Thankfully most girls are girly girls, they have a whole spectrum of styles, moods, and attitudes. Most girls can be tomboys one day and a girly girl the next.
But yes, I prefer girls who tend to lean towards the girly girl side
According your rather-vague explanation, girly girls are "the girls who take care of themselves -- dress pretty and smell nice"...
I didn't know taking care of yourself was considered an aspect of being a girly girl. Damn, I smell nice. Guess I need to roll around in mud more often...
Jokes aside, we have now established the absolute bare minimum of bodily maintenance and I still have no better an idea of what constitutes a girly girl. For example, what does it mean to "smell nice"? What is the opposite of "smell nice", smell like a guy? Do guys smell bad and don't even know it?
"Sometimes attract you with their perfume words."
"Perfume words", so sweet sounding but empty and meaningless? You realize that perfume is basically defused air, right? You can smell perfume because it oxidizes the atmosphere around you and produces an aromatic fragrance, but it doesn't really occupy any space. There's no observable" volume", so to speak, no content. At the most basic level, by this logic, "perfume words" would be things people say like "how are you?" or "that's nice"--phatic expressions that comprise the majority of social decorum between saying nothing and having civil discussions, but are inherently devoid of value or depth. Surely, you don't mean to say that girly girls' are devoid of intelligence or autonomy, right? Maybe you meant something along the lines of "quaint mannerisms and pleasant banter".
As to whether or not I like those aspects of a woman, yes I do... to a point. If her entire personality is being that of "proper, feminine woman"--whatever that means--and she has nothing else to offer, then it becomes boring and undesirable.
P. S. Consider being more concise in your definitions of things, because you've left way too much of this post up to interpretation.
"I get it, it's fun to act like a smart aleck sometimes."
Haha who's acting? Not I.
"But seriously, a gal who takes care of themselves, dresses well, smells nice and allures you with their words is a pretty easy concept to grasp."
You've basically reiterated what you stated before, in just-as-vague language--as if repeating it, but saying "for realz, this time", somehow confers an added layer of depth and comprehension not previously observed... and yet, I'm STILL no closer to understanding what you mean. How is ANY of what you described not also observable in non-girly girls or just men? Can you explain that, please?
"So answer the question please."
I already did, here's the summary: yes, I like a "girly girl", ASSUMING that being a "proper, rigidly traditionalist, feminine and submissive woman" is not ALL she has to offer. If I misunderstand what you mean by "girly girl", because, again, you've given me nothing to work with, beyond some cliche stereotypes reminiscent of "the damsel in distress" from "every Disney movie ever (TM)" (minus some of the more recent entries), then here's your opportunity to add some "character" to your characterization of this archetype. Let's see what you come up with.
P. S. Do try to make an effort to address my criticisms and statements--and elaborate and expound where necessary--to better communicate your points and/or arguments, instead of simply dismissing my comments as "trolling"... or just get your girlfriends to do it, if you're not so inclined. I'm not going to repeat myself a third time.
@Jesse0 The answer is "it depends". Does she have depth? If she brings more to the table than just being eye candy and liking shopping or looking pretty or some other such trope, then yeah, maybe.
Over all, I want a girl who will be accepting of ME. Who I am, and not want to CHANGE ME.
But, if I had to say what I want in a girl, no matter if she wants me or not, is, I want a girl who, knows how to dress for the occasion. Ya know? You don't wear colors, to a funeral and you don't wear anything short to it either, geenrally. Knee length is about what it should be, to a funeral, though that may be pushing it. You also don't wear jeans to a funeral, ladies. Not cool
Anyway, in terms of personality, I just want a girl who I can hang out with like a buddy but also know that she wants to have my kids, if that makes sense, to anyone. We're all human, humans fart, so, why should she feel bad if she does it. I have something that I can't control when it comes to my digestive system, so, she'd have to live with it, until I decide if I want to reverse it or not (i have the option to), but, I do need to decide soon because they fear that if I don't reverse it soon, I may lose all control of the muscle down there (and no, im not talking about my dick)
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Im bi. I prefer lipstick lesbians, a term used for girly lesbians. A tomboy is kinda similar from a butch lesbian (except for sexual orientation.) I personally have never been attracted to one but can never say never. Also i couldnt date a transgender man. Why? Well im attracted to a female. I look for feminine features: breast, feminine face, feminine mannerisms. If i want a man, i want a penis included. If i see a vagina instead of a penis... Well i just can't process it. If others, great. Unfortunately im not pansexual.
Yes and no... I dont like girly girls like who are like that 24/7 but having a girly side is great. Being different is very attractive to me and doing ur own thing is cool. You being girly sometimes in a weird way makes me feel like a man... kinda sounds dumb but it's TRUE u doing women stuff makes me feel good about the man stuff I can do. Srry if that sounds sexist but it's like 2 pieces of a puzzle fitting together i think.
I like girls who are in between girly and tomboy. You know, not applying too much make-up but still staying feminine, are shy reasonably but not too shy, loving the drama but not taking it too far, opening up to their boyfriends easily etc.
I hate this term xD I'm not a girly girl but it doesn't mean I'm not dressed nice and clean. Same with the scent. I personally like my female friends to be more tomboyish because of my interests and personality.
100% 😍 I love girls who embrace their femininity (especially regarding style) with tights, dresses/skirts, blouses, sunhats, light make-up, etc 💁🏼♀️👗👠👒💃🏻💅🏻 I don’t mind a sexy dark mind now and again 😏😈☠️
To me it don't matter just don't be a twat and be cute, funny, sweet and loving and that's all I could ask of a girl along with being her self and showing her passions nothing more
Nope. Although if the woman is dominant, I'm willing to overlook that. To me, masculine traits in women are attractive (Not attracted to androgynous women/butches/studs though).
Actually I DO care, but there are girly-girl times and there are tomboyish girl times, and the really great girl will know when to invoke which look and style.
I dont really know.. I expect them to be dressed nicely and be clean but that doesn't really mean they are girly. I definitely do not like her ass to be falling from her shorts and her boobs to be exposed.
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