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I'd be more likely to let him have the chair then sit on him as he is heavier than me, although this would only be if we are going to be there for a long time and there won't be chairs Available anytime soon
it has lotta to do with dignity... but on the other hand it doesn't seem too bad. My friend did it to me so I scolded him but he stayed and it was not that bad lol
what do you mean it has a lot to do with dignity? Would it be different it it was a girl-friend sitting on your lap?
So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and your close guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your close guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
why did you scold him? why did you let him stay? Why doesn't it seem to bad?
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soo... the dignity question... I was raised to never let boys be so close that easily. I don't know but I just felt like it wasn't right, althought I let him, cuz he was a friend.
1. that exactly happened. There were few seats left but he just sat on me.
I scolded him cuz it's just the way we react when someone does something inappropriate, but I didn't really mean it... I mean I was not really rude or mad or anything.
It's just really confusing situation for me cuz I just don't want boys to sit on my lao like it was nothing, but on the other hand... it is not that big deal if it is a close friend and there is nothing else in it.
Yes I find it weird but I know close friends do that.
2. I wouldn't do anything. If it was weird to sit and let him standing while we are talking, I would just stand next to him.
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so for situation 1 if it was a close guy friend who sat on your lap you would be okay with it?
when you said it doesn't seem to bad you are okay with it if you guys are close?
Have close girl-friends sat on your lap before and is it different? Or does it not matter about the gender when it comes to close friends I this situation?
Why not? We might do it for fun, but if you mean much more long period of time I prefer to change places and sit on his lap
I'd be sitting on the guy friend's lap. That'd be his only choice. Lmao. Well or his face but like, realistically his lap.
Girls, would you let your guy friends sit on your lap like your female friends do? Have guy friends ever sat on your lap before? Explain? ↗
I gotta ask what's with all the accounts.
As long as it was in a silly way and not flirtatious.
Has never happened to me.. I have had guys asking me to sit on their laps but not the other way around and it was usually when they liked me
If we were close friends yeah I'd let him sit on my lap
id sit on his lap modestly. there are flirty ways and non flirty ways
Yeah only if it was a close guy friend
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So lets say there are two situations:
1. You are sitting with friends talking or whatever there are no more seats left and your close guy friend sits on your lap without permission? Would you be ok with this and what would you do or say? Would you find it weird?
2. You are also sitting with friends talking or whatever and you see your close guy friend standing near you or a couple feet away and there are not seats left? What would you do? (he could be talking you but he is standing) What would you do or say in this scenario?
would it be any different if it was a girl-friend in this situation?
1. If it was a close guy friend if he randomly did it I'd probably make some sort of joke out of it
2. I'd probably just offer my seat to him instead of him sitting on my lap lol
If it was a girl then I wouldn't really care either way.