Do girls get annoyed if a guy is too romantic/sweet/cheesy?

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Do girls get annoyed if a guy is too romantic/sweet/cheesy?

blondfrog · Accepted Answer

No some girls are into that cheesy shit and I love that <3. 😍😍😍😍
Cause I am into that cheesy romantic shit too. Fucking I just wanna take her back to my house in the dark with the lights dimmed from the multi scented candle lights. After she finishes eating with me I want her to tell me about her day only to interrupt her with kisses 😍.

Syrian_survivor · Accepted Answer

From personal experience yes lmao I've always been the one to give the most love in a relationship, i have yet to meet a girl who can love me more than i'll love her haha

PinkMichae · Accepted Answer

I can't imagine why a woman would get annoyed considering a woman's number one complaint is their man stops being romantic once he has her. I myself have never been with someone that romantic. But I would appreciate the effort he makes to make me feel loved.

Aeleen · Accepted Answer

No. If she gets annoyed then she's stupid and not that sincere.

LovingZombi · Answer

most girls i know complain about being to clingy...
But, once out of the relationship and with another they complain they aren't romantic enough...(and i wonder if their ever satisfied?)
i dont care personally of the degree, as long as i have my space bubble when i need it.
i love when i guy is cheesy with some jokes here and there because i can laugh and have a connection of humor.
Also being sweet would be nice, however
sometimes people can be rude and hurt others feelings and if he's too sweet he'll just be walked all over on and get hurt in the process. And i would be that line for helping the guy out.

Alice2398 · Answer

For me yes if I don't like them in that way it can make me feel uncomfortable, embarrassed and cringe. I hate to be the centre of attention and I've had guy's make grand gestures in front of everyone before like being serenaded in front of the whole school when I was 14. I nearly dead of embarrassment (literally the most embarrassing thing what ever happened to me). I'm a simple person when it comes to romance I prefer it to be in private, I'd much rather a guy cook me dinner and bye me flowers than get a horse and carriage and take me for a fancy overpriced restaurant but I would still appreciate but he wanted to make so much effort for me.

Danishkabby · Answer

My take is. Yes AND no. Why? Since there are two types of Romantic. The Romantic that is clearly unintentional, and the Romantic that is "stolen". Unintentional Romance, is paying attention to her when she needs you to, taking her out to see the stars because you want to see it with her, giving her specific flowers because she said she loves them. While the stolen Romance is, watching a movie or tv show, then taking that and using it irl. One is genuine romance, the other is pretend. Of course it'll smell fishy if you tried to force it, and even if you're a good actor and can get past how weird it is to try those cheesy moves, you can't keep it up! Be romantic by loving her, don't be romantic by tricking her with an alter ego! THAT is annoying.

Psychotic-Panda · Answer

It's definitely appreciated, but there can be a limit. I hung out with this guy who liked me, and he was just acting too affectionate towards me. It was annoying but it could have also been because I didn't like him like that.
Just one or two acts a day sends a really positive message.

Anonymous · Answer

There is no such thing as being too romantic, sweet or cheesy :) Girls love feeling wanted, complimented, cherished, appreciated, sexy, and that the guy actually puts effort into the relationship :) It's better than the guy who doesn't even bother calling or makes her his last priority. Keep up the good work lol :)

OjosOscuros2 · Answer

I don’t mind romantic and sweet, but cheesy is annoying. More importantly, not knowing what your partner likes is what causes annoyance I think. Like with me for example, I won’t appreciate flowers as much because I think it’s a waste of money. A surprise trip to my favorite custard spot is a million times better. Just gotta get to know your girl and you’ll be good.

azzntittiz · Answer

No, but I guess it's the vibe he gives off. When a man loves me and craves me it's sexy. When it's only lust and I detect I'm being used I want to kick his eyes out, so it's yes and no, it depends on how I feel about the guy and how he feels about me.

Lynzerilee · Answer

Too much of everything is always negative. Being a hopeless romantic, I still try to make a line between how I imagine and think loving a person is like, how I do it, and what overdoing it is and feels like. To me romance is all about the everyday thoughtful caring small gestures, more than the big things meant to be romantic.

VaIiant · Answer

Depends on the romance. Being clingy and over the top cheesy and thinking I can’t do stuff for myself? I’ve ended relationships because of that. Genuinely looking out for me, and doing sweet little things and being kind to me? That’s not annoying. I’m not a romantic, person, though.

fjh80 · Answer

They might act like it, but I think they prefer the effort to no effort.

It's like "cat calling", they act annoyed but they secretly like it. (In most cases)

That being said, don't be too cheesy, and don't get carried away. Trying TOO hard might scare them away.

Love is a two way street.

ShawnB · Answer

It most definitely depends on the woman. Some women would rather have some space, but I think if a woman really loves you and wants to be with you she would want your attention. I am an attention junkie so I tend to give the same. It has got me some disappointment because I want to be affectionate a lot and they did not.

Moonchild714 · Answer

Some may, but I think in general most don't. The pics fir this question aren't about romance they are about sex. That's what may annoy a woman when a guy does romantic stuff only for sex. It's more romantic when sex doesn't even play a role during the romantic gesture...

wherearetheavocados · Answer

It depends on what kind of romantic things you do. When you do it by buying her flowers and stuff it’s not annoying. But when you do it in texts and stuff I kinda think it is.

Beautybynature · Answer

Nope! not at all.   I love masculine energy! I love MEN! but I also love him to be rough on the outside and soft/romantic/sweet with me!!!

You_Cant_See_Me · Answer

I think they do. Women have created this impossible situation for men and it’s because they’re coddled and put up on pedestals. Be funny, but not too funny. Be compassionate but don’t smother me. Be into my body but stop looking at me as a piece of meat. It’s like impossible for a man to do anything right and it’s because females are programmed to believe that they’re princesses and men have to kiss their ass

Bribree18 · Answer

Omg I just tied them!! My answer was no. I mean, sure there are boundaries between affectionate and creepy, but 8/10 times I want a guy who is affectionate and playful with me.

Julia420 · Answer

I love when he’s being romantic. I don't know it shows that he genuinely likes me. Last time he did something cheesy I started crying cuz I really don’t deserve a guy like him

mooky06 · Answer

Definitely not with me. I would encourage that as much as possible (with me). Not sure about other girls

windknowsmyname · Answer

Yes, yes they will. Cause either theyll be insecure or they dont like it all together. Very small number would accept it.

potatoismee · Answer

Only if all he does is being romantic and cheesy because I have a huge sense of humour and I wanna share that with someone. So even the romantic moments can turn to sarcasm. And very few guys can be truly romantic 😂 a lot of them just come off as cringy

beach_chick · Answer

Having a romantic guy is amazing. I would never get annoyed at it. I actually wish my boyfriend was more romantic!

SodaCheeks · Answer

I don't know why, but I do sometimes haha. Maybe it's because I'm not into cheesyness romance and am a more straightfoward person

CaffeinatedCactus · Answer

No I think a sweet guy is cute. There aren't enough of them in the world! Just dont over do it either. I dont want flowers and magic every single day Haha

Titanic1912 · Answer

I would hope not. I would love to give my woman as much romance as I can. From the pictures, I'd love to take a bath with my woman and kiss her like that all the time!

brendon76 · Answer

No I don’t think so and have never had a girl tell me to knock it off. But I do think it depends on the girl. If she is not a romantic then she isn’t going to enjoy it and it may bother her. But if she is all mushy and loves cute sweet things she will eat it up.

SaintJonesy · Answer

Mostly yes. It's just not 'cool' for a guy to give a shit. In our society, we see being apathetic as the ideal way to be, especially for men who are already supposed to be detached and uncaring.

Women, for the most part, want to take a guy who can't express himself that way and turn him into one who can. If a man comes pre-packaged like that, women assume he is faking it (as that isn't the "norm" for men's gender role) and will be skeptical.

BOUNTYGUY9 · Answer

l am very loyal and romantic /loving/ caring /and very sweet l love my girl more than she will ever know and l respect every part of my girl and always will she is my number one girl and only girl l wish to have in my life for ever and more yes and we did meet on this site girls and guys yours always xxxx

Bliss-taylor · Answer

Most women would love it. Unless she's just not that into him.

just_sarah · Answer

YES, if the guy gives a girl all of his attention, hugs her 24/7 and wants to kiss all the time it gets really annoying. I think that many girls say that they wouldn't mind a boy that is too clingy until they start to date one

bethshepherd · Answer

You say if he is too romantic, too much means it is too much so no need to ask the question. You cannot have too much of anything and be happy with it! Most guys are not at all romantic or only pretend to be.

MindYourEyes · Answer

Oh no. I love extra cheese. Ts the only kind of cheese I’d enjoy! :).

shan_shan · Answer

No, how i wish i would meet a guy like that cause its like mission impossible in my family

princess_amanda · Answer

No, omg I want a romantic and sweet man. I'm hopeless romantic lol.

Username96 · Answer

I wish my boyfriend was more romantic and cheesy. He doesn’t do shit.

CarismaMike · Answer

What girls want and what they say they want are totally different things. With time the effort on building the relationship changes and energies are spent elsewhere instead of all the romance.

splashofyellow · Answer

I do because I'm not a very romantic person. Most things generally perceived romantic just make me cringe.

JennyDarling · Answer

Depends. Does she find him attractive or have feelings for him? If she does then she'll most likely enjoy it, but if she doesn't then the answer will be the opposite

Anonymous · Answer

what girls image in their head  what girls really do they are not romantic  women are liars and think that pleasing themselves will satisfy them

asyouwereekt · Answer

It's nice and cute when a guy is romantic: this shows his calmer side. However too much can mean he's a bit girlish, which isn't manly. Enough is enough

Abbas1996 · Answer

Yes never do it at first. being romantic is for the time you're positive about her feelings for you. Otherwise you just make her disgusted

levantine99 · Answer

find the few girls that DONT hate it. cause most do to a degree. dont let the post fool you. same with you guys and us romantic girls. you dont like too cingy and investing in it.

devilman666 · Answer

Not from my experience, I get embarrassed by how romantic and cheesy I can naturally be, but my it seems to work a surprising amount, my girlfriend really likes it at the very least.

smolfish · Answer

I said I would get annoyed. The keyword in the question is "too" cheesy. Meaning, in excess. I think being extreme, even in seemingly good traits, is off putting.

Sayitagain · Answer

depends om the girl. but it can run the risk of.. 1 seeming disingenous 2 being stifling 3 ruining the mystery and excitememt of a little uncertainty 4 being unoriginal and less special

Sablekiss · Answer

Oh GOD I wish this was my problem. A man buying me flowers, and taking me out to romantic evenings to the symphony, theatre, ballet and writing me love notes. FML!!! lol lol lol

flowery123 · Answer

The pictures are hot cheesy like wearing matching shirts and saying you’re cute no you’re cuter no you’re the cutest makes me wanna actually vom

Thatguyti · Answer

Yes and especially don’t ask women this kind of question they’re never honest. And they don’t really know what they want

Anonymous · Answer

Most of them just prefer you be an asshole and act like you don't care most of the time, but then every once in a while pretend like you do care. They can deny it all they want and they will because the truth hurts. But I've seen far too many women with guys that act exactly the way I described for it to just be a coincidence.

NourSy · Answer

too much sweetness will make her wanna drink water, so be water my friend. Shapeless - fuck boy clear - polite assertive guy kills the thirst- good in bed.

Anonymous · Answer

I think I'll cringe because of it but (I secretly love it) hahaha

CarpetDenim · Answer

@disgustingweebtrash Be more romantic, sweet, and cheesy

Walkerrose · Answer

If anyone does anything "too" much, the other person is bound to get annoyed.

hotdogliquid · Answer

We have differnt likes and dislikes. I like it to be subtle sometimes i have days when i feel depressed and don't need to hair compliments sometimes i do. You just can't tell

Anonymous · Answer

I think some girls like it and some girls get annoyed. It all depends on the girl but I voted No, they don't get annoyed because I think a majority of girls in the world do and would like a romantic and sweet guy.

vishna · Answer

Never, if my boyfriend cherishes me, I like it. As long as he isn't throwing money at me, I'm happy with romantic gestures.

Logorithim · Answer

It's possible to go too far, so, yes. Too much lovey-dovey stuff rather than actions that show you are romantic will become annoying pretty quick.

Hurlyburly · Answer

Too much of anything would be annoying, but I do like romantic/sweet/cheesy behaviour in general, especially inside of a relationship.

InkedUpMom · Answer

I want a guy to be romantic but don't want him being a big softy that lets egg gone walk all over him... a happy medium would be awesome

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Love it! Just don't suffocate me because I need a bit of space.

PrincessPie · Answer

Only if I’m not into him, if I fancy him and see him romantically I’d love it 💓

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