I see it all the time on social media especially on Instagram and Twitter. I usually see posts like these: “Men or not loyal these days.” “Why don’t men respect women anymore?” “I’m so done with men.” “Men just don’t want to commit anymore.” Blah blah blah Like, the f**k? If you’re having trouble finding a good man, ever thought that maybe YOU are the problem and you’re just looking in the wrong places? I know so many guys who are willing to commit to their woman but they either get friendzoned, rejected, cheated on, divorced, manipulated, or abandoned because the woman thought he was “too boring” or “too desperate”. Why the contradiction ladies?
Why do women complain about how there are “no more good men” when they are the ones who end up rejecting or cheating on them?
Because they feel attracted to a stereotype of men that don't behave as they would like them to behave when in a relationship, and even if they change of partner tend to end with that stereotype, so end thinking all men are like that?
I really think there many guys and girls that tend to have a partner pattern, so tend to always select similar looks or personality even if they change to a new partner.
In my case my boyfriends tend to be nerdy/weird/shy/sarcastic boys who are nice and treat me really well, or at least never aggressively. They are good boys.
Those ladies never get satisfied! They want dominance being submissive, they want to control all, treated like a queen unnecessarily. They are mean, they generally dont care much about other. And most important"just because one to three men who they met and made up relationship based on their characters and understanding, and he left her like filth, doesn't mean they need to blame 'every man',"!
I've always heard the reply which is like I want a soft cuddly guy who I'm certain is macho and can defend me. So basically they want someone who is undercover like batman but as soft and funny and flirty as Barney from How I met Your Mother oh and not to mention they want commitment
This comes across as very bitter. I think some of the women saying this are surely hypocrites but many might be you know, wronged by previous partners and wondering if all men will turn out like their domestic abuser/cheater BF’s of the past.
The problem is that this is a downward spiral I noticed with many women. In their early years they chase the hot bad boys, get tricked, cheated on, abused, etc - because the hot bad boy doesn't give a shit about them, he has a chick coming in to every one of his fingers.
And then they go for another hot bad boy.
The cycle repeats until they are no longer wanted by hot bad boys, because they are not as young, not as fun, maybe have a kid on the side, etc... Then they get bitter, and they start spouting the "all men are pigs" bullshit... Which is primarily aimed at men who they have never even looked at before, because 1) it is a lot easier to hate people you find unattractive in the first place, and 2) because now that the bad boys don't want them, they look for a stable, loyal man - but the stable loyal men already had enough of their shit, and reject them.
So the men they wanted back then were unreliable inthe first place, and the men they need now no longer need them, because they can get younger, hotter girls with their influence and accumulated wealth.
Women reach the peak of their sexual attractiveness in their early 20s, men reach the peak of their desirability in their late 20s to early 30s. If women want good men, they have to plan ahead, and invest in a man, and not always chase the hot guys, because hot guys are rarely reliable, and when they are hot AND reliable - they probably have plenty of suitors.
Women, Sometimes you are attracting the 'no good men" with the "no good life" you're living... And men don't give a damn about wath your thinking. men don't owe you shit... just keep this in your mind !!!
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