So I like this girl. I don't know if she likes me back, but I think she might. We train together in a sport called squash about 3-4 times a week. She doesn't have any difficulty talking to me, but she's sometimes kind of mean to me and sometimes nice.
Reasons I think she might like me:
-A few days before her birthday, her brother kept telling me like four times in a row really enthusiastically that it was her birthday coming up, and I think that might have been because she told him she liked me (but maybe not)
-This weekend I was in a squash tournament in a club (squash is a sport like tennis but indoors and in a closed court), and I had a game coming up on Thursday. I was on the bike warming up, and she kept walking a few meters away from me from one side of the gym to the other, and didn't seem to really be doing anything to show why she would do that. Whenever she did, I tried to catch her eye to say "hi", but she never looked at me, even though she could probably see me looking at her in her periphery. Also, she knows me pretty well, so I'm surprised she didn't say hi to me, but maybe it was because she was trying to make me notice her and want her to say hi to me. Later while I was still on the bike, she sat about 15 meters away from me on some bleachers in plain sight (like, she sat right in front of me so I could easily see her), talking to a guy about a year younger than her for about a minute. Then, once he went away, she turned around quickly (probably to see if I was looking at her), and I was kind of looking at her, but I pretended I was looking at something going on beside her (a squash match), and she noticed that I was watching the match, and looked around quickly to see what I was looking at (she pretty much did a 360 while sitting down - well not moving her whole body, but looked all the way around with her neck/head). I'm guessing/hoping she was trying to make me jealous or something?
-Today I was on the bike cooling down after a match, and her brother came to talk to me (just say hi, etc.). I asked him how he was doing in the tournament. Then I asked him how A (I'll call his sister "A" haha) was doing, and his eyes lit up and he said excitedly, "A?" and I said yeah, and he told me how she was doing in the tournament, but he looked really excited, and I'm guessing/hoping that's because he knows his sister likes me.
So, what do you think of what I've said?
Also, how should I act towards her? I'm out of the tournament now, but she's in it, and tomorrow I'm probably going to go to the club and watch some games, and I'll probably see her then.
And thanks for reading my long description :D
Reasons I think she might like me:
-A few days before her birthday, her brother kept telling me like four times in a row really enthusiastically that it was her birthday coming up, and I think that might have been because she told him she liked me (but maybe not)
-This weekend I was in a squash tournament in a club (squash is a sport like tennis but indoors and in a closed court), and I had a game coming up on Thursday. I was on the bike warming up, and she kept walking a few meters away from me from one side of the gym to the other, and didn't seem to really be doing anything to show why she would do that. Whenever she did, I tried to catch her eye to say "hi", but she never looked at me, even though she could probably see me looking at her in her periphery. Also, she knows me pretty well, so I'm surprised she didn't say hi to me, but maybe it was because she was trying to make me notice her and want her to say hi to me. Later while I was still on the bike, she sat about 15 meters away from me on some bleachers in plain sight (like, she sat right in front of me so I could easily see her), talking to a guy about a year younger than her for about a minute. Then, once he went away, she turned around quickly (probably to see if I was looking at her), and I was kind of looking at her, but I pretended I was looking at something going on beside her (a squash match), and she noticed that I was watching the match, and looked around quickly to see what I was looking at (she pretty much did a 360 while sitting down - well not moving her whole body, but looked all the way around with her neck/head). I'm guessing/hoping she was trying to make me jealous or something?
-Today I was on the bike cooling down after a match, and her brother came to talk to me (just say hi, etc.). I asked him how he was doing in the tournament. Then I asked him how A (I'll call his sister "A" haha) was doing, and his eyes lit up and he said excitedly, "A?" and I said yeah, and he told me how she was doing in the tournament, but he looked really excited, and I'm guessing/hoping that's because he knows his sister likes me.
So, what do you think of what I've said?
Also, how should I act towards her? I'm out of the tournament now, but she's in it, and tomorrow I'm probably going to go to the club and watch some games, and I'll probably see her then.
And thanks for reading my long description :D
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Thanks for the answers :)
Do you have any tips on hinting that I like her?
Do you have any tips on hinting that I like her?
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She likes me! :D
I was hanging around her and her brothers. One was five years old. He looked at me and then his sister, and said to his sister, "Haha, I'm going to tell him". So obviously he was going to tell me she liked me. Then when she left, he
I was hanging around her and her brothers. One was five years old. He looked at me and then his sister, and said to his sister, "Haha, I'm going to tell him". So obviously he was going to tell me she liked me. Then when she left, he
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was going to tell me something, and I asked what, and he sheepishly said, "no, never mind". But he kept trying to tell me but then kept deciding not to. He said, "If I told you, you would be like, 'How do you know that?'". He also said that he found out
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from his brothers and sisters. But I just told him, "Well if you're not supposed to tell me, don't tell me, because I don't want you to get in trouble" because I knew what he was going to tell me. So yay! Anyways, now what? Any ideas of what to
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do now that I know she likes me?
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Also, not that I'm super self-conscious, but I thought all girls liked tall guys... She's a few inches taller than me, and I'm pretty skinny. But I'm happy anyways that she likes me :D!
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Okay guys, I know that a lot of you are just gonna say "Ask her out!", but it's more complicated. Anyways, right now it'd be great if you could just give me ideas on how to get her to know that I like her back - do you have any flirting tips and stuff?
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