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AH OK i have had a crush twice the first was the lorax and the second was this one really tall black haired guy in 6th grade which left the school. I couldn't talk to him normally. I couldn't look him in the eye. ITS TERRIBLE.
Because girls and women never have to develop good communication skills in dating, it’s all on the dude to be confident and a smooth talker, a women can be awkward and can’t carry a conversation and it doesn’t matter men will date them nonetheless but if a guy is awkward and unable to carry on a conversation they can’t date, so men are forced to learn these skill women are not
Not me... if the guy gets the courage to come up to you then he deserves five minutes of your attention. I always engage in a conversation and be straight with them after I've had a chance to at least speak with them.
Girls who get attention have to be careful with who they give attention to sometimes so they don't accidentally lead someone on and end up hurting them. They don't know you and there are many obsessive guys out there.
If he persistently shows interest and I am also interested, then I don’t play games. If I have shown interest and he doesn’t reciprocate, then I tone it down and make myself look less interested to protect my feelings.
I have ASD, so even when I'm interested in someone I still avoid eye contact. I love my boyfriend but still struggle maintaining eye contact with him. Some people can't hold eye contact. As for pretending your not interested, it could be because A). They just aren't, they might not want anyone atm. B). They might just like to tease and see how far they can push you. Each girl is different.
I've found you have to somewhat act disinterested or else you're not a challenge to him anymore, he wants to earn you by chasing you and that works best if you don't act too sold on him, it kills the attention for him.
I think like if im embarrased or im not sure if they like me or theyre cute but im not sure if i like them i would do that which is probably rlly annoying
Honestly, I have done the same. I actually pretend that I am not interested in my crush in front of him because I am insecure about whether or not he likes me. Right now we are friends. But I think they just like to play hard to get too, meaning if you are pursing them that is.
I’ve foolishly done it before but not on purpose. It was nerves! I liked the guy so much that the only think I could competently do was ask disinterested 🤷🏼♀️
depends on their age, I'd say it's more typical for younger girls to do that. with age and experience, you don't want to waste your time on playing games
I don't actually do that if I don't respond it is because I am not interested, tired or have a lot on my mind. I now wish I had played more games with men because men are the biggest gamers in dating.
I come off as not being interested a lot because I literally cannot pull off small talk + I have social anxiety so i'm very quiet until we know each other so well that I start opening up more. But if I am interested in someone I try to make an effort to stay in contact everyday, if i'm not interested I won't do that though.
People like you annoy me. . .
@Wammu me and her would be two peas in a pod. I'm the exact same way.
@Darknut and I'd never be friends with either of you. Learned my lesson the hard way over and over again.
@Wammu what you mean lol?
Really?😕
Some people suck at convo but i feel like self esteem plays into it too. But i opposite of this i will show my interest, life is too short let's flirt lol
It really depends on the person. I for one am very shy so I am like this with everyone BUT more obvious when I think the guy is cute. It’s jot trying to hide interest. It’s more like trying to hide shyness. If that makes any sense.
They wanna be chased in order to see how interested you are in them. I know men don't do this and see women doing this as she isn't interested. WOMEN ARE CRAZY AND THEY ALL HAVE SNAKES IN THEIR HAIRS
To a degree women want to know if the man is serious about his intentions. Its apart of proving himself because not every man can be with that woman.
I. e. try harder./hunt more
1 no means maybe
1 maybe means yes
1 yes means she's easy
3 hard no's mean's fucking stop and move on
Sounds like you're either reading body language inaccurately or maybe these particular women were shy
So tired of shy girls lol
We are honestly scared of rejection, and we are oblivious sometimes. If we don't know for sure that you like us we will most likely pretend we don't have feelings.
Yes.
I guess it has to also do with self-esteem issues or uncertainty to if the other person might be interested back.