Ladies, what do you want your man to do if someone slapped your butt?

[Anonymous]

Basically if this happens:

I actually don't know what I would do, as much as I want to be like:

But I can't risk having an assault on my record and I also don't want to go to prison and not be able to protect my girlfriend or put her in a dangerous situation. I'd probably call the police because I don't want him on the streets doing it to other people, but I'm worried that she might think less of me for not taking matters in my own hands and having the police do it for me.

FIGHT HIM

CALL THE POLICE

DO NOTHING AND CARRY ON

OTHER

[Anonymous]

Y'know, it'd be interesting to see the answers you'd get with a gender-reversed version of this question, asked by a pink anon instead of a blue anon: "Gentlemen, what do you want your woman to do if someone slapped your butt?"

Would any of us be saying stuff like "She should fight the girl if she cares about me", "Slap her face in return", "Dislocate her jaw", "Film it as I kick her ass. I’m not afraid of going to jail for a woman that needs to be put in her place," or "Don’t have to physically fight her, but at least have to make a scene about it and be all “yo what the FUCK bitch?” and get angry about it. Anything less would upset me"?

I very much doubt it. See, we're expected to fight for our women, defend them and protect them, whilst being completely at their beck and call, like prize-fighting dogs on a leash, or gladiators to be tossed into the arena. But are they are expected to fight for us? Or even care about us? Hell nah. We don't mean shit to them; never have, never will. And if this happened to us, WE'D be the ones getting blamed and shamed for it, because "she wouldn't have slapped your ass if you hadn't let her do it, it's ALL YOUR FAULT, I NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN." Women...

[Luke______]

For real tho.
Not many men would have a problem with a woman randolmy slapping their ass...

[ShortCircuit]

I'd humiliate him verbally without violence. That way, I could defend my woman's honor without having an assault on my record. Of course, if he wanted a fight, I'd let him hit me first, then hit him back harder, rinse and repeat. That way, I could plead self defense, because I am legally entitled to one strike in response to each of his.

[fauchelevent]

Nothing. I guess calling the police would be okay too. I just don't want him getting in a stupid fight over something so ridiculous and risk getting himself, me and other people injured. It's upsetting but I'm a big girl and I'll get over it.

[Asker]

Keep in mine it will hurt your man too, men are naturally very territorial with their women and seeing another man harming his lady tends to be very impactful to a man.

[fauchelevent]

Either way, I'm the one that's actually had my body disrespected, it should be up to me what happens in retaliation to that. Regardless of whether his male pride has been hurt or not, I'm the one that's been slighted. He should respect my wishes and keep himself under control.

[KenM9215]

Is this... a mature answer? :O

[fauchelevent]

@KenM9215 I certainly hope so.

[CarpetDenim]

Don’t have to physically fight him, but at least have to make a scene about it and be all “yo what the FUCK dude?” and get angry about it. Anything less would upset me.

[Asker]

Yeah, I forgot to put "bitch him out" as an option.

[CarpetDenim]

Yeah, and also that way if the dude gets angry back and tries to make it a physical fight, my guy will get to punch him in self defense lol.

[Staiby]

I wouldn't want him to ignore what happened most definitely.

If it was a someone we knew like a superior at his work - It might put his job at risk if he tried to bring repercussions which is sad but realistic. I would want him to say to me "I'm sorry that this happened to you" and then to be very cold and minimize contact with the superior.

If it was a stranger on the street or in a night club, if we perceived them to be really dangerous then, taking into account the risks vs the benefits, I would just like some comfort from him, for him to ask me if i wanna leave and acknowledge my hurt. That would be enough for me. I don't want a punch-up, I don't want him to get hurt. I believe in being the bigger person and sometimes that means being sensible and and walking away.

If it was someone who my boyfriend could totally take on if that's what it came to then I would appreciate him yelling at the fuckhead "you're a piece of shit!" and then moving on.

Guys who slap girls on the arse like being dominant and getting what they want without objection and they like to strike down challengers aka the boyfriend of the girl whose arse he just slapped. It's about the power trip. It's something that's taken me a while to comprehend since I don't get a kick out of dominating people

[daydreammarie]

You wouldn't be less of a man.

In my opinion by the time you call the cops the dude will be gone. Although if guys really do that it is disgusting and he should at least be taught not to do that.

If I were in a situation where that happened, probably never will be, I would either be way to shocked to react or turn around and start yelling at him. Which won't do any good but I'll feel better. I wouldn't need my boyfriend to fight a dude in my behalf especially over something as minor as that. No matter how hot that would be. Its silly.

[vald9inches]

it more has to do with the guy then you. like it would not have been any different if that guy slapped his ass instead. he was basically calling him and his girlfriend his bitches

[daydreammarie]

That's a weird mindset and seriously stupid if people do that for that reason.

[vald9inches]

what is stupid exactly? 😂

[daydreammarie]

People sexual harassing someone thinking they are claiming them. Its weird

[vald9inches]

yea some guys were brought up with no manners like that or they think the world is their toilet and have no respect for other people

[CherryRoseChampange]

Tbh if a guy slapped my ass when I'm with my man I wouldn't what for him to do something. I naturally have a very assertive nature but I I'm also very calm.

I'll just say, "Watch it, keep your hands to yourself now," or "Don't touch me." And keep walking. But I'd say it in a way where I was calm but it was also a warning.

[ILoveAnime]

I would probably want him to be upset not because "oh she's mine" or some possessive crap like that but because that's sexual harrassment towards me and, logically, I would be unconfortable. Talk to the other guy would also be nice or even call the police.

[Guanfei]

Saying "she's mine" is sexual harassment?

[ILoveAnime]

@Guanfei no no. I mean the slap to the ass is sexual harassment.

[cassandraa]

I'd want him to stand up for me with words and if he fights us then I'll help my boyfriend out and we'd likely win. In your situation I wouldn't want him to get in a fight if it risked that type of punishment for getting in a fight. I'd just stand up to him myself in a situation like that and walk away.

[bklynbadboy1]

I wouldn't want to fight but I'd lose it I know I would I don't see myself being able to stay under control if somebody did that to my girl cuz it's not only disrespectful to her as disrespectful to me and the hood dude and me it's just not going to allow that something got to go down with somebody got to pay for that

[MzAsh]

Film it as I kick his ass. I’m not afraid of going to jail for a man that needs to be put in his place.

[GreatnessBack]

My man... wo-man!!
My wo-man!!

[Exterminatore]

Just know if you start throwing punches at a guy and he drops you, the “you can’t hit me I’m a woman” excuse is out of play. Before you ask, I’d let a chick get a few shots in, then I’m gonna drop her. I’m not gonna turtle or just push her away, I’m gonna knock her out cold with one shot, and all the other douche bags that come after me too once I do. Mess with the bull thinking your a bad chick, you get the horns. It’s that simple, or keep your hands to yourself and avoid going to the ER.

[Exterminatore]

@GreatnessBack

For the record I’d never walk around slapping chicks asses either as that’s way wrong.

[Exterminatore]

@GreatnessBack

Sorry meant for MzAsh not you.

[MzAsh]

Of course. I’d never hit a man if I didn’t expect for him to try to fight back. But he should know not to touch a woman sexually without her permission for her to fight back either. It’s called consequences.

[Exterminatore]

It’s also not called self defense.

I’m NOT saying he wouldn’t be asking for it and despite what the law says NOT saying it wouldn’t be warranted.

Just saying... be careful if you ever responded that way. There’s a definite limit. 1 punch in the face for 1 ass slap is legit and deserved, but if you go to far you might end up in a situation you’d rather not be in.

[MzAsh]

He should understand that as well.

[Exterminatore]

Well yeah, but a guy who does that doesn’t care about rules right from the start.

[MzAsh]

Someone needs to make him care. That’s the point.

[Exterminatore]

Agreed. Needs a firm approach to being taught a lesson.

A little “special education.”

Why not let your man handle it though?

[Exterminatore]

If someone did that to my lady, it would look like a mountain lion got hold of the guy when I was done. That’s grounds for an immediate ass kicking.

[MzAsh]

I’m sure he could and I’m sure he’d want to, but men who are going to ass slap need to personally fear and feel the consequences from the hands of the woman he assaulted. Men like that do it to women because they think they can get away with it, and they will unless women bring down the hammer themselves.

[Exterminatore]

Yeah, but I think your man could drop the hammer way harder. I’d hope anyway.

I agree with your statement. They do it cause they think the can and need to be taught a lesson.

[MzAsh]

He’s larger so yes but I think in general women will be better respected for not making our men fight for us over every little thing.

[Exterminatore]

That’s a reasonable argument.

In boxing there’s men’s and women’s boxing and they’re separated by weight class for a reason.

Maybe spray him with some pepper spray first. That way you won’t get beat up too.

Get mad at me if you want for saying this but a girl with a busted up mug doesn’t make her man happy. Just sayin’.

[MzAsh]

Well letting some jackass get away with sexual assault and no street justice doesn’t make me happy either.

[Exterminatore]

Nor I but it’s lessons tend to be longer remembered.

[MzAsh]

A man’s happiness with his woman’s face isn’t the priority here.

[The_FallenOne]

Nothing, because the person who sexually harassed me would already be unconcious because I smacked him in a pressure point. He'll be on the ground either in a coma or dead. 🙂

I don't need a man to save me, self defence mother fucker.

[Vegeta01]

You wouldn't do shit

[The_FallenOne]

You wanna bet?
I've taken kick boxing, taekwondo, and self defense classes since I was 5. No one is going to sexual assult me let alone attack me without getting severely hurt. I mean if you really think you're tough, try me. Not gonna be my fault when you're left unconscious. I LOVE it when guys underestimate me because I'm a female. It makes it so much funnier when they get their ass kicked. 😂

[The_FallenOne]

Honey, I read the first sentence of your keyboard warrior "I'm a tough mommas boy" shit. Then deleted it. So you wrote all of that for nothing. 😂🤣 If you want to act macho, you can go somewhere else. Don't start shit with me little boy, I am not the one.

As I've said before I have years of experience with martial arts. If you think you're so tough atemp to assult anyone with a black belt in kick boxing. Your misogynistic ass will be handed to you.

P. s
Underestimating people primarily based off gender will be your GREATEST downfall.

[The_FallenOne]

No need to reply because you are now blocked. I don't talk to attention seeking people instigating drama.

[Kalinka_]

I think you'd be good friends with Ultimate_Gohan

[The_FallenOne]

Why is that?

[Kalinka_]

I mean Vegeta01 because they both use Dragon ball profile pictures.

[The_FallenOne]

Oh 😂

[The_FallenOne]

I don't think they would like echother because Ultimate_Gohan is a cool, funny, and friendly guy. The dude above is just a wanna be macho d-bag.

[Kalinka_]

Yeah, I've seen that. Not too friendly towards women.

[ZambieMouse]

If that happened, I'd probably want my boyfriend to wrap an arm around my waist, pull my close, give the guy a death glare and tell him to fuck off and stop being a creep.

[lightbulb27]

oohhh, that's good!

[AynonOMouse]

Fight him and put him down. If there are no witnesses or cameras he may get worse. I'm always armed, so he is going to lose either way.
That guy is stupid. He could get killed for BS like that.

https://youtu.be/9cbZq1foczshttps://youtu.be/Skz7M-odg-0

[RationalMale]

Ehhh one the one hand you can't attack someone for that, legally.

One the other hand I am always carrying one of these, so if I cursed him and he attacked me, things would be fine.

[GrandmaT]

Some sort of possessive behavior that won't get us arrested.
Like shout at him (but no fight) or say "hands off, this ass is mine" and then grab or slap it himself

If my dude started a fight he'd definitely go too far

[On_the_other_hand]

It happened to my girlfriend. I confronted him in front of his girlfriend and his girlfriend told him to walk away. I don't think my girlfriend liked that I called him out, but I wasn't having it.

[Anonymous]

Being in a subway, if I grabbed your ass I would enjoy it, but if you were turning around to slap an innocent man, guess what assault. Better to just stand there and let me keep squeezing. Dont see ths big deal. My wangs safely tucked away from your honey hole. You can't get preggers.

[SarahVanRensburg]

Definitely wouldn't want a fist fight or anything crazy to happen. Confronting the guy and asking for an apology would do.

[JanetJa]

Seriously, if he isn't angry about it being too scared of the guy. That's it. I'm done. Nothing worse than a guy cucking himself.

[lightbulb27]

What he said calmly... he dude... you have good taste in "asses"... but this one is taken and that is out of line. Re-think that behavior. keep walking. Better, or he has to get angry and be dominant?

[JanetJa]

@lightbulb27 That's good too. The fact that he says that shows it bother him.

[KimKardashiansFeet]

I would never want them to fight each other, i want my guy to tell him off and maybe be a bit angry about it. To me fighting just sounds.. stupid for some reason.

[Liam_Hayden]

Getting him prosecuted and placed on the lifetime sex offender list is a much better punishment than knocking him on his ass or risking getting killed.

[lightbulb27]

I know of a guy who went to prison for engaging in such acts (more than one). yes!

[jeremythedrummer]

I am not really a fighter, but i do have a voice i can use to intimidate people. Ill probably confront him and warn him about it. Should he get physical with me, there's always self defense moves which should teach him a lesson.

[GreatnessBack]

Do a quick snap kick to his knee to drop him a split second after he smacks.
Knee him in the face.
KO.