Because she's very attractive, like you said. Lots of girls get into relationships with guys they know have cheated, lied, and played. Why? Because he's attractive. (In whatever way that might be for her). He's good looking, charming, confident, funny, all of the above. May not be what you want to hear, but looks are very important to men when it comes to attraction. Your friend is probably outgoing too, but it's her looks that are drawing in the guys.
People are more likely to date those they find attractive (whether they're good or bad) than they are to date those they find unattractive. It's just the way it goes. However, most people will eventually mature and stop dating people that are bad for them, even if they're attractive. It will rarely happen though that people date someone who is unattractive to them. They'll just keep looking for the attractive person that's ALSO good.
I was the ugly friend once, but it doesn't have to turn you into a bad person or bring you down. I kept the morals that I had back then and I'm a much happier person because of it. My only advice is to work on improving in yourself what men find attractive. (Mainly looks). After all, if a guy was complaining about how shy/insecure he was and wondering why all the girls were more attracted to his confident friend, I'd give the same advice. To find out what *women* find attractive (mainly confidence & personality).
Most guys will eventually stop dating girls like her because she's a cheater. But guys will not stop dating women they think are hot. Working on your appearance will only make you a few steps ahead of her in the dating game. Because then you'll be what they're looking for physically, AND you'll be a good person. If given the choice between 2 hot girls, one who cheats and one who doesn't, who do you think they'll pick? Good luck!
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I've known some girls like that, and I'd say they have what I've heard described as "pretty-girl syndrome." They feel like any guy they date is lucky to have them, therefore they completely control the relationship.
She probably lies and cheats because she feels like it won't matter if her boyfriends find out, because they would never have the guts to dump her.
Those girls may seem amazing and super attractive to guys, but the guys that are really looking for an equal, or maybe even a partner for life, will see past that.
Because she's "super pretty" & there a guys, like girls, who are realllyyy shallow. I wouldn't be jealous though, it doesn't sound like the guys she dates would be that high of quality since they put up with her crap.
well, nice guys often end up going for girls who treat them badly (like your friend) and its similar to how nice girls will end up with a**hole guys.
That cocky attitude is a big turnoff for me and those girls need a lot of "putting in their place" so to speak. I like the more sweet girls who take care of me and treat me like a king.
Dont worry too much if it seems like a lot of guys are going for her, because she might be able to get a lot of guys interested but they all will build up a lot of resentment over time and want to take off.
and why is it some guys can get any girl they want? just face it, some people are a hell of a lot more attractive than others.
and I say that as one of the not-so-attractive demographic...
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Guys are slaves to getting a girl and chasing sex. Generally around ~25 they learn and get past this, but girls can weaponize sex and use it to get things for pretty much their whole life.
She's beautiful, and you're not.
Men are drawn to women visually. And the guys that get cheated on - too bad for them. Should know better.well some girls are like that... I'm not but don't let it make yourself feel ugly... a lot of boys like girls like that
i think the phrase "She's super pretty" answers your question. a nice face and a sexy bod can make guys very forgiving of other flaws
Guys fall for the "slutty girl" just as often as girls fall for the "bad boy".
Who knows, have you got a picture of your friend
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