Honestly neither option is great but you only gave 2 choices.
A girl who is affectionate and wants to be close/touching at appropriate times is great (for me anyway). Probably not so great with major PDA though. Holding hands walking down the street is good - I actually love how my wife has always held my arm whenever we're walking somewhere like into a store. Once inside she may continue to hold on for a bit but then let go so we can shop.
When you are at home and alone, laying together, holding each other, cuddling... all great things! For me though, when its time to go to sleep, I need my space. I cannot do the whole spooning thing to fall asleep to.
I guess if a girl was 'super affectionate' all the time, public and private at home, it might be a little annoying if it's an all the time thing. You both need a little time for personal space, even if you are together in the same room. It's really a timing thing and also a frequency thing. Too much of anything is usually not a good thing. You need balance in your relationship.
I like it although there might be some threshold (but I think mine is quite wide since I like holding hands and cuddling and so forth). The bigger question to me is not how affectionate she is when we're free together but how she's like if I'm busy or focused on something else. At some point, it can start to become distracting and annoying if I'm trying to focus on something and she's jumping on top of me and constantly trying to pull my attention away from or, much worse, gets upset when I can't cuddle with her 24/7.
I’m a super affectionate girl. But sometimes I think it annoys people. From the way I was raised My parents hardly hug me too, so whenever I barely make a friend. Guy or girl, I get emotionally excited (cause I don’t have friends) I instantly hug them and wrap my arms around them and kiss them on the cheek. Some people question it and get annoyed by it. So now, I’m limiting myself from doing that.
I’m an overly affectionate and needy girl and I don’t think my partner has much of a problem with it. He’s never told me he finds it annoying, but I know it can be distressing if I get upset when I’m not getting as much of his attention as I’d like. He deals with it pretty well though all things considered, and he does satisfy my needs most of the time.
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My partner is very affectionate when we are alone. Maybe I fell for her because she loves body contact with me, even if she sleeps.
I had a partner who loved me before. As the love died all the mutual tenderness, affection and desire for cuddling disappeared.
I definitely would prefer a very affectionate one, one who loves hugging and kissing me all the time and whose arms always find themselves wrapped around me in a very tight embrace.
I want a woman who can't keep from loving on me and showering me with affection, the more, the better.😌
I'm more low-energy and "grounded", so it's a good balance to date a high energy girl who's more flighty and expressive and will initiate physical affection without me asking. I wanna date a girl who will jump on my back and randomly kiss me like in that photo lol
I dunno about super affectionate. But a semi-normal amount would be nice. I do enjoy quality time with my spouse. And affectionate can also lead to other things.
I can see why it is annoying, but I wouldn't find it annoying to be honest. I'm the kind of person who expresses love a lot by touch (as in not just sex). Hugs, kisses and all that kind of stuff just soothes me.
I like it. I am very affectionate myself. So it's a good match if we are both very affectionate.
I like a girl who is affectionate, and frequently shows it. But if a girl is overly affectionate, that is a problem.
I would probably be fine with it. Just wouldn't be into the PDA part. Hand holding, sure. Hugging, sure. But kissing? Nah.
There's a certain balance to be had here but... personally i appreciate affection a lot, it just make me happy and warm. My relationship i get a little less than i would like but enough.
I can't imagine a woman being too affectionate. I mean c'mon, unless she's just manipulative affection is a disolay of love. Why would that ever be a bad thing?
I wouldn't know, no girls ever made an effort too ever want try to feel or know the deep self within my heart, mind.
I would definitely prefer that over a girl who isn't affectionate at all, but I would like it if she didn't make a huge scene in public and knew to give me some space every now and then.
There has to be a certain balance. If she is too affectionate it makes me think she is insecure about something.
I would be weirded out if she wasn't
I am very affectionate too
It makes me feel appreciated.
10/10 for affectionate girls
In public I'd prefer only holding hands, or maybe a hug. I don't want to kiss and stuff when others are around watching.
At home if she was stuck to me like glue that would be fine with me.
The key word is "overly," which is too much by definition.
I would like to be ruled by my girlfriend where she can fuck me anytime, anywhere be it public or private
Would love to get nude the moment she orders, be it anywhere
I would find it annoying. I'm an introvert and I like my private space. I would like her to only be affectione behind closed doors. I would comprimise and hold hands with her.
If i had a girl love me that much to always want to be around / have physical contact with me i think id float a little.
if i really like a girl i love being affectionate and having that reciprocated by her.
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