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What are your thoughts on women defining what a "real man" is? (Page 2)
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I think for most women a "real man" is their ideal man (which is different for all women). This is just my opinion.
So it's hard to tell. Their ideal man has nothing to do with so I'm not concerned.
I think that its very healthy to have such ideals. Idealism is what keeps us away from nihilism. Defining what a real man or a real woman is is part of the wolrdview that you hold. If no such ideals are held by a person I'd find them very superficial and not worth my time.
Well, it's perfectly fine for women to define this for their own purposes since they have their own perspective and needs.
why care no man is 100% real man, as in no man exhibits all the traits that women consider manly, if you look like a man, dont act in a feminine matter, a hard worker and have goals and confidence when you have to then you're good to go, being busy agreeing or disagreeing with a womans definition of a real man is rather pointless , since every woman has her own definition for one, and two your situation is not the same as someon elses.
Same as my thoughts on other men telling me what a real man is. They're jerks trying to tell me what I should or shouldn't do/like/say.
I'm a man because I say I'm a man, and no one else has the right to say otherwise just because of some arbitrary rules they use for their own purposes.
The real question is why do men who aren't real men care if they disagree with how women define real men? Basically real man is a term describing an attractive man that most women like, if most women aren't attracted to you it's not women's fault but ypur own.
https://youtu.be/TP7BVMOC36sI'm not short, but tell that to short guys
@Lightning8 I have but it's not my fault they were born inadequate
but you say it's their fault
@Lightning8 their butthurt is their fault. But them being inadequate is biological
To a certain degree, that is correct. But that's pretty narrow. If love gives life meaning then I wouldn't feel it's my place to tell someone how to feel about their biological inadequacy (s) which lead people away from the choice of loving them for who they are.
OMG, I played with my clit to that video!
"Real man"
Translates to:
>The caricature of a male human embodying many/all the traits that I'm attracted to.
It's the very essence of being not "real."
And hilariously if you have a problem with this, even if it's the semantic ridiculousness of how the word s being used, well you must "just be bitter" or "not a real man" or something like that. In other words "real men don't object to anything I like." lol k
Anyone invoking the phrase “real man” is trying to shame someone into the behaviour they want.
This is often true of the phrases “slut”, “prude” “bitch” “jerk” “racist” “too sensitive” etc.
You do realize that men also constantly want to define what a "real woman" is, right?
Are you the Tony I know of?
I mean the one who deleted his account becausei of the rude people on here.
Don’t remember you tbh
Then I guess I mistook you with someone else. Your name and the way you think reminded me of him.
Bodybuilder? Outspoken? Conservative?
And has a girlfriend who is also a member of this community.
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I'm not sure about outspoken.
I kinda agree. Like let a man try and tell a woman what a "real" woman is and all hell will break loose.
It's no problem for me. To me, it's free intel from the other side.
What they say on us generally says more about them then us (and vice versa when we try to define them).
This to all women who use this line.
Every woman has her own definition of what a ‘real man’ is, but the only people who can TRULY define a ‘real man’ are men.
not any man but real men
What?
What defines a real man though? And how does a man know that he’s a real man, to define himself?
The most dominant men or the alpha males are typically the Real Men. Basically the men at the top of the pyramids. They can both define what being a real man and a real woman is!
What makes one eligible to join the elite dominant/alpha/ top of the pyramid men squad?
Genetic, traits, etc. oh and you have to be a man. I'm sorry!
Sounds like you’re talking about dogs and wolfs with this whole alpha omega bull.
It's bull to you because you're an emotional woman who thinks the world should cater to her.
It’s bull because you would categorise a man’s worth with genetics, traits and animalistic behaviour. You sound like a misandrist, and I’ll not stand for anyone that puts men down beside of stupid ideals. Men are far greater than to be reduced to such beliefs.
I don't put men down nor am I a practitioner of misandry. Plus, don't like you care about men because I know good and well you don't. It is basic knowledge that women desire the alpha male the most so don't pretend like you don't. Moreover, human beings are separate from animals and it is thoughts like this that lead to the abuse of environment and animals.
Okay
Doesn't matter to me. I say take it or leave it as is.
Boys raised by single mothers tend to lose their virginity a full 8 years later than the general population.
Women can't fucking stand the "men" that women create.
They define what a real man is because they choose the best men as a sex partner.
Well you can;t let a woman have behavior just cause she's a woman. But it's obnoxious to call out someone's shortcomings all the time. that's what bitchy women do
Hell, men define what a woman should be all the time
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~ Mrs Manson
Its a sensitive term, from one point of view, women should be able to define it, because otherwise you will get losers who play video games and masturbate all day claiming to be "real men", but on the other hand if women do define it, you will get plenty of salty bitches like the one you listed above.
A woman doesn't know what a "real man" is.
Just like a man doesn't know what a "real woman" is.
But maybe the opinion is based on something else. What if a woman had a really good father and based it on that?
A man and a good mother? same thing.
I don't know