For High Quality Men: What's your definition of a Real Man?

Question

•Over 6ft Tall •Athletic/Muscular •Financially stable • Own a home • Well educated • Handsome • Big Dick • Successful • Good sense of humour • Kind • Strong • Wants kids

Justmeagain1 · Accepted Answer

A man that keeps his word
Shows respect for others no matter their status in society
Had drive and ambition
Has good morals , firm boundaries and integrity
A man that expresses him self positively with the ones he loves without fear.
Practises self care and looks after his mental health without expecting others to look after it for him.
He would be open to opinions that differ from his own but does not take too much offence to them.
Physically- no specific type that defines a real man - maybe if I had to pick a physical trait - taller then me, but ideally knows things and stuff and wants to teach me these things so I can learn (I call em modern day yodas).

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

A high quality man to me is one who has similar morals/beliefs/interests, self respect, a great mindset, amazing goofy sense of humor, cute face, attractive lean to average physique (abs do not come to mind), kind, courageous, overprotective, great conversationalist (talker and listener), doesn’t rely on smoking/drinking/partying to have fun, has a strong work ethic, carries himself in a not so “all about social media/hookup culture” kind of way, and just overall a self-assured lonewolf who walks his own path

OfMiceandMen · Accepted Answer

Hahaha... can tell you are young. Only three (3) out of twelve (12) traits are quality traits you should look for in a man.

Most of the list is superficial. Nothing wrong with eye candy, but in the end it isn't a trait that defines a "Real Man".

I am not saying that in a bad way, trust me, your list will change over time.

A high quality man, is someone you trust with your heart and life and your children's hearts and life.

All the muscles, successfulness, big dick, 6 ft tall... means nothing if the guy doesn't have morals and your back.

Most often the guy that is best for you doesn't meet half these criteria and the sooner you realize that, the better off you will be.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A real man is:

- a male who takes care of his health.
- pride in his appearance.
- isn’t arrogant or cocky.
- doesn’t let a woman control him.
- doesn’t bow to female shit tests and shaming tactics.
- stands strong with truth and logic.
- is mentally strong but also compassionate and gentle.
- has the ability to become a monster if needed but rarely needs to.
- carries himself with dignity and respect.
- expects the same from the woman he is with.

Men like Jordan Peterson.

Genie23 · Answer

Being 6 feet tall and having a big penis doesn't make someone a real man. In my opinion, a boy because a man when he becomes responsible whether when it comes to taking care of the responsibility of a child, partner and his family. Someone who doesn't hide or avoid things. Someone with stability and who's working towards his life goal. Someone who stays true to his words. Someone with honour and dignity... good morals. He would stand up for right whether it's for himself or his loved ones or strangers. These are few things I consider that makes someone a man.

inhua · Answer

undying loyalty would be a good start

when shit hits the fan, a "real man" sticks by you to the very end. they don't sell you out to save their own skin or protect their ego or to get some female validation

ManOnFire · Answer

Some of those are not bad, but is he still a high quality man if he loses the money, nice house, muscles, etc. because things in life happen?

That's why ultimately the character has to matter a lot in a person. We all want somebody who looks good, will have a great body for sex, can afford things, etc. But when the character isn't there you don't really have a great person. You gotta think about how there are a ton of guys out there with all the things you describe but aren't standing up for their woman, are nice and respectful only to people who are just like him or have his status, and don't know how to be a father even if they want kids.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Men who actually have standards for themselves and for the woman they date.
I don't want a guy who goes out every night and just picks up any girl who will give him a chance at a one night stand. Plus he has to really care about him and look out for his health if he doesn't care for himself how can he care for others. I also want a men whose willing to commcate, commit and work hard.

Mariena_Anne92 · Answer

Good sense of humour will do for me. Since I’m the same. Sure I don’t wanna date boring man who’s serious all the time. At least he can joke around. If he’s romantic it’s a bonus. And the rest is a bonus I guess.

sheikalana · Answer

Although I'm attracted to handsome men, tall, fit and well dressed what makes a quality man in my opinion is the way he treats me and others. Humble, hard working, consistent, smart, kind everything else is a bonus.

Haha456 · Answer

a real man is someone who takes care of his family - financially, emotionally, physically. a real man helps with housework.
this is what differentiates a real man from a coward.

the reason why divorce rates are so high is because people are not willing to sacrifice themselves for their families.

Lionman95 · Answer

I would switch in your list big dick and it would instead you say he´s ready to take the consequences for his actions.
To me a high quality man is defined by his actions not by his looks.
A young boy or adult boy can have a big dick but he´s not ready to take the responsibility for what he did wrong and that´s why a guy could be athletic and have big balls physically and still be a boy.

asphaltrhymes · Answer

I'm more just curious how many women think or actually want muscles like that or any muscle? Or just a lean (flat body), tall, doesn't have to be muscled or abs, but just flat, no overhanging belly. Lol.

Anyways, everyone else has already said here what I'd say, muscled somewhat, 6ft plus, cool and reserved, but confident and outgoing, but still somewhat 'polite' about it all. 👀

DenizLikesTennis · Answer

1. Integrity 2. Trustworthiness 3. Protective 4. Kind and loving (a tender heart) 5. Self-Awareness  6. Mindfulness 7. Takes care of himself well

Adam1978 · Answer

I think independent, self sufficient ie money is in order, kind but not a push over, ie he helps on his terms only. He has a home and can take care of it. Strength and body sizes are irrelevant. Aslong as he can hold his ground, and he can do that with intelligence if he lacks pure strength.

razelove · Answer

Man, getting your nipple tattoed must sting like crazy... Anyway, I'm not going to take their advice on real manly men, they got those juice bodies, the juice shrinks your balls and makes you sterile, it's counterintuitive.
I'd say pick like 4 things out of your list, if a guy has it, and is willing to work on more, sounds like a winner.

Anemone978 · Answer

Romantic Kind Patient 
 Hard worker 
 Loyal 
 Smart 
 Takes initiative  
 Reliable Around 6' Financially stable Handsome  Successful Good sense of humor Wants a family

Summeroflove · Answer

A “real man” LMAO! Just because someone isn’t what you want romantically he isn’t a real man. Especially over things that is out of his control?

Look. Like what you like. But you probably don’t like it when people talk derogatory about you either.

Just because you aren’t into someone doesn’t make them bad.

LazerBean · Answer

Respected by those older than him

Good reputation

Well known as being reliable

Has good self control (aka not a filthy slut like Andrew Tate who has sex outside of marriage and likely has bastard children)

Is close to both of his parents

Not a bastard child

Not a child of divorcees

A man my dad truly respects (which is rare)

A lot more of course but those are the main ones that already weed out most men.

glennos89 · Answer

A real man takes care of his business no matter what problem he has to face. A real man takes on any challenge and provides for his family. A real man will do whatever it takes to make sure his family is safe and he is willing to die to make sure his family survives

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

If they have a penis and balls they aren't fake are they?

As for what makes a high quality man? To me it's the following.

#1: Loves God and Jesus Christ and Bible with all his heart and deeply fears God.

#2: Has integrity.

#3: Is honest.

#4: Isn't lazy.

#5: Has sound and practical wisdom.

#6: Willing to provide for his family.

#7: Has decent anount of self confidence.

#8: Has good courage.

#9: Respectful.

#10: Generous.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

A real man: Born biologically male  Dominant Shows respect when earned Always calm  Protect the ones he loves  Is a good role model  (If you'd ask me)

HonestHannah · Answer

A high quality man... Has his own life, dreams, passions, relationships Is safe, you can tell him anything Communicative  Emotionally aware and regulated Has a sense of humour/doesn't take himself super seriously Is gentle and kind to everyone Can be consistent and reliable Is trustworthy through and through Honest

mandyfire98 · Answer

Well the guy in the back of the picture is gross so he's definitely not high quality lol.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Many guys now realize that "Real man" is a loaded term.

Manipulative: designed to get him to make sacrifices, generally for the benefit of the one doing the manipulation.

Degrading: designed to belittle those who inherited characteristic that do not meet the ideal.

Self-aggrandizing: when used by those who tailor the definition to fit themselves.

As for me, my definition of a "real man" is an adult human male.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Well your type looks more like the perfect wishlist guy.

A real man, is a hetero male (no trans, no gay, no whatsoever) who pursues his passions & ambitions, acts responsibly, is loyal, has some confidence, knows his morals and isn't a jerk, is curious and likes to explore, stays healthy, likes to help where help is needed, doesn't hide his emotions and doesn't throw his life away with binge drinking or drugs.

Cathy7734 · Answer

In my opinion, a high-quality man is someone who is trying to lead a meditative and mindful lifestyle.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I agree with all of this. I'd add masculine though too. Tbh if a girl doesn't date men at least mostly like this then she's low quality. A girl who entertains brokies fat slobs or guys in their moms basement... she's a loser.

Degenerate · Answer

If you're gonna troll at least put some thought into it

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Independent, self directed, mature, emotionally stable, successful.

Also I don’t get how having a big dick and being over 6 feet tall makes someone a “real man”.

They could still be an immature asshat.

Not to mention the men who don’t have those things, does that really make them “less of a man” just because they weren’t genetically wired a certain way?

Manhood is about who you are as a person/individual. Not superficial shit that women find attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

based on your list. Welcome to the women who will never find a man because the men you want are not interested in you. Why do women do this. Your list suggests you're only going to be interested in the top 5% of men.. The 5% that will treat you like a pump and dump.

Anonymous · Answer

A high quality man is a man that can provide, has life skills, is reputable, takes care of himself , has standards. I would say a high class man is attractive to other women but that doesn’t mean this man is necessarily 6 ft with a big dick. I think even average stature men if they take care of themselves meet the criteria given how few men above 6ft with big dicks there are.

Dede162000 · Answer

- caring -helpful -honest -at least 5’7 but not a deal breaker -good In bed (doesn’t matter the size as long as they know how to use it) -trustworthy

humanearth · Answer

A real man is someone that can fix or build almost anything A real man is someone that will defend women, children, elderly, and the disabled A real man is someone that is not a female

UniquelyBasic · Answer

A real man does all the things he doesn't want to do when he least wants to do them. He doesn't walk away from his home, his family or his obligations.

Unit1 · Answer

Yay! I'm not a real man! I do not exist! I'm out!

Yucy_Gluttony · Answer

Born a man. And when looking for a relationship, not a childish one!

MementoMori777 · Answer

I'm just glad I can fit many of the standards from most women in the comments, let me know I'm on the right path 😂

andreasderjuengere · Answer

A ''real'' man won't allow others to specify what's 'real'. :D Thus, many ''real men'' are copies of someone else's phantasies.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Both these guys are weird looking. They look like cartoons and not men.

zagor · Answer

Gee, Rock Hudson was all of these. Google him, and that is what you're looking for...

neemooo · Answer

A Real man don’t cheat , lie , use thier strength on weak ones , he spend time with family, friends and always looking for being kind and strong and never use someone just for own benefit.. alhamdullalah.

Anonymous · Answer

That is a list of all or most of the things which a woman wants to extract or otherwise benefit from by association. None of these things are anything to do with being a man.

TheIrishWolf · Answer

A man that stays away from the women that's looking fir standards like yours. That's a real smart man.  Your standards are astronomical. 😂

slatyb · Answer

He takes care of himself and the people around him.

Anonymous · Answer

So are you asking what makes a big quality man or are you asking what makes a masculine man (I'm assuming this is what you mean by real man)

I'm sure they have overlapping qualities but they are not completely the same

AdithyaR · Answer

Good heart, kind Isn't afraid of being seen as soft or feminine Takes care of themself Takes responsibility Respects my interests

shortster · Answer

A real man provides for and nurtures his family; and protects them when danger arises. Anything else is marshmallow fluff. You add it for flavor; but it is unhealthy to have on its own.

Ptrmbrs88 · Answer

You bring up the topic of  high  quality men, and yet use an image of the Tate brothers, LOL :D They're about as LOW quality as you can get.

bingbongbangbung · Answer

the size of a penis is not a scientifically valid way of determining testosterone

Grond21 · Answer

What, and everyone who doesn't match your list is a fake man?

exitseven · Answer

Men who have honor and stand up for themselves and their families.

Nelaary · Answer

Kind sweet honest man of his word smart treat me with respect

OddBeMe · Answer

Anyone who doesn’t call themselves “high quality man” or “alpha male” or hates feminism for some asinine reason.

Anonymous · Answer

Kindness and sense of humor is important, but everything else listed here is meaningless BS.

Randalama · Answer

The ones that ignore you and your definitions. The ones that understand that they should ignore you and your low quality definitions.

kakaling · Answer

Why do I feel like he is a king living in a castle full of wives. Having countless of son competing for the throne.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol at the anon loser making up a guy that does not exist. A very painful bump down to Earth is coming her way.

msc545 · Answer

The kind of guy that doesn't let women define things,.

EaterPeter · Answer

Knows how to use his car brain money woman genital tongue lips

berrytired · Answer

Honest Reliable Loyal Physically Strong Protective Kind

Anonymous · Answer

A Definition of Real Man is your own personal Perfect Man mention above - Lives in Fantasy Land, A Fictional and Non Existent.

Anonymous · Answer

There is no such thing. It’s called social role play.

art84 · Answer

Overprotective

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