Many times it has gotten to the point where I’ve raised (booming yell is more like it) my voice at her. She shuts right up like magic every time! Not only that, but she usually apologizes and moves on very quickly. It’s like she’s looking for me to put her in her place…
If I try to discuss things in nice way, she gets even more riled up. She’ll bring it up later and the cycle will continue until I get angry. The only other thing that seems to work is if I completely ignore her when she starts snapping… I’m not passive aggressive and that’s not my style.
What to do?
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Me and my boyfriend (of 8 months) are like that. I have no idea if I'm crossing the line untill he just explodes and lets it all out in screams and then I just shut up and apologize and later take it out on him with another subject and this goes on and on. Luckily we realized this and are currently trying to balance everything out. You should tell her what pisses you off and what you don't like without yelling just warn her. These types of relationships are better in my opinion, more passion when you're both fighters. But you are the man in the relationship you need to stand your ground in a controlled, polite yet warning way so she can get what's going on in your head and what's waiting for her if she doesn't controll herself. P.s. you have to be very tolerant of her moods. I know we women have all sorts of crazy moods that change within seconds, which is why you should pay attention to that so you can respond the right way.