Why do women wear revealing clothes but feel uncomfortable when someone looks at their cleavage?

[Anonymous]

[virginbish]

Beats me.
It makes logical sense for people to stare If you display them in public 🤷
But, I also understand that some ladies have really large breasts and don't mean to show cleavage, but it just kind of happens. And I can understand that it would be annoying to constantly be taken in that light and stared at when you can't really do much to contain them. In that case, men need to express some restraint and respect her wishes to be seen as more than just big jugs, because as hard as it is; that poor lady wants to be seen as more than just her breasts.

But I agree with guys when it comes to "revealing clothes" and when the girl doesn't put any effort to cover up. If you show it in public, you are asking for attention and stares.
The whole argument of "because girls wear it for themselves and think it looks cute" is total and utter bull. Girls don't show off breasts because they think it looks cute, they know their bodies give sex appeal. They wear it because they know it will bring them the attention that they want.
If they were in an all female atmosphere, I assure you that they wouldn't dress like that, unless they want to show off to the other girls.
Girls that wear such clothes dont really do it for themselves, it's either to attract attention from the opposite gender, or to display aggressive and dominant behaviour with the same sex.

[Киттйлинк]

Look is fine... it’s weird when people STARE! 👀!! There is a difference...

And that aside, guys stare even when there’s no revealing stuff..

sometimes we like how something looks and maybe sometimes want to be admired but not stared at...

that’s uncomfortable for ANYBODY, ... yet you wouldn’t know cause most girls don’t do that to you even if they love how you look and WANT to keep looking, we know not to do it so obviously. And avoid looking Pervy or desperate and in the process probably making you feel uncomfortable ESPECIALLY if perhaps you don’t find the looker attractive at all..
perhaps and older uglier fat lady and such...

most girls don’t do that.. but men seem to choose not to have self control and rather just not give a f! And instead say if you don’t wanna be looked at, walk around with a giant cover over your body or something. Pathetic.

[Asker]

Look, it's not in a man's hand to fight the nature and biological actions of an animal. If we like something that we'd like to have to us, we'd look at it as long as it is in the sight

[Киттйлинк]

Excuses. Excuses.
We all have mind control and choices to make.

[Dav1ss]

Look is fine staring is weird also I hate wearing too revealing clothes in public but very rarely i have to wear them during a heatwave or something but I don't like wearing them outside

[Asker]

What if we're having a conversation and you're wearing something extreme?

[Dav1ss]

I wouldn't mind if you looked but if you started to stare I wouldn't like it

[Asker]

But how do I contain that insult that you'd give me unconciously?

[Dav1ss]

What?

[Love2Jackit]

They really like 2 get attention. As for the part about being uncomfortable. Many times that's an act. Just like a magician doing magic. Things are not always what they seem.

[ROCKS128]

Coz the person who looks there isn't good enough as per their thinking.

[Breeeeeeeeeeeee]

Because we wear it for ourselves to look cute for ourselves... then theirs the guys out their who think women wear clothes so they can stare all pervy at them

[Grobmate]

Sooo... you wear revealing clothes to be attracted to yourself? Wouldn't that make you Asexual? That's not confusing at all...

Pretty sure they wear it to put themselves on display but only they should get to choose who they are on display to in a public location... so if David Beckham were to peruse the goods then that's not creepy but if Billy-Bob the janitor were to peruse the goods... then that's pervy and creepy.

[anonnnyguy]

@Grobmate Yeah, wearing nice-looking stuff can be entirely for yourself. Not speaking for Bree or w/e but like, you've never worn specific clothes because wearing those clothes makes you feel better than wearing other junk? Exactly the same thing can happen with more revealing clothes.

[Asker]

One word - "she doesn't know what she's talking about".

[Asker]

Actually they were more than one words but I said my point. Women reveal to get approval.

[Grobmate]

@anonnnyguy I have never worn revealing clothes nope. When I do dress I wear clothes that I am comfortable in and/or match the formality of said occasion.

I certainly wouldn't wear clothing that ensures all my junk hangs out and then expect people not to notice...

[Breeeeeeeeeeeee]

I clearly know what I’m talking about because I wrote it. And I wrote it without any typos and it was clear as day. Secondly not ALL girls wear certain clothes for the sake of a mans attention.

[Drooogie4]

there's a big difference between looking and staring

Nobody cares if you look, it's when guys stare and follow. That's when its scary.

[Asker]

Hunter has to keep eyes on the prey.

[Asker]

Dressing up in skirts and then accusing people of sexual harassment.

[VaIiant]

There’s “looking at cleavage” and then leering at my boobs and creeping me out.

[Asker]

What if I'm talking to you?

[VaIiant]

If you’re having a conversation with me and are staring at my boobs, the conversation is going to end.

[Asker]

So why did you say looking is fine?

[VaIiant]

A short glance is natural and normal. Leering/staring is creepy

[PrincessGrail]

Typically cause they’re wearing it for comfort, not to be stared at.

[ChloeStarfire]

I don’t know, I don’t wear revealing clothes myself

[LtJackass]

It is my theory that women like it when attractive men look at them.

[apple24]

Lol I don’t I Naturally have eyes wonder

[Anonymous]

They just like having something to complain about

[Anonymous]

Women don’t play with a full deck