Too many guys obsess over 6 packs when really you should be more concerned with being in shape everywhere. Any skinny guy can have a 6 pack, but that's gonna be less impressive to most than a guy whose abs barely show but he has a strong chest, shoulders, arms, a v-shaped torso. The second guy is also gonna look better in clothes whereas the skinny guy with a 6 pack just looks like a skinny guy unless he walks around with his shirt off everywhere.
If you diet properly and be patient it comes out, it took me more than a yr, and i don't care much about that, it is barely visible atm, but it's down their, i feel strong from inside. Gym is my lifestyle i don't keep any type of goals or something that I have to get abs. If i get it then ok, if not still ok
Then that is a good approach. But what about the things that really metter? A degree? A career? Its not that hard to combine, I work out 4 times a week while combing a degree and a part time job
Personally no. Having and as a profile photo would send me the messege that youd be self centered, use fitness as your personality, and/or only had it up to have a ton of girls in your PMs. The puppy you hace now is great. This is just my opinion so take it with a grain of salt 😅
Also at least half the girls anywhere shpuld be open to talking to someone as long as they're friendly and not too... overpowering (?) at first so sending the first messege might be a move to make if you wanna talk to girls.
That's a pretty lame six pack. He's too fatty. Which most women probably prefer. From a bodybuilding standpoint, he needs to build some ab muscle or go on a small cut. He's probably like 15% body fat. Too high for a good six pack. He barely has any definition at all. There's also 4 packs and 8 packs. It's all one muscle, but it appears differently with different people.
Chicks also don't like it when the focus is on your body. For instance, my pic. It's clear I'm showing off purely my body. They don't like that. They want it to be incidental. Like "Oh look, I'm at the pool, and I just happen to have my shirt off, because that's what you do." Mirror pics and selfies of your body are a no-go for women.
Idc on here, because I'm only here to kill time, and it shows I'm not just some basement dweller to some extent--and I'm proud of the literally years of blood, sweat, injuries, and tears I put in to get this; but, on a dating app and such, I'd never post such a pic.
Just from my personal experience, I get a lot more attention from women now that I'm built than I did when I was skinny. But that might just be because I have a more confident aura now, dunno really. Women are complicated. But they're generally more mental and emotional; while men are more visual and physical. So, worst mistake you can make is assuming women view attraction like men do.
If you want to show off your six pack, you need to make it incidental and in an environment where it's natural to do so. Not a mirror pic or a selfie.
Nope! I like skinny guys and I like guys with a little bit of meat on their bones and a pouch or maybe even some love handles but I do not like muscles!! Anything more than an outline of muscles doesn't look attractive to me. Bulky muscles make me cringe!
For a fuckboy its fine. For a serious relationship probably not. Guys with 6 packs tend to have insufferable egos and strut around like they're God's gift to women. They usually aren't good for much besides an occasional fling.. Oftentimes they're not even good for that. Its really just window dressing.
i don't think girls care whether they find you attractive or not, we usually just want connection. so if she has a connection with you or has a sense that you are good guy thats when she responds. like people have a sense called intuition girls use that more than anything.
Of course we like them, just as guys would probably like a six pack on girls, however they aren't required to be considered attractive. To me, I just like a guy who is slim and healthy, a six pack doesn't matter much to me.
I myself have slight love handles and ugh I hate them. I feel so fat with them even though I'm considered skinny. They do suit some people tho ngl I respect your opinion
Iām not really a huge fan of six packs. The one in the picture is probably the most extreme that Iād still find attractive. After that they look kind of off putting to me. Also putting a six pack as your profile pic tends to send the message that thatās all you have to offer.
Usually they do but I honestly feel the most important muscles for attracting females is a set of very broad shoulders.
Abs are like a bonus but of course men don't walk around all day topless, on the other hand you can notice a man fully clothed with wide shoulders, anyway that's what a lot of women have told me personally.
As a teen and when i was fresh out of high school I used to think girls love it. As time passed I learned that most girls I've met and know are either indifferent about it or they only like it on guys they like. A lot of times my female friends think shredded buff guys are douchebags or they dont want a guy who spends way too much time in the gym.
You damn right I do! Maybe not all women, but some of us appreciate them, especially us gymrats!
Mind you, you still need a good personality, brains, and intelligence to go with it. Muscles aren't enough to impress most of us... or I would hope not
Not the girls I have dated, (one of which wood go to the gym), they seem to think that guys with six pack were to enthralled with working out. And weren't always the nicest
I am really very private and it's the first time in life that I look so fit, and that's why I am nervous before posting it online, because I don't wanna be labelled attention seeker, which I am right now
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