Why do people automatically assume I’m nice?

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

Is there an opposite to RBF? Because I think I have it.

People constantly come up and talk to me and I’m super awkward so I smile and nod and sometimes I tell lies because I’m not super interesting.

[sadismyname]

OMG Yeah i guess there is. I can't count how many times people started talking to me on bus or subway ! And i should mention that i always have headphones and i make it obvious when they talk to me like i take one out and then put right in again and they still talk! On Valentine's day on Subway a woman was telling me all about her date while i had my headphones on and i would only take it out when she was asking me something for 3 times. But i should also mention i got so many tips when i was working in a cafe for that. So it's not always a bad thing

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

Yes!!! Omg the headphone trick! Been there done that. Visibly disgusted face doesn’t ward them off either! Wtf?

[sadismyname]

Yes nothing works! You could brush guys off easier , but old ladies? You can't be rude to them you have to listen to them giving you all sort of advices. ugh!

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

yeah it’s the damn old people I tell you. They get me every time. Those bastards!

[Porcelaine]

Well if you don't give them a reason not to think you're nice, of course they will think that you are. You smile, and nod, act polite, those people can seem nice even if they aren't. And I think you are nice too, from the conversations I had with you, there is no doubt in my mind that you are. You're too nice in fact, that is why some poeple in your life take advantage of it.

[Swaggirl1]

Because u r nice. I do not know what the opposite of RBF is but I will make it my life goal to figure this out for u.

[GetzRekt]

RFF - Resting Friendzone Face
or
RPF - Resting Pussy Face

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

Thanks!

[Swaggirl1]

@GetzRekt u have freed up a lot of time. Thank you u r a very useful sponge

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

@GetzRekt ewwww!! I fee bad for those with RPF

[Swaggirl1]

@PM_ME_PUPPIES ur welcome and yeah RPF does sound a gross

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

@GetzRekt can we rename RFF to Resting Friendly Face? I don’t think i have the desperation look to be friend zoned.

[EpicDweeb]

Well you smile and nod... so that's an automatic positive response to whatever interaction people give you. I could certainly see that as causing people to think you're nice.

[Massageman]

Maybe attend a Dale Carnegie course to work on losing the awkwardness around people? I went twice - the first time obviously didn't work (just kidding) ;-)

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

Thanks! Will look into him.

[Massageman]

Just search www.dalecarnegie.com and they will list locations all around country.

[xTom98]

Maybe you just look good and they attempt to hit on you 😋

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

I’m convinced that’s that it. I know I’m average. We went over this Tom.

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

Not it*

[xTom98]

I can't remember that, but every person is attractive in their own way. Maybe you have a cool tattoo people like to talk about or a good fashion sense

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

No tattoos. But maybe it’s the fashion thing. I do always have a positive attitude so maybe that’s why. Maybe I should try working on my sad look.

[xTom98]

Or dont smile and nod at every person that sees you 😄

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

I don’t smoke and nod. They talk to me first and then I have to smile and nod because I’m not really paying attention to what they’re saying.

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

Smile* damn wtf?

[xTom98]

No Idea then, if you're not giving off any signs of interest or attraction 🤷

[LongShlongSilvr]

Never lie. They are talking to you because they are interested. Just listen if you don't have much to say, but don't be a bullshiter.

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

I don’t do it on purpose. It’s just what comes out.

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

It’s like a nervous reaction

[LongShlongSilvr]

Make a consious effort to stop. Lying is not attractive.

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

They’re just old people. I don’t really care to keep talking to them anyway.

[LongShlongSilvr]

Then you're rude. Just remember, one day you'll be old too. I agree with IntuitiveMuffin then.

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

I know I am!!! That’s why I don’t want them to talk to me!!!

[Wowgirl10q]

You have a welcoming look?

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

I think so

[IntuitiveMuffin]

I think your a bitch. If that helps.

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

It only helps if you’re being serious.

[IntuitiveMuffin]

I am, although I'm not saying it's a bad thing.

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

😊 excellent 😈

[GetzRekt]

It's ok, I know that you're not nice

[PM_ME_PUPPIES]

Thanks! I wish more people knew me like you did.

[blondfrog]

Maybe cause you are attractive.

[Anonymous]

Yes..."Golden Retriever Face"