My guy friends girlfriend HATES ME WHY?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I haven't even talked to him in months. And we were both strictly friend because we were both taken by other people. And him and his girlfriend were on break and he broke up with her. And i sensed he liked me more than a friend but I had a boyfriend who he hates and wasn't scared to share that. So she is very clingy and deleted all of my messages and # from his phone. Keep in mind we we're never more than friends I didn't like him like that and never will. And I've never even met the chick yet she feels the need to tweet about me and call me a slut When I'm very far from it... I have no idea what I've done to make her hate me, I haven't talked to him since they got back together do its not like he's cheating on her with me or anything like that it was a past breif friend ship... I just don't understand girls like her because I'd never do anything like that.

[shadiamond]

This is very easy! She's insecure. I pity insecure women. Although she's deleted your messages and # he hasn't tried to reach out to you by calling you or social media. He has free will and can make his own decisions. It's effed up that he hasn't called you in so long and a REAL friend wouldn't do that. Move on. Leave him be with his psycho girlfriend. He deserves her.

[Asker]

I never even really liked him. And I honestly think he's afraid to because before he tried that through snap chat and he went through his whole phone.. She's crazy I have no idea how girls are like that because in just chill about everything id never be like that if my boyfriend has girl friends because I expect the same respect and trust

[Ulyss]

Wow you must be gorgeous if your presence bothers her lol 😂😭

[Asker]

I mean I wouldn't say that but who knows... She is in almost all my classes this year too and she just stares at me sometimes I'm like that's not necessary

[Asker]

She also must thing I'm a huge slut too to cheat on my boyfriend who I'd been working things out with for almost a year for hers who I've said many times I don't like

[shadiamond]

You being drop dead gorgeous was the first thing I thought about while reading the question. You should feel extra special, don't let her bother you. I would be laughing at her ass all day. That would rub it in even more.

[Asker]

Usually I just ignore her... Like honestly if I liked her boyfriend by now he's be my boyfriend but I don't like him lol that's where she's mental in the head and doesn't get it

[Anonymous]

You're more attractive than her and a potential threat.
She is insecure like fuck.

[Asker]

It's annoying why does she have to put me down

[Opinion Owner]

To display superiority to you, and especially her peers.
A woman is always a womans worst enemy.
Don't count on her ever giving you a break - she's determined that you're a boyfriend snatching bitch.

[Asker]

Lol cause when I was friends with him he was single I was sure to check that before hand too little did I know she would weasel her way back into his life

[reptocarl]

Because she sees you as a threat

[Asker]

I'm not a threat I don't even talk to her stupid boyfriend I hate them both actually her included

[reptocarl]

That's how you feel but what she thinks is totally different

[Asker]

Well she's stupid

[reptocarl]

I believe you, you don't have to convince me just her

[Asker]

That's thing though if I say anything it'll start drama and I hate drama... so I'm in a lose lose situation

[reptocarl]

Not saying anything definitely isn't working

[Asker]

I know I just don't know how to approach the issue

[reptocarl]

Tell her to chill that you have nothing against her personally and aren't interested in her man

[Asker]

I don't even know when to talk to her because I've literally never talked to her before

[reptocarl]

You'll have a chance sometime

[reptocarl]

When you see her just tell her and walk away

[Asker]

I'll try that... I was honestly thinking about texting her boyfriend and telling him to get her to lay off but I don't know how well that'd play out

[reptocarl]

No, tell her directly. That way you know the message was delivered the way you wanted

[Asker]

I'll take that into consideration especially if she keep up all the petty stuff

[reptocarl]

Good luck