Let say your in a tight space perhaps in a scenario where exam results came out on a notice board and everyone is huddled very closely together looking for their results. Now, let say a guy is behind you and his hand passes against your butt or in fact is touching your butt for a long while.
Not so much like what is shown in the picture but like let say a few of his fingers or dorsal aspect of his hand is in fact making contact with your butt.
You do not have a legal right to slap him simply because you feel offended but you always have the right to use reasonable force to protect yourself from an assault. It is important to understand whether he is intentionally touching your ass or his hand has simply been pushed against your ass by the crowd. If the contact is unintentional, you have no right to use any force whatsoever.
I think women sometimes look for an excuse to slap a guy because it puts them on some moral high horse trip. If you are simply looking for an excuse to use force against a guy, will you still feel morally justified when that guy uses force against you to protect himself from an unjustified assault?
If it's just for split second - it was an acciden, but for a longer period of time. Take a deep breath and give him a hit. Make sure he gets the point.
I don't thinks it is even wise to slap because of accidental touch. Well from my perspective I wouldn't slap (even if it wouldn't be an acident), simly because it's not my nature to be irrelevent, there are a lot different people, more rapid act nature person would slap and think it's right.
Lol I already did that. A guy on the underground actually properly grabbed my ass. I turned around and slapped the pervert. Hard. Lol it was basically a reflex 😙😅
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Well that sounds like an accident, I've slapped guys before for intentionally slapping/touching my ass, but when I was younger, now I just confront them
have to make an ass-essment of whether it was intetional and inappropriate. If so, then I'd give verbal or slap.
I had a scenario in elementary where the food line was narrow and girl wasn't listening to scoot in so I tried to squeeze by and our butts touched. she was very offended. but I was like... meh (that word hadn't been invented yet, but expresses my feelings well... its her issue for having a big butt and not listening). If she had slapped me, I would have been mad cause wasn't intentional.
I perosnally think a better response is to be confident and look down upon him with your strength. Guys want to lower you and make you feel less, if you raise up in strength then he doesnt' get what he wants. .. power ove ryou.
Ngl I don't know where I stand on this... I mean firstly you wanna be sure they're actually touching you to feel you, and not just in contact with you; they might not think of contact as a big deal or not really realise
Assuming they're touching you because bette a creepy dickhead, I fee like they deserve to be slapped But at the same time I don't think that means you should-escalating a situation from someone being creepy and intrusive, to physical violence is a fairly dramatic step up: maybe just tell him to fuck off and slap if he actively continues
The right thing to do is simply have him charged for sexual assault. If you slap him he can counter with assault. Often the charges would be dropped by both parties because both would be at fault for assault.
So if you can control yourself, it is always best not hit someone in return for touching your ass. I am sure most people would understand and likely say good for her, but it is just not how things work.
1) if his hand passes over your butt it could very well be just because of the crowd and was 100% accidental 2) if he is full out grabbing your butt, you have the right to smack him... butt if people dont see they're gonna be like "that chick is crazy" But yea i think if they are grabbing at you you have the right to slap Pass over no right to slap Also bad picture to make your point lol
Nope its an accident. Changing the set of him slapping it in the hallway and not in a crowd than yeah. The dude just grazed your butt with probably the back side of his hand in a crowd. I'm sure it happens all the time.
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