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Whenever my friends in general sit on my lap I pinch their butt so that they jump up. It doesn't matter the gender to me. They are just sitting on your lap
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
After you pinch their butt do you let them sit again?
also why do you pinch their butt what do you like seeing about making them jump?
I usually don't offer, as to my friends we are usually playing. If my guy friend doesn't have a seat then I will get up, let them sit, then sit on their lap. It wouldn't de different and they don't have to ask me. I usually let them sit on me again after I pinch them, but I just find it funny for a guy to jump up and squeal
would you hug them if they sat on your lap?
So If a guy friend sat on your lap you would pinch their butt? Same with a female friend?
Will your guy friends continue to sit on you afterwards?
I didn't really understand when you said this: "I usually don't offer, as to my friends we are usually playing. If my guy friend doesn't have a seat then I will get up, let them sit, then sit on their lap. It wouldn't de different and they don't have to ask me."
You said usually who is playing? You said you would sit on them but they must sit on you as well if you pinch them?
so if your guy friend had no chair and sat on your lap would you pinch his butt and then let him sit on your lap? Would you hug him while he was sitting on your lap (especially if he was close) Would it be okay if he didn't ask you?
Yes I'd hug them. Yes I pinch them. Yes I'd pinch a girl too. They continue most of the time. I mean my friends don't really have a problem with standing up in most places, and if they sit on my lap it's for fun. If my guy friend does need a seat, I will let him take the seat and I will sit on his lap. And if a guy does sit on my lap he does not have to ask me. I do not understand this following question: "You said usually who is playing? You said you would sit on them but they must sit on you as well if you pinch them?" please re-word that. If my guy friend had no seat I would only pinch him if he sat on me to begin with. Yes, I'd hug him if he was close. And yes it's OK if he doesn't ask.
What do you mean if they sit on your lap its for fun?
Also lets just say you were somewhere and there no chairs left and it was hard for you to switch so he had to sit only your lap?
so no friend would ever sit on your lap if there were no chair available?
My male friends mainly do it as a joke, or to see what I do. And yes, if it was hard to switch I'd just let them sit on me. They could sit if there were no chairs available.
so if a guy friend sat on your lap if there were no chairs you would hug them? If it was more serious context like no chairs available would you still hug them?
I meant If it was more serious context like no chairs available would you still pinch their butt?
also when your guy friends normally sit on your lap for fun what do they normally do? how long do they usually sit on your lap for? What situations are for fun? Do you have any examples?
Yes, I'd hug them. If it were serious I wouldn't pinch them. And when they sit on me for fun it's only for a few minutes. They tug on my hair and stuff like pinch my cheeks. Pretty much any time a guy sits on my lap I make it fun
you said anytime a guy friend sits on your lap you make it fun how so? Also why would you hug them while they were sitting on your lap? What would it show?
when you pinch your girl-friends butts to how do they react?
Me and my friends try to aggravate eachother, and that's fun for us. I'd hug them just because they ate my friend, I don't have to have a reason. When I pinch my female friends butts they usually laugh and try to get me back
I see haha what will your guy friends do after you pinch their butts ussually? So you said you try aggravate each other but you will hug them? Will the aggravation be first or the hugging?
Also after you pinch them and you let them sit what do they ussually do next?
Do you have an example of this so I can better understand?
They usually leave me alone or do something like poke my boob. Doesn't matter if I aggravate or hug them first, just depends in my mood. After I let them sit, they just sit XD. Example:
Guy friend: *sits on my lap*
Me: *pinches his butt*
Guy friend: *jumps up* you bish
Me: you know I'm awesome :)
Guy friend: *sits back on my lap* yup
Me: *hugs them from behind*
Guy friend: aww!
Me: *squeezes them*
Guy friend: holy shit!
And that's how it's done done 😂😂😂
lol I liked that a lot? Im understanding better now
So after you pinch them they will sit on your lap normally and you said ranging from like (5-10 minutes) depending on the situation? Will you hug them for the whole time afterwards?
can you do one of these for you girl-friend's
also follow me on Instagram sarahsan93 :)
Yeah, I'd hug them the whole time after. And I'll follow you. Also, you mean like write another script thingy?😂
yes please
Ok-
Me:*sits down*
Girl: scoot over
Me: nope
Girl: *sits on my lap*
Me: *pinches girls butt*
Girl: *squeals*
Me: haha
Girl: *sits on my hands so that I can't move them*
Me: *squeezes her butt*
Girl: *turns around and pokes my boob*
(after this there's an awkward staring contest then it usual ends with hugs or more poking and stuff)
wait when she sits on your hands do you put your hands under her purposefully and why do you squeeze her butt afterwards?
How come you don't move when she says scoot over do you want her to sit on your lap to get a reaction out of her?
Nah, it just depends on which way my hands are facing. And most of my friends hate it when people touch their butts, so I like the fact that I can get away with it. And most of the time, I'm either too lazy to move, or in just being mean. But in other cases, I guess it's fun to see their reactions as well
haha I see so when you are too lazy to move or just being mean did you expect her to sit on your lap or try and sit somewhere else? Did you care whether she sat on your lap or no? Would there be any seats left for your friend to sit if she is asking you to scoot over or no?
So is it safe to say all of your friends are allowed to sit on your lap if they need to? And most likely the will get their butt's pinched as a result?
based on your experience whose butts are more fun to touch your girl friends or guy friend's and whose butts do you touch more? Why is it easy to get away with it?(touching their butts)
I didn't really expect anything. I don't really care whether they sit on my lap or not. Sometimes there are seats elsewhere, but my friends prefer to stay close. And yes, all if my friend can sit in my lap, and yes, I will probably pinch them. It's definitely more fun to touch guys butts bc they get more shocked. And it's easy to get away with because all my friends are close to me and we can't stay mad for long.
I see and when you hug them where will you put your arms around? Are your friends allowed to sit on your lap however long they want to (or however long they feel like being near you)? Do you ever tell them to get off or only when they feel like it?
When you said you can get away with pinching their butts is it because you are close, close in what way? In proximity or just close in terms of your relationship with one another?
also how come guy give you a better reaction when you pinch their butt? How come they aren't expecting it?
You have so many questions it's adorable 😂❤
ikr are you answering it I hope you are liking our conversation
Yeah😂-- I put my arms around their waist from behind. They can sit as long as they'd like (which isn't very long cuz I keep messing with them). And yes they can get off whenever they feel like it. I don't consider most people to be my friends, but if I do, then we are close in like a family way as I would think of it.
how would you keep messing with them? I thought after you pinched their butt you would stop?
Also how come you girl-friends don't give you better reactions then your guy friends when you pinch heir butt?
Most of the time I do stop. But you know girls are girls and the easiest thing to say is "girls always have to have the last hit" not literally in this case, but girls tend to go back and forth with eachother, so sometimes I mess with them more. And to me, when I pinch a guy's butt there reaction is more like 'how dare you', but a girls reaction is more like 'biiiitch, i know you didnt'. See what I mean? XD
I see what you mean and how would you mess with your girl-friends beyond that?
Just poke and pinch their thighs maybe
I don't think it matters it just would look funny in my opinion but that is all :) it's like a tall girl being with a short guy
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
Question 1) If i was single i would consider it but in general no.
Question 2) That happend but it was strange, and jes its different with a girl
Ugh, trust me its not that easy, i am a lot taller than my boyfriend but this kind of lap sitting still doesn't happen. (btw, short guys are cute ;) )
Agree
Yeah I don't see why not? I don't know what I'd need to explain? If there's no seats I'd ask if they wanted my seat or sit on my lap
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
Also which would you ask first? if they wanted my seat or if they wanted sit on your lap? What if they did not want you to get out of your seat then what?
1. Probably, i'd just ask if he didn't wanna stand does he wanna sit on my lap... No, I wouldn't because that's affectionate.
2. If he was a close friend yes, if it wasn't I'd consider it odd.
3. I don't have a specific situation - just if there isn't enough seats.
(1.2) - I'd ask if they wanted the seat first, then if not, my lap. If they didn't want me to get out of my seat I wouldn't..
if he was a close friend would he be allowed to sit on your lap In any situation there were no seats available whether he sat on your lap without permission or you offered?
Would you let him sit until a new seat was open?
Why could a close guy friend sit on your lap without permission?
So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
Nope. I wouldn't let anyone sit in my lap (too much body contact) unless it's my boyfriend or my younger brother 😄
I would give up my seat for people though and sit on the floor myself
how old is your younger brother
If it was your boyfriend?
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your boyfriend without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug him if they sat on your lap?
Could your boyfriend sit on your lap without asking you?
My brother is 13 😄
When I say boyfriend I mean a guy I'm in a relationship with, and not a friend that is a guy.
I would hug my boyfriend yes 😄he could sit without asking yes
Guy friends do this all the time. It's kinda cute if you see them as a little brother xD so ya it's normal
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends without a seat or somethingand what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
Yes sometimes I'll hug them. No they don't have to ask... it's fine
how will you offer you usually (what do you do or say?) and why don't you have to ask for your permission?
So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and they guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
I only have one guy friend sadly, and he's gay so yes. Guys always try to leave the friend zone and so that's why I don't have any but if I did and they were just friends I might.
would you offer your lap first if you saw one of your guy friends (or gay guy friend) without a seat or something and what would you say in your offer? Would hug them if they sat on your lap?
Could your guy friends (gay guy friend) sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend (versus a guy friend) in this situation and why?
also whats your Instagram ill follow you mine is sarahsan93 :) your profile pick is really cute
I probably wouldn't offer but if he asked or just sat on my lap I wouldn't care. No it wouldn't be different if it was a girl simply because my guy friend is like a girl friend. Aww thank you! I actually do not have Instagram, I don't use social media
would you wrap your arms around his waist if he sat on your lap and why? and could he sit on your lap even if there weren't chairs left?
Are any of your girlfriend's and guy friends allowed to sit on your lap whenever there are no seats or feel like being close to you or just being playful?
Is there something about it that you like when they sit on your lap? Do you like being close to your friends?
For that matter are both your girl or any guy friends allowed to sit on your lap if they feel like it?
Is it really okay if they don't ask for your permission first and why?
No I wouldn't wrap my arms around his waist simply because I'm not a touchy person and don't care to touch most people. They can sit on my lap for any reason, idc. No I don't like it, I just don't care. Yah idc if they don't ask, I'm pretty chill around my friends
wait so Kat if one of your friends just sat on your lap while you were talking to another friend what would you do? why wouldn't you care?
If you aren't touchy feeler why do you let them sit on your lap then?
I'd probably start jokingly grinding against them to make them feel awkward tbh 😂😂😂 because I don't care about much, it takes a lot to make me uncomfortable. Idc if people are touchy with me, I'm just not a very physically touchy person.
how long would you let them sit on your lap for? If they sat on your lap to get close to you and talk to you or be at the center of the conversation would you be okay with that?
Also what do you mean grinding against them how would you jokingly grind on them?
As long as it's not hurting my legs then they can sit as long as they want. Like move my hips against them for a moment😂😂
Thanks for the invite. Yes I would let guy friends sit on my lap and I have before. Same with female friends. I don't really think it's a big deal.
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
Not entirely sure why you are delving so deep into this but I'll humour you. Yes I would offer my lap first , no I wouldn't wrap my arms around him that seems like more of a romantic thing. Yeah if he's a close friend he wouldn't have to ask me , it would be weird if he did ask. Nope same for a close girl friend.
Once we were at a house party and all the seats were taken so I offered a guy friend my lap and he sat down then decided it would be less awkward if I sat on his lap (it was more awkward that way ) . Usually if there isn't a seat for a guy friend or if my friend group is playing around. The sitting on the lap thing always has to be in a group setting though not alone in some dark room 😂.
I see I'm doing a social interactions project for my school so I am just asking these types of questions... Thats why I'm delving into this deeply
Would you usually be the first to offer?
When your friend was standing at the party what did you tell him?
Why did you find it more awkward the other way around?
Has that guy friend sat on your lap previous times?
At that party how many people were in the room and where were you sitting at the time? When you offered why did you feel the need to offer? were other people sitting on laps or just him?
Why are they allowed to sit on your lap without your permission?
So if a guy friend is ever in a situation without any seats is he allowed to sit on your lap?
do guy friends sit on other girl's in your friend group too or primarily yours?
Lol it hasn't happened in like a year or so but I guess I'd offer first. I just patted my lap and said come sit , kind of like calling a puppy😂. I guess it was more awkward because I had to switch places not sure exactly why. I can't remember how many people were there , quite a lot though. No but earlier a guy was sitting on someone's lap , he just didn't have a place to sit. what kind of project is this anyway? You said it's social interaction research so is your topic about sitting on laps in casual settings?
They can sit on my lap because they are friends. Yes then I'd offer him a seat on my lap. Yes they did... again this was a while ago. Hope all of this helped
yes that is what my topic (but social interactions between different genders) is about and a little more... even if it was a while ago it is still helping...
About offering:
would you pat your lap and say come sit to all your guy friends if they did not have a seat?
Would you offer to any guy friend without a seat right away if you were in that situation and why? Do you like being nice and just being close with him? Is that how you so affection?
explain?
So lets say you are hanging out somewhere or about to watch a movie and one of your guy friends is standing and the seats are gone, what would you do and say? (just trying to understand more what you would do) and why?
so because you are friends guys can sit on your lap and you wouldn't find it weird or have a problem with it?
At the party how long was he sitting on your lap for before you switched?
About offering:
would you pat your lap and say come sit to all your guy friends if they did not have a seat?
Depends how long id known them for.
Would you offer to any guy friend without a seat right away if you were in that situation and why? Do you like being nice and just being close with him? Is that how you so affection?
explain?
Yes I was being nice that's all.
So lets say you are hanging out somewhere or about to watch a movie and one of your guy friends is standing and the seats are gone, what would you do and say? (just trying to understand more what you would do) and why?
I might offer him a seat on my lap because then he is more comfortable than if he were standing.
so because you are friends guys can sit on your lap and you wouldn't find it weird or have a problem with it?
Yes.
At the party how long was he sitting on your lap for before you switched?
Like 5 min maybe.
Glad to have helped , goodluck with your project , I won't be answering anymore questions.
I've had both male and female friends sitting on my lap, and I've sat on the laps of both male and female friends. It doesn't really matter to me
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
I think its ok. The only time I've ever said no is when a guy much bigger than me try to sit on my lap
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Do you have a specific experience in mind? and what situations do your guy friends normally sit on your lap?
I’d probably let my boyfriend do it xD? .. I don’t remember having one guy yet sitting on my lap before but i know some wanted to xD..
Has your boyfriend ever sat on your lap before?
Is he allowed to sit on your lap whenever he wants to?
Would you offer him to sit on your lap and what do you say when you offer?
Can he sit on your lap without asking you?
I would allow him to sit on my lap XD but i know there’s times im probably gonna want him off cause he maybe too heavy for me XDD I could understand him doing it and would allow it from him cause i’m serious about him lols.
I’d probably joke with him and say don’t fart on me XD lols