I'm a freshman in college and I like this guy that's a senior. I added him on Fb over winter break and chatted him a few times. The conversation seemed to go well and we talked about anything and everything. This past week was my first week back at school and I've seen him around quite a bit. At random times though, never at the right moment. Anyways, yesterday my friend and I were talking to this guy that works at the security desk and the guy I like came and sat in a chair behind us while he was waiting for someone. (it was free skating for my school that night and he was going with a few of his friends and I was going with my best friend) He didn't say anything to me though and neither did I. A short while later my friend and I see him at the rink. He's a social guy so he was talking to a lot of people while he was skating. My friend and I were skating too, doing our own thing until her ankle started hurting and she went to sit down, so I was left skating all by myself. Not once did he come up to me to talk the entire time we were there, besides at one point he skated up to my friend and I and was like "hey ladies what's up?", but then quickly skated away. I feel like he talked to pretty much everyone else from my school that was there except me and my friend. I don’t understand, I thought I would catching him looking at me sometimes before, and I’ve been told I’m an attractive girl (you can see my profile and decide for yourself), but he didn’t even try talking to me last night when he had the perfect chance and I was all by myself. So should I assume he has no interest and move on? Or is it possible that he likes me, and even though he’s generally an outgoing guy he’s shy around me, and that’s why he hasn’t tried talking to me?
Can outgoing guys be shy towards the girl they like?
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