Why does my boyfriend’s female friend hate me? (Page 2)
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She's probably just overprotective of her friends and not used to having competition for their attention. Believe it or not, not everything is about jealousy. She's probably just used to it being her and the guys. If it's bugging you that much then bring it up to your man. But honestly, why be mad at her for the rugby thing? You're the one that had heels on haha.
Was just in the same situation with a guy I was talking to and seeing. He had a bff who was a girl. Things went bad and she was the one to text me and try and put me in my place. I didn’t give two fucks about her. He seemed to enjoy the fight... but I played it off well. Didn’t give her any life. Don’t give this girl life. Be even nicer. Kill her with kindness. That really bothers people lol. I honestly wasn’t a fan of the girl... don’t care for her.
That's simple. Would hate 2 things in competition for same man. 1) you're younger 2) you're more gorgeous than she is. So you're already ahead of her. She is desperately trying to fit in. You go girl. Do your thing. Don't let her distract you. Kiss him in front of her face that she can't have it. Lol
She's probably unaware of how she comes across, your already doing the right thing by just trying to be a decent person, unfortunately not everyone warms up to everyone else so easily, see if she has a similar interest and use that if you want to befriend her other than that she might warm up over time.
Continue to be nice to get and try to get to know her, you might be able to find something you can relate to her with. She may just be over protective, and because you're younger she may think you are too immature for him. You can prove her wrong.
She is jealous
She doesn't think that u will be great
She thinks that she should be with him
She wants to try to get u to break up with him
Tell your boyfriend what is going on
Ask her why she hates u so much
No women issues never involve your boyfriend. He will start liking her more. Better be queen of the situation and handle your business like a woman. Don't begin no drama but if she gets in your way put her in her place. Man get turned on by seeing their woman on defense for him.
She's definitely jealous of you and she probably likes him and feels threatened by you. The perfect way to handle this is just be cordial keep your mouth shut and your eyes and ears open watch everything and then you'll see it for what it is. You're in a relationship with him not her loss
I wish you go somewhere with her in weekends and give small gifts on her birthday or special day. Give 2 or 3 days have a small trip or visit beach and play.
Definitely if she is good you will get a very best friend.
Try this... One more thing to do first try with hope. Don't worry. While worry we get more wrong about other person. You should spend time little more and focus on it studies and career. I wish you for the best
The answer is simple
Well she must be pretty since those guys are keeping her around.. And by the sound of it she's invited by them quite often.. As for your other question i can't answer unless i met all if you girls.. It could be a million things.
Chances are she doesn't want to share her best friends "male" attention with other girls.. She wants to stay their fav girl..
Even to your boyfriend
I think it’s because they’re 3 guys and 1 girl. I guess she’s used to the attention and does not want to let go of the guys, and trust me, she is jealous.
Or maybe she’s a lesbian or something I don't know.
She doesn’t hate you. She probably looks at you as his helicopter girlfriend, and might just want friends time separated from relationship time. I don’t know. She might have a boyfriend that she doesn’t hang out with during that time.
Where there's rock and roll, sex and drugs aren't far behind... might want to consider the fact that your boyfriend or at least another member of the band have probably had sex with her in the past, and you are screwing up a polyamourous setup she had going on.
There are a large amount of reasons for why. she's possibly worried of a situation where her bffs are going to end up gone or leaving because of the relationships and is basically being an alpha female because of the friendship. The way to get to her is by doing things you normally would do as a girlish person. Play their game, or talk to your boyfriend and tell him exactly how you feel when she does that.
I'm thinking she sees you as not good enough for him, because she kinda dislikes some things about you. She seems kike the girl to be for all (her) friends
She definitely sounds jealous, I've seen that in a few friends also. I think she's either interested in your boyfriend or she's jealous that you can do what she can't, or both :P
she's Intimidated and some girls just dont play well with others. Ignore her completely but tell your boyfriend you think she's a bitch.
She is a toxic person and quite possibly sees you as a threat to getting attention of the guys.
Tell your boyfriend about it and find a solution for it together
It's not worth having to kiss her ass to be friends with her. If she wants to be a bitch then fuck her. Not literally
Probebly just has a problome with girls it would seem like or girly girls at that sounds like she is 1 of the lads type girl