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Yeah I would I have had guy friends sit on my lap if a girl can why not a guy
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
Yeah I would because I'm closer with my guy friends than I am with girls I would not hug them because I don't like hugs but me and my guy friends are close like that
So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
For the first situation it would depend on how close I was with the guy I I just met them then it would be weird but if I was close with them it would be fine
For the second situation I would offer for them to sit on my lap or share the chair with me
My guy friends sit in my lap all the time , it's completely okay (: and it doesn't matter the gender
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
Yeah I would, or I'd sit in his. Depending on how close I was to him I would hug him, and yeah depending on how close I am they will just sit in my lap, and no it wouldn't be different to me.
Sure
I have a really close guy friend named Chad we have known each other since 3rd grade. Even if there was space on the couch he'd come and sit on my lap and I'd always wrap my arms around his waist and lay my head on his back. Honestly in any situation cause a lot of my friends are outgoing , they will sit on my lap whenever.
I see
So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and the guy friend (Chad) sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend (Chad) standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
Why do you always hug Chad? Do you alway hug him while he sits on your lap? Also do you have a nickname for Chad that you call him or just Chad?
1. i would totally be okay with this, it's not like he's reaching down my pants or anything. If I'm just sitting and he comes over and sits on me I'd just wrap my arms around him and continue conversing, I wouldn't find it weird at all
2. In that situation it really depends I can give him options, I'd either give him my seat, have him sit in my lap or I sit in his
I huge Chad because he's been there for me since as long as I can remember and we are huggers toward each other and yes I always hug him when he sits in my lap, and yes I call him My Strawberry cause he has strawberry blonde hair
in scenario # 2 which option would you likely do first if you were sitting down and he was standing?
Would you still wrap your arms around him if you offered first? What would you usually tell Chad when you offer?
also whats your Instagram ill follow you mine is sarahsan93 your profile pick is really cute
I'd let him sit on me and if he asked if it could be the other way around I'd sit in his lap, I would still wrap my arms around him. And I'd tell him Do you wanna sit in my lap? , And my Instagram is Samanthaagerton
Thank you so is yours!
Ok last time I let any guy friend of mine do that I was 10-11 years old and the piece of shit farted on me- so just for that it's a no.
Gender doesn’t matter in that because I wouldn’t and haven’t let any friend vagina or penis sit on my lap. My lap is for books, babies etc
Why would a guy sit on your lap. It should be the other way around for lap dances.
I don't know its personal space i think it depends how close u are to him and if u have a boyfriend who doesn't mind
Nobody sits on my lap. Period. Too small for that shit.
I allow only a few friends to that they are the ones I trust and I care about
I do that with the lads plenty of times, sure.
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
also follow me on Instagram sarahsan93 :) You are cute by the way
Yeah, I would offer. I probably wouldn't wrap my arms around his waist cause I don't feel like that's needed, it's not like he's gonna fall off.
If we're close friends, sure. I'm guessing that it depends on the situation but I would rather not have that in front of his girlfriend since she may be awkward about it.
It's usually when there's not enough space for everyone and we don't see it as a big deal.
1. It depends on how close we are as friends.
2. I would suggest if he wants to sit on my lap, obviously.
what would you say and do when you offer normally?
for situation 1 "You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend (assuming you two are really close) sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
If you guys are really close can he sit on your lap without permission?
Also do your girlfriends sit on your lap?
I'd simply say "hey, you can sit on my lap.".
Yes, I would be okay with that. I'm chill, I wouldn't say anything.
Yes, he can.
Sure, it's the same thing.
I would if he isn't thst heavy
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
also follow me on Instagram sarahsan93 :) You are really pretty by the way
I would offer my seat before I'd offer my lap. I wouldn't wrap my arms around him.
No he should ask first. A Girlfriend would change it. That would be to intimate for me and I could understand that she wpuld be uncomfortable with it. Even if it doesn't mean anything to me or him.
Never experienced it.
I'd offer him my seat if he has to stand for a long time
I only use instagram for memes. I don't post anything or follow anyone besides meme accounts
I meant what if it was a girl-friend instead of a guy friend in this situation?
I'd be more comfortable with a girl. I would offer her my lap
When I was younger. But now I don't
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
I think it's completely fine
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
I mean my friends can sit without asking
I am almost certain I have answered this before
it wasn't my question I don't know
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
also follow me on Instagram sarahsan93 :) you look really cute by the way
Oh wow okk uh how bout I answer that another time cause it’s 3:24 am and I am deadbeat
and lol thanks
Never done that, we share the seat, like half
even with a girl-friend?
Yeah, i couldn't , not when I was younger, i was pregnant and they didn't want to hurt me or I didn't want to sit on them in case I was more weight them I thought
If i wanted to sleep with him i would
if you wanted to sleep with him:
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
They never have, but if they did I wouldn’t care
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
Ok:
1. No I would not offer my lap.
2. I would put my arms beside my thighs or yes I would hug them if we were close.
3. Yes, but I imagine my guy friends would sit then look at me, laugh and get off my lap just to annoy me.
4. I guess it would be different, I imagine my girl friends would sit on my lap and stay there, hoping I wouldn’t mind, which tbh I wouldn’t care. Though if a guy sat on my lap with the intention of doing this and not annoying me, I would have the same reaction as with the girls.
5. That a guy friend would do it to annoy me.
6. They don’t, ever.
when you said your girlfriends would sit on your my lap and stay there, hoping you wouldn’t mind, which you wouldn’t care, why wouldn't you care if they sat with the intention of staying their?
Would you let your guy friends do the same if they wanted to?
If a guy friend sat on your lao for that intention and you were close to them would you hug him?
So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
I would say it depends
What does it depend on?
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
- if you think its okay
- if you want him to be your boyfriend
- if you don’t think anything of it
- if he is gay
It doesn't matter tbh
because a couple days ago a guy friend who I was close with did not have a chair so I let him sit on my lap I offered him to sit on my lap. Would you have done the same?
Would you offer first if you saw one of your guy friends standing?
I would just offer my chair or that could work too
haha but what if he said that you could sit if he offered your chair if he said that? What would you do then?
Yeah if we are good friends
if you are good friends you would do what?
What would you say if you were offering to him as well?
Would you wrap your arms around his waist if he was a close friend? and why?
Have your female friends ever sat on your lap before and would it be different if it was a guy friend doing that?
I feel like I’ve seen this question before. But if a random guy sat on your lap that would be weird and I would wrap my hands around his waist maybe if he’s my boyfriend lol
Jaylee I also still have a question on this if you don't mind me asking I'm doing a social interaction project
So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
(this is not a random guy this is a close guy friend)
its just like I've been in a situation like this in the past so I was wondering your opinion on this
if you don't mind giving your honest opinion because in this situation I would let a guy friend sit on my lap but what would you do?
I don't see an issue with it at all especially if we are close
If the guy isn't heavy enough, yes
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
I just wouldn't allow anyone random to sit. Depends on how close the guy friend is.
I will not necessarily hug him lol.
If it was just one of my girl friends, I would let her sit if she is not heavy too.
I’d probably get crushed.
so would you?
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
I’d sit on my guy friends lap, not the other way around. 😂
67kg on 48. Not gonna work. 😂😂
same
My friends sit in my lap sometimes even the guys.
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
is it common for guys to sit on girl's where you are from?
Yes XD all the time, it's so amusing.
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
No. I'm the 1 sitting in laps. I don't want all that weight on me. I'm tiny.
No, I let my guy friend sit on my lap and and he a little taller than my 7 y/o brother
so you would or you wouldn't?
I would
I'd rather sit on them than them sitting on me
would you let them though? If so:
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
I think it's totally fine
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
Y if there's no seat or not enough space I usually pull him on to my lap. It might be awkward if he has a crush on you but who knows? I never had a girlfriend sit on my lap xD
Yup, they sit on my lap all the time
haha I see why do they sit on your lap? Do you normally offer first for them to sit? and do you hug them while they are sitting on your lap?
also are your guy friends allowed to sit on your lap whenever they want and you would be ok with it?
I feel like I’ve had this conversation before
what do you mean I was just asking a question?
are your guy friends allowed to sit on your lap whenever they want and you would be ok with it?
The exact same questions that i was asked by another account
maybe it was similar thats weird
Janna also I want to know what you would do if you were in this situation:
So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
Would a close guy friend be allowed to sit on your lap in any situation?
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No I don't find that naturally normal but I wouldn't but I would say do what makes you feel comfortable
Nope. My guy friends sit on my lap all the time
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
Yup to all of them except the girlfriends 1 and my friend Eric sat on my lap and my guy friends sit on my lap all the time
Yeah sumtimes i like it
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
Of a boy just came and say on me nooo i wouldn't be happy lol
But if it's Simone i know then it's fine
Yes I have put my hands on a boys legs when sitting on me