My guy friend's new girlfriend hates me?

[Kimchi_doll]

My guy friends new girlfriend hates me. My friend group is me, another girl, and three guys. One of them, I'll name him Josh, has a new girlfriend and for his birthday he had a pool party. I wanted to meet his girlfriend and be her friend too. She was very cold when he introduced us. She even bumped me after he left the ice chest I guess because I was standing next to him to get one too. I said excuse me and her response was, "yea, watch out." Without even looking at me. Her and her friend I noticed kept looking at me in a mean way. It reminded me of bullies i used to deal with. Should I ignore it? Or should I talk to Josh because I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm going to lose his friendship because of this..

Updates

6 mo

Hey, so I saw him today and told him what happened. He said he noticed the way she was acting and already spoke to her about it. She told him that she doesn't trust me and she's not okay with us texting or hanging out alone. Also I mentioned her texting me from his phone and he said he gave her the password to his phone. I think I'm going to just step back let him enjoy being with her because I can tell he really likes her and I don't want to be the reason they break up. Thanks every1

[KingslayerC]

If you decide to be honest with your friend, be prepared for him feeling like he has to pick sides. The reality is that he should know what kind of person she is. Especially considering she's super likely to be abusive if she's doing that kind of stuff to you. You might be saving him from a series of really bad experiences.

[LiamJHayden]

People project their own garbage onto others. She probably would only have a guy friend if she was trying to get with him, so she assumes that is the way you are.

[Kimchi_doll]

What do you think I should do? I think she texts me from his phone too because sometimes it doesn't sound like him but I don't want to bring drama by saying anything to him.

[Mrmazzalinio]

Jealous!


But I can tell u one thing now for certain




A girls like that won’t be in his life for too long , toxic from the get go


The relationship is doomed , wait patiently smile wave , be happy n be there to help ya mate when he needs you like a true friend

[Kimchi_doll]

I think she's really pretty and I think he had a crush on her for a while so I don't know. But I will try my best.

[Shamalien]

The girls see you as a threat and will move to ostracize you from your male friend

[Kimchi_doll]

I feel like she wants me to go away
Forever lol but I didn't do anything to be a threat

[Shamalien]

You’re a female and you’re friends with her boyfriend so you are a threat without doing anything tbh. If you have a rep of being slutty it’s even worse

[Kimchi_doll]

Ok I can understand. But she didn't try to connect with me at all. And I'm known for being short and weird 😅

[Shamalien]

Ur name is kimchi doll so I’m assuming ur a tiny korean chick and guys like small girls

[Kimchi_doll]

I am tiny and korean yes hahaha

[Anonymous]

Well I bet Josh did bitching against you in front of his girlfriend... otherwise there is no reason to behave like this. Did you met first time?

[Kimchi_doll]

That was my first time meeting her. He didn't argue with me or anything

[Opinion Owner]

First time meet n this kind of behaviour I found something fishy...
I don't blame his girlfriend maybe someone portrayed your image bad in front of her behind your back.

[Kimchi_doll]

Hope I will find out

[jahaims]

She is insecure. You should definitely talk to Josh about this. If you are really friends he wouldn't accept having a girlfriend that disrespects his friends.

[Kimchi_doll]

How should I say it? Should I just tell him how she bumped into me and was rude?

[jahaims]

Have the conversation in person. Just recount the whole situation to him. If he respects you, he will either break it off with her or set her straight and give her another chance. I wouldn't settle for anything less than this and an in person apology from his girlfriend with Josh there.

[Kimchi_doll]

I will update

[talkersmith]

Are you a sugar baby