•Over 6ft Tall
•Athletic/Muscular
•Financially stable
• Own a home
• Well educated
• Handsome
• Big Dick
• Successful
• Good sense of humour
• Kind
• Strong
• Wants kids

•Over 6ft Tall
•Athletic/Muscular
•Financially stable
• Own a home
• Well educated
• Handsome
• Big Dick
• Successful
• Good sense of humour
• Kind
• Strong
• Wants kids

A high quality man to me is one who has similar morals/beliefs/interests, self respect, a great mindset, amazing goofy sense of humor, cute face, attractive lean to average physique (abs do not come to mind), kind, courageous, overprotective, great conversationalist (talker and listener), doesn’t rely on smoking/drinking/partying to have fun, has a strong work ethic, carries himself in a not so “all about social media/hookup culture” kind of way, and just overall a self-assured lonewolf who walks his own path
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A man that keeps his word
Shows respect for others no matter their status in society
Had drive and ambition
Has good morals , firm boundaries and integrity
A man that expresses him self positively with the ones he loves without fear.
Practises self care and looks after his mental health without expecting others to look after it for him.
He would be open to opinions that differ from his own but does not take too much offence to them.
Physically- no specific type that defines a real man - maybe if I had to pick a physical trait - taller then me, but ideally knows things and stuff and wants to teach me these things so I can learn (I call em modern day yodas).
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Hahaha... can tell you are young. Only three (3) out of twelve (12) traits are quality traits you should look for in a man.
Most of the list is superficial. Nothing wrong with eye candy, but in the end it isn't a trait that defines a "Real Man".
I am not saying that in a bad way, trust me, your list will change over time.
A high quality man, is someone you trust with your heart and life and your children's hearts and life.
All the muscles, successfulness, big dick, 6 ft tall... means nothing if the guy doesn't have morals and your back.
Most often the guy that is best for you doesn't meet half these criteria and the sooner you realize that, the better off you will be.
A real man is:
- a male who takes care of his health.
- pride in his appearance.
- isn’t arrogant or cocky.
- doesn’t let a woman control him.
- doesn’t bow to female shit tests and shaming tactics.
- stands strong with truth and logic.
- is mentally strong but also compassionate and gentle.
- has the ability to become a monster if needed but rarely needs to.
- carries himself with dignity and respect.
- expects the same from the woman he is with.
Men like Jordan Peterson.
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Being 6 feet tall and having a big penis doesn't make someone a real man. In my opinion, a boy because a man when he becomes responsible whether when it comes to taking care of the responsibility of a child, partner and his family. Someone who doesn't hide or avoid things. Someone with stability and who's working towards his life goal. Someone who stays true to his words. Someone with honour and dignity... good morals. He would stand up for right whether it's for himself or his loved ones or strangers. These are few things I consider that makes someone a man.
undying loyalty would be a good start
when shit hits the fan, a "real man" sticks by you to the very end. they don't sell you out to save their own skin or protect their ego or to get some female validation
Some of those are not bad, but is he still a high quality man if he loses the money, nice house, muscles, etc. because things in life happen?
That's why ultimately the character has to matter a lot in a person. We all want somebody who looks good, will have a great body for sex, can afford things, etc. But when the character isn't there you don't really have a great person. You gotta think about how there are a ton of guys out there with all the things you describe but aren't standing up for their woman, are nice and respectful only to people who are just like him or have his status, and don't know how to be a father even if they want kids.
A man with the character of a high quality man doesn’t lose his money without a catastrophe or economic collapse.
A high quality man doesn’t stop practicing fitness because he’s consistent.
A high quality man doesn’t lose the house because he’s on top of his shit and a catastrophe hasn’t happened.
Also , character is fine and all….. but not everyone who says they have character have character…. They are just harmless.
Men who actually have standards for themselves and for the woman they date.
I don't want a guy who goes out every night and just picks up any girl who will give him a chance at a one night stand. Plus he has to really care about him and look out for his health if he doesn't care for himself how can he care for others. I also want a men whose willing to commcate, commit and work hard.
Good sense of humour will do for me. Since I’m the same. Sure I don’t wanna date boring man who’s serious all the time. At least he can joke around. If he’s romantic it’s a bonus. And the rest is a bonus I guess.
Although I'm attracted to handsome men, tall, fit and well dressed what makes a quality man in my opinion is the way he treats me and others. Humble, hard working, consistent, smart, kind everything else is a bonus.
a real man is someone who takes care of his family - financially, emotionally, physically. a real man helps with housework.
this is what differentiates a real man from a coward.
the reason why divorce rates are so high is because people are not willing to sacrifice themselves for their families.
I would switch in your list big dick and it would instead you say he´s ready to take the consequences for his actions.
To me a high quality man is defined by his actions not by his looks.
A young boy or adult boy can have a big dick but he´s not ready to take the responsibility for what he did wrong and that´s why a guy could be athletic and have big balls physically and still be a boy.
I'm more just curious how many women think or actually want muscles like that or any muscle? Or just a lean (flat body), tall, doesn't have to be muscled or abs, but just flat, no overhanging belly. Lol.
Anyways, everyone else has already said here what I'd say, muscled somewhat, 6ft plus, cool and reserved, but confident and outgoing, but still somewhat 'polite' about it all. 👀
I think independent, self sufficient ie money is in order, kind but not a push over, ie he helps on his terms only. He has a home and can take care of it. Strength and body sizes are irrelevant. Aslong as he can hold his ground, and he can do that with intelligence if he lacks pure strength.
Man, getting your nipple tattoed must sting like crazy... Anyway, I'm not going to take their advice on real manly men, they got those juice bodies, the juice shrinks your balls and makes you sterile, it's counterintuitive.
I'd say pick like 4 things out of your list, if a guy has it, and is willing to work on more, sounds like a winner.
Romantic
Kind
Patient
Hard worker
Loyal
Smart
Takes initiative
Reliable
Around 6'
Financially stable
Handsome
Successful
Good sense of humor
Wants a family
A “real man” LMAO! Just because someone isn’t what you want romantically he isn’t a real man. Especially over things that is out of his control?
Look. Like what you like. But you probably don’t like it when people talk derogatory about you either.
Just because you aren’t into someone doesn’t make them bad.
Respected by those older than him
Good reputation
Well known as being reliable
Has good self control (aka not a filthy slut like Andrew Tate who has sex outside of marriage and likely has bastard children)
Is close to both of his parents
Not a bastard child
Not a child of divorcees
A man my dad truly respects (which is rare)
A lot more of course but those are the main ones that already weed out most men.
A real man takes care of his business no matter what problem he has to face. A real man takes on any challenge and provides for his family. A real man will do whatever it takes to make sure his family is safe and he is willing to die to make sure his family survives
If they have a penis and balls they aren't fake are they?
As for what makes a high quality man? To me it's the following.
#1: Loves God and Jesus Christ and Bible with all his heart and deeply fears God.
#2: Has integrity.
#3: Is honest.
#4: Isn't lazy.
#5: Has sound and practical wisdom.
#6: Willing to provide for his family.
#7: Has decent anount of self confidence.
#8: Has good courage.
#9: Respectful.
#10: Generous.
A real man:
(If you'd ask me)
A high quality man...
Well the guy in the back of the picture is gross so he's definitely not high quality lol.
Many guys now realize that "Real man" is a loaded term.
Manipulative: designed to get him to make sacrifices, generally for the benefit of the one doing the manipulation.
Degrading: designed to belittle those who inherited characteristic that do not meet the ideal.
Self-aggrandizing: when used by those who tailor the definition to fit themselves.
As for me, my definition of a "real man" is an adult human male.
Well your type looks more like the perfect wishlist guy.
A real man, is a hetero male (no trans, no gay, no whatsoever) who pursues his passions & ambitions, acts responsibly, is loyal, has some confidence, knows his morals and isn't a jerk, is curious and likes to explore, stays healthy, likes to help where help is needed, doesn't hide his emotions and doesn't throw his life away with binge drinking or drugs.
In my opinion, a high-quality man is someone who is trying to lead a meditative and mindful lifestyle.
I agree with all of this. I'd add masculine though too. Tbh if a girl doesn't date men at least mostly like this then she's low quality. A girl who entertains brokies fat slobs or guys in their moms basement... she's a loser.
If you're gonna troll at least put some thought into it
Lol at this being a pink account 🤣
Yeah lol that's actually one of my alts
Im pleased you also realized the troll behind this. The same usual terms and phrases. Stands out a mile off
Independent, self directed, mature, emotionally stable, successful.
Also I don’t get how having a big dick and being over 6 feet tall makes someone a “real man”.
They could still be an immature asshat.
Not to mention the men who don’t have those things, does that really make them “less of a man” just because they weren’t genetically wired a certain way?
Manhood is about who you are as a person/individual. Not superficial shit that women find attractive.
That your born with*
based on your list. Welcome to the women who will never find a man because the men you want are not interested in you. Why do women do this. Your list suggests you're only going to be interested in the top 5% of men.. The 5% that will treat you like a pump and dump.
A high quality man is a man that can provide, has life skills, is reputable, takes care of himself , has standards. I would say a high class man is attractive to other women but that doesn’t mean this man is necessarily 6 ft with a big dick. I think even average stature men if they take care of themselves meet the criteria given how few men above 6ft with big dicks there are.
- caring
-helpful
-honest
-at least 5’7 but not a deal breaker
-good In bed (doesn’t matter the size as long as they know how to use it)
-trustworthy
Is there a particular size that feels better though?
6 inch is the best I’ve had. Any bigger and I end up bleeding and getting bruised. I’m very shallow
No kidding! You should get with me then haha
Nah but seriously though, it’s just so bewildering to me how every woman seems to say something different
It’s all in preference I guess. Just like how men have preferences on boobs and asses. Even though over 50% would rather have big boobs and butt it seems and over 50% of girls like smaller dicks.
I’m trying to remain faithful in God but either way I do sometimes worry that even though I might be emotionally compatible with a future wife, we might not be sexually compatible
I respect your decision. Personally I could not marry someone without knowing if I’m sexually compatible marriage is forever and I would not want to be in an unhappy sexless marriage. But that’s just me
Nah like it’s just so hard for me to know what to do. I know I’m not suppossed to fornicate, but at the same time though, I wouldn’t want that to happen either
I sadly can’t help you with that. If you are following a religion then I’ve been told my whole life god will show you the way you need to go. I lost my faith when I was very young so I can’t help with that either. But I know from what I was taught growing up. He was a plan just go with what he shows you.
I see what you mean. Why did you lose your faith though?
I’m too scientific. I was told to just put my faith it in but so many questions came to my mind. I couldn’t just believe it. As well as I had a very tramatic child/early teen year and lots of abuse again after I turned 15 from men boyfriend and my mother I just couldn’t believe that that’s what god decided to give me. That he hated me that much to mess up my life so bad. So I gave up
I see what you mean. I guess not everybody forms the same connection or feels the same way about it.
Nope everyone and Eveyyging is so different even twins and triplets it’s all different
A real man is someone that can fix or build almost anything
A real man is someone that will defend women, children, elderly, and the disabled
A real man is someone that is not a female
A real man does all the things he doesn't want to do when he least wants to do them. He doesn't walk away from his home, his family or his obligations.
Yay! I'm not a real man! I do not exist!
I'm out!
Born a man. And when looking for a relationship, not a childish one!
I'm just glad I can fit many of the standards from most women in the comments, let me know I'm on the right path 😂
A ''real'' man won't allow others to specify what's 'real'.
:D
Thus, many ''real men'' are copies of someone else's phantasies.
Both these guys are weird looking. They look like cartoons and not men.
Gee, Rock Hudson was all of these. Google him, and that is what you're looking for...
A Real man don’t cheat , lie , use thier strength on weak ones , he spend time with family, friends and always looking for being kind and strong and never use someone just for own benefit.. alhamdullalah.
That is a list of all or most of the things which a woman wants to extract or otherwise benefit from by association.
None of these things are anything to do with being a man.
A man that stays away from the women that's looking fir standards like yours. That's a real smart man.
Your standards are astronomical. 😂
He takes care of himself and the people around him.
So are you asking what makes a big quality man or are you asking what makes a masculine man (I'm assuming this is what you mean by real man)
I'm sure they have overlapping qualities but they are not completely the same
Good heart, kind
Isn't afraid of being seen as soft or feminine
Takes care of themself
Takes responsibility
Respects my interests
A real man provides for and nurtures his family; and protects them when danger arises. Anything else is marshmallow fluff. You add it for flavor; but it is unhealthy to have on its own.
You bring up the topic of high quality men, and yet use an image of the Tate brothers, LOL :D They're about as LOW quality as you can get.
the size of a penis is not a scientifically valid way of determining testosterone
What, and everyone who doesn't match your list is a fake man?
just watch OP hit the wall and own a dozen cats while having several kids from many Chads who left her for younger Stacies
Men who have honor and stand up for themselves and their families.
Kind sweet honest man of his word smart treat me with respect
Anyone who doesn’t call themselves “high quality man” or “alpha male” or hates feminism for some asinine reason.
Kindness and sense of humor is important, but everything else listed here is meaningless BS.
The ones that ignore you and your definitions. The ones that understand that they should ignore you and your low quality definitions.
Why do I feel like he is a king living in a castle full of wives. Having countless of son competing for the throne.
Lol at the anon loser making up a guy that does not exist. A very painful bump down to Earth is coming her way.
The kind of guy that doesn't let women define things,.
Knows how to use his car brain money woman genital tongue lips
Honest
Reliable
Loyal
Physically Strong
Protective
Kind
A Definition of Real Man is your own personal Perfect Man mention above - Lives in Fantasy Land, A Fictional and Non Existent.
There is no such thing. It’s called social role play.
Overprotective
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