[sakalator]

Totally agree Aeleen 🙂

[PinkMichae]

My point is if women are gonna bitch how their men aren't romantic then get annoyed when a man is very romantic what's a man to do? I think if you get annoyed at a guy for being really romantic then you were never into the guy that much in the first place. I think if you really care about him his romantic gesters would make you smile. I myself can't imagine why any woman would be annoyed because I myself would embrace that kind of love from a man I cared about. And I think there's bigger things to nit pick at in a relationship. It's petty. That's how I see it like it or not.

[sakalator]

Strongly agreed 😋

[elizabeta]

I'm just saying it's ok to be romantic but not annoying

[levantine99]

we do get annoyed, but what men dont understand is that when we say romantic we mean an alpha who has romantic tendencies. not what they mean, which is a clingy needy beta who pedestalises you and you become his whole world.

[Aeleen]

No. If she gets annoyed then she's stupid and not that sincere.

[sakalator]

Thank God for women like you 😅

[Arsi9]

Haha 😍

[elizabeta]

if its too much
yes

[sakalator]

But there's a difference between too much of cringy romance and too much love 😀 you can never get enough love itself

[Aeleen]

Exactly. For a girl who loves her man, too much love can never be annoying. It'll be flattering. Like even after years of being together it'll be like it's still new. Cringey romance is a totally different thing. Because it's always a problem that when a guy has got the girl he wanted he stops making efforts and relationships then end.

[Arsi9]

Hmm too much romance will make the old relation like new one 👍

[Aeleen]

Yup exactly

[Aeleen]

I believe if you love eachother then there's no room for the terms " desperate, clingy, annoying" etc.

[Arsi9]

Agreed

[LovingZombi]

most girls i know complain about being to clingy...
But, once out of the relationship and with another they complain they aren't romantic enough...(and i wonder if their ever satisfied?)
i dont care personally of the degree, as long as i have my space bubble when i need it.
i love when i guy is cheesy with some jokes here and there because i can laugh and have a connection of humor.
Also being sweet would be nice, however
sometimes people can be rude and hurt others feelings and if he's too sweet he'll just be walked all over on and get hurt in the process. And i would be that line for helping the guy out.

[Arsi9]

Thanks for your opinion 😌

[Alice2398]

For me yes if I don't like them in that way it can make me feel uncomfortable, embarrassed and cringe. I hate to be the centre of attention and I've had guy's make grand gestures in front of everyone before like being serenaded in front of the whole school when I was 14. I nearly dead of embarrassment (literally the most embarrassing thing what ever happened to me). I'm a simple person when it comes to romance I prefer it to be in private, I'd much rather a guy cook me dinner and bye me flowers than get a horse and carriage and take me for a fancy overpriced restaurant but I would still appreciate but he wanted to make so much effort for me.

[Arsi9]

I mean too much romantic in private

[Alice2398]

Depends, I think it's get annoying and irritating if it was 24/7 I'd feel too smothered

[Arsi9]

Okay I understand 🙃

[The_FallenOne]

Omg, same! I really don't like all the serenading stuff. It make me feel so awkward. I really do not like all that romantic give me a box of chocolates and roses crap. It's just too much. If you like me be yourself, don't be cheesy. I hate cheesiness.
Except for cheesy pick up lines, thoes are funny. 😂

[Arsi9]

Hmmm cheesy line with fun hmm point noted lady 🙃

[Danishkabby]

My take is. Yes AND no. Why? Since there are two types of Romantic. The Romantic that is clearly unintentional, and the Romantic that is "stolen". Unintentional Romance, is paying attention to her when she needs you to, taking her out to see the stars because you want to see it with her, giving her specific flowers because she said she loves them. While the stolen Romance is, watching a movie or tv show, then taking that and using it irl. One is genuine romance, the other is pretend. Of course it'll smell fishy if you tried to force it, and even if you're a good actor and can get past how weird it is to try those cheesy moves, you can't keep it up! Be romantic by loving her, don't be romantic by tricking her with an alter ego! THAT is annoying.

[Psychotic-Panda]

It's definitely appreciated, but there can be a limit. I hung out with this guy who liked me, and he was just acting too affectionate towards me. It was annoying but it could have also been because I didn't like him like that.
Just one or two acts a day sends a really positive message.

[Arsi9]

And if you like the guy and he is so romantic then?

[Psychotic-Panda]

I would appreciate it. I enjoy romantic actions.

[Arsi9]

Ahaaaa great 😍

[Anonymous]

There is no such thing as being too romantic, sweet or cheesy :) Girls love feeling wanted, complimented, cherished, appreciated, sexy, and that the guy actually puts effort into the relationship :) It's better than the guy who doesn't even bother calling or makes her his last priority. Keep up the good work lol :)

[Arsi9]

Wawo 😍😍😍

[OjosOscuros2]

I don’t mind romantic and sweet, but cheesy is annoying. More importantly, not knowing what your partner likes is what causes annoyance I think. Like with me for example, I won’t appreciate flowers as much because I think it’s a waste of money. A surprise trip to my favorite custard spot is a million times better. Just gotta get to know your girl and you’ll be good.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

If u don't like him
What about then?

[OjosOscuros2]

@SUMAIREBRAHIM if I don’t like him then everything he does will be annoying.

[azzntittiz]

No, but I guess it's the vibe he gives off. When a man loves me and craves me it's sexy. When it's only lust and I detect I'm being used I want to kick his eyes out, so it's yes and no, it depends on how I feel about the guy and how he feels about me.

[Lynzerilee]

Too much of everything is always negative. Being a hopeless romantic, I still try to make a line between how I imagine and think loving a person is like, how I do it, and what overdoing it is and feels like. To me romance is all about the everyday thoughtful caring small gestures, more than the big things meant to be romantic.

[VaIiant]

Depends on the romance. Being clingy and over the top cheesy and thinking I can’t do stuff for myself? I’ve ended relationships because of that. Genuinely looking out for me, and doing sweet little things and being kind to me? That’s not annoying. I’m not a romantic, person, though.

[fjh80]

They might act like it, but I think they prefer the effort to no effort.

It's like "cat calling", they act annoyed but they secretly like it. (In most cases)

That being said, don't be too cheesy, and don't get carried away. Trying TOO hard might scare them away.

Love is a two way street.

[Moonchild714]

Some may, but I think in general most don't. The pics fir this question aren't about romance they are about sex. That's what may annoy a woman when a guy does romantic stuff only for sex. It's more romantic when sex doesn't even play a role during the romantic gesture...

[A_Bell]

What's wrong with sex? This seemingly fake dislike or repulsion of sex is strange to me.

[Moonchild714]

@A_Bell, who said anything about disliking sex, I love Sex, everyone here knows that, but Romance and Sex are not hand in hand... You see guys who only use Romance to get laid is frustrates women, it shouldn't be done to make us feel obligated... If a guy does the Romance correctly he is always pleasantly surprised how giving we are later!!!

[Arsi9]

Lol I hate sex but I love romance too much that my girl sometimes starts crying 😐

[Moonchild714]

Arsi9, good for you, romance your gal

[Arsi9]

What will she thought if I romance a lot but didn't sex for weeks?

[Moonchild714]

Every woman is different. I love sex, I wouldn't want to go weeks without having sex with my SO, but she may be fine with it.

[Arsi9]

Thanks for your opinions 😍😍😍

[Moonchild714]

You're welcome, always my pleasure 😉

[Arsi9]

👍👍👍

[wherearetheavocados]

It depends on what kind of romantic things you do. When you do it by buying her flowers and stuff it’s not annoying. But when you do it in texts and stuff I kinda think it is.

[Arsi9]

🌼😊

[Beautybynature]

Nope! not at all.
I love masculine energy! I love MEN! but I also love him to be rough on the outside and soft/romantic/sweet with me!!!

[Unit1]

I love to see women saying they Love men 😍

[Arsi9]

You are awesome 🍓😂

[ShawnB]

It most definitely depends on the woman. Some women would rather have some space, but I think if a woman really loves you and wants to be with you she would want your attention. I am an attention junkie so I tend to give the same. It has got me some disappointment because I want to be affectionate a lot and they did not.

[Bribree18]

Omg I just tied them!! My answer was no. I mean, sure there are boundaries between affectionate and creepy, but 8/10 times I want a guy who is affectionate and playful with me.

[Arsi9]

Hmm another one wawo 👍🙃

[Arsi9]

By the way why you will tie them 😥

[Julia420]

I love when he’s being romantic. I don't know it shows that he genuinely likes me. Last time he did something cheesy I started crying cuz I really don’t deserve a guy like him

[reventon4]

Hmmmm🤔

[Arsi9]

I noticed that too, sometimes the girls cry if someone loves her very much, I don't know why 🤣

[Arsi9]

Girls like romance then why they cry 🤔

[Julia420]

Happy tears

[Arsi9]

Okay 😊

[mooky06]

Definitely not with me. I would encourage that as much as possible (with me). Not sure about other girls

[Arsi9]

😍 I wish all girls have same feeling or thinking in this case 🤣

[mooky06]

I would hope more guys that were interested in me did more stuff like this. It seems to be very censored 😒 limited

[Arsi9]

What is meaning of (influencer) here?

[mooky06]

“Influencers are members of our community who have a high MHO%, ask engaging questions, and have high overall interaction in certain topics on the site. These members have been identified as helpful, knowledgeable, or simply post interesting content about specific topics”

[Arsi9]

Ok ok 😊

[windknowsmyname]

Yes, yes they will. Cause either theyll be insecure or they dont like it all together. Very small number would accept it.

[Arsi9]

Sighs 😩

[windknowsmyname]

But but but Arsiiiiii! Thats how some are bro bro. They feel they can't compete and feel insecure about multiple things. Women sometimes over think or over react in a good way. Much like "what can i do to top what he's doing?" To "its kinda irritating a bit"

[Arsi9]

Now you are confusing me lol 🤣

[windknowsmyname]

Okay, just know its its something you shouldn't do.

[You_Cant_See_Me]

I think they do. Women have created this impossible situation for men and it’s because they’re coddled and put up on pedestals. Be funny, but not too funny. Be compassionate but don’t smother me. Be into my body but stop looking at me as a piece of meat. It’s like impossible for a man to do anything right and it’s because females are programmed to believe that they’re princesses and men have to kiss their ass

[potatoismee]

Only if all he does is being romantic and cheesy because I have a huge sense of humour and I wanna share that with someone. So even the romantic moments can turn to sarcasm. And very few guys can be truly romantic 😂 a lot of them just come off as cringy

[Arsi9]

Your huge sense of humor and your too much romantic partner wawo 🤗 you will be awesome couple