Why is it fat girls are allowed to be picky?

[Anonymous]

But guys get shit when they say they dont wanna date a fat chick but

[Anonymous]

Guys get away with saying that literally all the time lolol
Where are you from?

I'm plus size/fat and picky. I don't have a problem with men who aren't attracted to fat chicks. I have a problem with rude, disrespectful, insulting, immature pathetic excuses for human beings who aim to degrade women with any physical feature they dont like. That's the issue. Most women I know feel the same. If you respectfully express your preference, or know when its not necessary to announce in the first place, because literally no one asked for your opinion or cares about it, then you're fine. You want to be an asshole, then be one and don't complain when you're judged for it or verbally lain out. The whole "be a good person and date whom you want" program is really simple actually. We can critique body shaming in society without forcing you specifically to date anyone.

[PinkMichae]

Preach it. So well put.

[Opinion Owner]

@PinkMichae And his pathetic ass is writing comments like "Pink... If you're fat you dont get a choice on the body type of the guy interested in you... You only get to be that picky if you're skinny or in good shape"

Complete asshole and probably a coward at that. You know this is some punk ass bitch who wouldn't say that shit in any public environment to peoples faces.

Im fat and have always been picky and it works for me. nine times out of ten I've probably turned down and chosen guys much hotter (by conventional standards) than the Asker. Most likely by a long shot. Cry me a river.

[PinkMichae]

It don't hurt my feelings. I know what he says comes from his lack of self worth. He has to put people down unprovoked to bring them to his level. It gives him a false sense of feeling better about himself. As far as I'm concerned there's no issue with him not being attracted to big women. His problem comes from his bad attitude feeling he has to be mean about it. A confident man doesn't need to act that way. That's his issue he needs to deal with because it's not an attractive quality to any woman fat or skinny. Or he can find a woman like him and they can have fun tearing each other down the whole relationship. And that's likely what will happen because karma is a bitch.😎

[kespethdude]

@PinkMichae If I may add, he's also too chicken shit to even post under his real name...

[PinkMichae]

@kespethdude Yes he is. Now if you're trying to point out that she posted anonymously too, let me explain something. In my experience. Most people post anonymously on here because they have mean outrageous comments to say that most find stupid. I think they do it because they don't want to be accountable for the bs they are spouting but the payoff is the negative attention. There's nothing they say that someone can learn from other than they want to be an a$$hole and get reactions out of people. They are insecure and this is how they make themselves feel better.

Miss anonymous had things to say that he could actually learn from. She's teaching him about how women are. Therefore I can see that she is not posting anonymously to troll people like most do. She obviously has a good reason why she needed too. Be observant and see the difference. I have no doubt that miss anonymous would say what she did if she was face to face with a man that's ignorant like mr. Anonymous. I have no doubt he wouldn't say what he said in public to women. He knows if he did he'd never get a date. Even most fit skinny women hate a man that talks down to women who has extra meat on them. Very rarely do trolls troll with their name and face for people to see. They do it anonymously. One more thing. I have yet to come across a woman troll. Just insecure men.

[kespethdude]

@PinkMichae Yes, I've noticed too. Most of the ligitimate anons are females. There are a few legit anon males too, but most are the cowards we are ranting about. Biggest problem is you can't block 'em from that post. This is the reason why I typically don't allow anonymous replies on my questions, the few I have.

[kespethdude]

@PinkMichae Also, I think most of the anon trolls would get their asses kicked if they spewed their shit IRL actually.

[PinkMichae]

@kespethdude. I'm glad we agree.😎

[Factshurt90]

Anyone can be picky. I met the grossest fat girl one day. She was a heavy smoker and wore a ton of makeup. She had the nerve to comment on some guys she hooked up with being ugly. It takes quite a bit to get me irritated, but people who lack self awareness bother me. I just walked away from her.

I don’t understand being that unappealing and that mean

[Hurlyburly]

Everyone is allowed to get preferences. The thing is just that noone is entitled to have these preferences fulfilled

[Anonymous]

They think they are allowed but they can’t and will be alone a long time if they are but yeah I don’t want to date a fat chick either

[PinkMichae]

No one cares that you're picky and don't want to date fat women. Thats your choice. I wouldn't hold that against anyone. But they have just as much right to be picky and not want to date an
a$$hole that makes anonymous nasty comments like a pussy. Point being you can have your preference and still be a decent person without thinking you're superior. Cuz you're not. But you make yourself look inferior when you make idiot comments like that.

[Opinion Owner]

@PinkMichae So I guess you are fat then? I hardly made any bad comments , no more than the asker and yeah it is my preference since I’m not fat but just like the asker said we get more shit for it though

[Asker]

Pink... If you're fat you dont get a choice on the body type of the guy interested in you... You only get to be that picky if you're skinny or in good shape

[PinkMichae]

I'm not skinny skinny. I would say I'm a little fat. And I've had many choices in my life. My current guy has a very sexy body. And he loves mine. Both of you really need to work on getting some self esteem. Only people with no self esteem have to try to tare people down to their level to feel good about themselves. And the fact both of you have to do it anonymously speaks volumes. Go ahead and say what you need too. It's not gonna hurt my feelings. But seriously stop and think what you are compensating for. What's causing you to have no self worth?

[BeHappy1985]

Everyone is allowed to be picky, it just makes them single. So feel free to be single for however long you wish to be.

[MlleCake]

Everyone gets to be picky. Some people are very rude about stating their preferences. A person who looks a certain way is not less valuable as a person just because you don'/t personally find them attractive.

[Pamina]

You're aslo allowed to be picky, like everyone. There's always gonna be people who'll have a problem with your pickiness, so better just ignore them.

[Wulfheard]

Dumb question... Weight should have nothing to do with your personal desires. Fat girls have every right to want what they want. They may not get it but that's true for everyone.

[anmari2001]

Everybody is allowed to be picky, it's called free will

[NatachaReed]

I believe everyone has there own opinion and that is not a problem. However woman are more sensitive and will tel the guy... sorry your not my type. Where a man will say.. sorry i dont date fat girls. Its all in how you treat the matter at hand.

[Lance1965]

Everyone is allowed to have preferences.

[PinkMichae]

*Tear not tare

[Repa33]

Anyone can be lol