Boyfriend's mom is getting annoying?

[lore20]

Well again my bf's mother is being a pain. After 6 months that we've been dating she says that I'm nice and everything but I'm not for her son. She judge me because I wasn't born here, because I don't have enough money, because I'm a little bit dark (tan skin) because I'm Colombian, because for her I'm a gold digger which I'm not cause unlike my boyfriend I work I pay for my bills. She just doesn't like me. I don't know what to do or behave because I know she's been saying all that stuff to my boyfriend so that he can break up with me.

[NiGhtx3]

Just continue to be who you really are. There will be times people in our lives accuse us of things we didn't do or are the opposite of who we really are. Just at least tell her in a nice way , that you are not like that even though I know sometimes the accusation makes you lose the strength to speak up for yourself. Cause one day , time will tell. It's easy for them to say such things becos they don't know you well. Consider the fact that it's not like you and his mom always spent time knowing each other right. Wait for the right time where you can prove who you really are. Maybe you can try to know what his mom like(favourite restaurant/food,activites) , then do those things with her . Don't ask your boyfriend along for she might think that you are trying to show off. Do it by the way you and her. Plus a mother would usually feel lonely when she sees her sons growing up , and starts to date and have less time for her. It would make her feel like as if he forgotten her. Some mothers would say negative things to the son so as to attract his attention. Be patience , be nice and show her your concern if can. It might soothes her anxiousness. Plus from what you said , she already recognize that you are a nice girl , it's just that she's worried about something. It's alright , just remember to not let the frustration become an anger that gets out of hand and one day you might end up screaming at her or complaining to your boyfriend that will put him at a difficult spot...

[pandaninja]

if you are Hispanic you should know better than just about anyone (except the jewish) that when you date someone or marry someone, your not just getting them, you get the whole family and are going to have to put up with them, that being said she sounds like a bitch and will keep giving you trouble as long as you are with him so the question is if he is worth having to deal with her all the time

[Dingismaximus]

If you love your boyfriend forget what the mother says but at the same time don't disrespect her.