In theory it is not okay but the general society reacts to it less because 1) the concept that men always want sex 2) men can't be overpowered by women and raped just like that so such behaviour from women brings less concern. In reality, it is all about how we treat it ourselves, most men will react differently if an attractive woman grabs their butt or a gay guy does the same. Men won't feel threatened by a woman, at most uncomfortable (I am not justifying such inappropriate behaviour tho).
I’ve slapped peoples butts when I was drunk a couple times at a club. Shouldn’t have but whatever. It’s sexual harassment if it’s unwelcome whether it’s male or female.
Men are viewed as expendable by society. Nobody gives a damn when men are sexually harassed but when women are sexually harassed, the masses go berserk.
The only people who do show outrage and speak out against the sexual harassment of men are the family members of the man who got harassed and the men’s rights activists
Women are sexually harassing men all the time but don't look at it that way, and most men don't either. For men, we just don't really get offended by that stuff unless it's particularly cavalier or risqué. We don't take offense to it much.
Women are the squeamish cry babies about any little thing they perceive as sexually threatening.
Sexual harassment is a decision. If you decide to feel harassed, then it's harassment. If you don't, it's not.
Men are not likely to be so butthurt about being touched sexually. Women are crazy butthurt by it for some reason. That's why they're more inclined to feel harassed making it harassment.
I guess women are just generally more sex negative than men.
@Benny_Oakley well i personally am not super comfortable if a random girl touches my butt. but i still see it as a compliment and i'm not like "OH MY GOD HOW DARE SHE OBJECTIFY ME LIKE THAT!! I'LL SUE HER"
i mean it's not like it hurts or causes any damage so why the fuck flip your shit about something like that?
Lol, your reasoning is idiotic. Of course it’s not okay but women definitely don’t have it good considering we get raped and sexually assaulted waaaay more than men do. And when we are, we have to always have proof even though in most sexual harassment cases there are none. But now some states want rape victims to carry their rapists baby, too. And if you get the abortion then women and doctors can have a more severe punishment than the rapist.
But please continue to explain how good women have it.
Well, the rape cases are very rare.. Only 1% of all cases.. So most abortions are just irresponsible women, who got carried away.. But I get to point.. Lol..
I'm pretty sure that's balanced out by the fact that a woman could realistically rape a male teenager, walk away with no consequences and if she gets pregnant from the ordeal make the teenage boy she raped pay child support.
Well, I’m single and also not a cheater so your statement was made why? Lol, so many inaccuracies. Let’s not start making stuff up because you cannot satisfactorily prove your own point.
Mostly true. Women are more likely to be raped. But that's about the only crime where women are the majority of victims. 2. Like I said before proof is ALWAYS necessary. 3. Ok whichever state has that law needs to be purged of religion.
It depends on the extremes. Grab a woman's ass and SOME women will call rape but most others will shoot you a bad look or slap you across the face - grab a man's ass an MOST women will either laugh it off or just treat it with confusion, hell even a lot of other men will just pretend it didn't happen.
Yes, it is. Well... no not really, because you've got the context entirely wrong-- it's not even *viewed* as sexual harassment *at all in the first place* if it's a female doing it to a male. So, in a way, the answer is no, because people (especially females) don't even think it qualifies.
Is grabbing a guys butt sexual harassment? Would a guy feel sexually threatened by this. I really do not think so , in my opinion its just a laugh. But a female would feel sexually threatened by having her butt grabbed so in that case its wrong. But that picture the whole thing is just a bit of fun. However in private like in an office where it is just the 2 people then that would feel threatning to a guy . So It really depends on the circumstances too
It shouldn’t be okay for anyone. I’ll say this though, I was in Florida last summer and on 3 instances, different women came up to me and touched my chest. I did not feel like they were a threat due to the fact that I’m stronger and they couldn’t harm me. So the gist is this: sexual harassment isn’t okay regardless of gender, but society tends to be more fixated on me because they’re more likely to pose a threat on women.
That’s not what I’m saying at all, friend. What I’m saying is that we, as biological creatures, tend to fear what’s “stronger” than us. That’s why society condemn sexual harassment when a woman is the victim, since she would fear that man hurting her even if he did not intend to. My opinion is still this: it’s wrong to sexually harass anyone, so take a chill pill and shake your head elsewhere.
NOO! NO! NOO! No form of sexual harassment is "okay" whether it be to a male or female it's equally wrong tell them to stop!
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It shouldn't be ok at all. I do admit to being guilty of once groping my then crush (his friend dared me to) as a 12/13 year-old. He was a grade older than me. It wasn't right and he did felt annoyed. It was never reported but it wasn't right.
I don't consider harassement a lot of things others thinks of. When i was younger i've been hugged and ass slapped a lot, and never think of it as nothing more than appreciation. I honestly think all this sexual harrassement thing a huge step back in sociale life, because it authorize weak, silly, immature people to be weak, silly and immature, without improving themselves.
Its mot okay for anyone. Im mad we live in a society like this🤦🏽♀️ It’s why a lot of guys don’t come out and say they were raped because instead of taking it seriously we laugh and turn a blind eye.
This is a bad case women misusing their rights for emancipation. I have respected women for long because they can behave more courteously then us men, I guess I'm just biased with my view and now I'm disappointed.
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I totally agree. I think it’s because men are less afraid of women due to the size and strength difference, but it’s still wrong. Just don’t touch people sexually without an explicit invitation!
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It's never ok but men aren't taken seriously because it's just assumed that they want it
In theory it is not okay but the general society reacts to it less because 1) the concept that men always want sex 2) men can't be overpowered by women and raped just like that so such behaviour from women brings less concern. In reality, it is all about how we treat it ourselves, most men will react differently if an attractive woman grabs their butt or a gay guy does the same. Men won't feel threatened by a woman, at most uncomfortable (I am not justifying such inappropriate behaviour tho).
The average woman can't. Unless she uses substances or is a weight lifter
I’ve slapped peoples butts when I was drunk a couple times at a club. Shouldn’t have but whatever. It’s sexual harassment if it’s unwelcome whether it’s male or female.
Men are viewed as expendable by society. Nobody gives a damn when men are sexually harassed but when women are sexually harassed, the masses go berserk.
The only people who do show outrage and speak out against the sexual harassment of men are the family members of the man who got harassed and the men’s rights activists
Women are sexually harassing men all the time but don't look at it that way, and most men don't either. For men, we just don't really get offended by that stuff unless it's particularly cavalier or risqué. We don't take offense to it much.
Women are the squeamish cry babies about any little thing they perceive as sexually threatening.
Sexual harassment is a decision. If you decide to feel harassed, then it's harassment. If you don't, it's not.
Men are not likely to be so butthurt about being touched sexually. Women are crazy butthurt by it for some reason. That's why they're more inclined to feel harassed making it harassment.
I guess women are just generally more sex negative than men.
Agree and disagree, I think most men have been sexually harassed at some point and they just don’t make a big scene about it
@Benny_Oakley well i personally am not super comfortable if a random girl touches my butt. but i still see it as a compliment and i'm not like "OH MY GOD HOW DARE SHE OBJECTIFY ME LIKE THAT!! I'LL SUE HER"
i mean it's not like it hurts or causes any damage so why the fuck flip your shit about something like that?
Lol, your reasoning is idiotic. Of course it’s not okay but women definitely don’t have it good considering we get raped and sexually assaulted waaaay more than men do. And when we are, we have to always have proof even though in most sexual harassment cases there are none. But now some states want rape victims to carry their rapists baby, too. And if you get the abortion then women and doctors can have a more severe punishment than the rapist.
But please continue to explain how good women have it.
The Jews In holocaust had it pretty good too
So many butthurt men dislike it
And which states want rape victims to carry the baby
Alabama, Ohio, Georgia, and I think Missouri
Well, the rape cases are very rare.. Only 1% of all cases.. So most abortions are just irresponsible women, who got carried away.. But I get to point.. Lol..
The point**..
I'm pretty sure that's balanced out by the fact that a woman could realistically rape a male teenager, walk away with no consequences and if she gets pregnant from the ordeal make the teenage boy she raped pay child support.
"we always have to have proof" ... fucking duuuh you need proof
Quote the entire sentence @grega239 and maybe you’ll get the point of it 🙄
And when we are , we have to always have proof even though you n most sexual harassment cases there are none.
Here it is.
If you can't prove it, then you can't charge someone with it.
I still dont get dislikes?
@shinka1y234 The dislikes are because I’m right and they know it but they just don’t like it. That’s all. My words are true.
Whatever helps you sleep at night
@Malik00 Being right makes a lot of people sleep well at night. Sorry you suffer from insomnia 🤷🏽♀️
Right right so tell me hows your boyfriend dealing with you sleeping around behind his back oh no sorry I meant to say slave.
Well, I’m single and also not a cheater so your statement was made why? Lol, so many inaccuracies. Let’s not start making stuff up because you cannot satisfactorily prove your own point.
Mostly true. Women are more likely to be raped. But that's about the only crime where women are the majority of victims.
2. Like I said before proof is ALWAYS necessary.
3. Ok whichever state has that law needs to be purged of religion.
You're single. GEE i wonder why?
No, if he hits her because she won’t stop HE gets blamed. Never touch people that don’t want to be touched. No excuses.
It depends on the extremes. Grab a woman's ass and SOME women will call rape but most others will shoot you a bad look or slap you across the face - grab a man's ass an MOST women will either laugh it off or just treat it with confusion, hell even a lot of other men will just pretend it didn't happen.
Yes, it is. Well... no not really, because you've got the context entirely wrong-- it's not even *viewed* as sexual harassment *at all in the first place* if it's a female doing it to a male. So, in a way, the answer is no, because people (especially females) don't even think it qualifies.
Is grabbing a guys butt sexual harassment? Would a guy feel sexually threatened by this. I really do not think so , in my opinion its just a laugh. But a female would feel sexually threatened by having her butt grabbed so in that case its wrong. But that picture the whole thing is just a bit of fun. However in private like in an office where it is just the 2 people then that would feel threatning to a guy . So It really depends on the circumstances too
It shouldn’t be okay for anyone. I’ll say this though, I was in Florida last summer and on 3 instances, different women came up to me and touched my chest. I did not feel like they were a threat due to the fact that I’m stronger and they couldn’t harm me. So the gist is this: sexual harassment isn’t okay regardless of gender, but society tends to be more fixated on me because they’re more likely to pose a threat on women.
more fixated on men * not me 😅
Its not common for a man to attack a woman. You mean like 0.001% of the time a man touches a girl he also is violent. Smh.
That’s not what I’m saying at all, friend. What I’m saying is that we, as biological creatures, tend to fear what’s “stronger” than us. That’s why society condemn sexual harassment when a woman is the victim, since she would fear that man hurting her even if he did not intend to. My opinion is still this: it’s wrong to sexually harass anyone, so take a chill pill and shake your head elsewhere.
NOO! NO! NOO! No form of sexual harassment is "okay" whether it be to a male or female it's equally wrong tell them to stop!
It shouldn't be ok at all. I do admit to being guilty of once groping my then crush (his friend dared me to) as a 12/13 year-old. He was a grade older than me. It wasn't right and he did felt annoyed. It was never reported but it wasn't right.
That is so weird😂 ew..
Anyways, no it's not okay. That's so inappropriate. Why can't people just respect other peoples space?
What that girl is doing is not cute at all...
I don't consider harassement a lot of things others thinks of. When i was younger i've been hugged and ass slapped a lot, and never think of it as nothing more than appreciation. I honestly think all this sexual harrassement thing a huge step back in sociale life, because it authorize weak, silly, immature people to be weak, silly and immature, without improving themselves.
Its mot okay for anyone. Im mad we live in a society like this🤦🏽♀️ It’s why a lot of guys don’t come out and say they were raped because instead of taking it seriously we laugh and turn a blind eye.
This is a bad case women misusing their rights for emancipation. I have respected women for long because they can behave more courteously then us men, I guess I'm just biased with my view and now I'm disappointed.
I totally agree. I think it’s because men are less afraid of women due to the size and strength difference, but it’s still wrong. Just don’t touch people sexually without an explicit invitation!
It’s creepy and fucked up either way, regardless of gender.