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I look at her and say...
"whatsupdoc?"
I don't like to ignore people, I would give some of my attention by default.
Then that's nice of you to give attention without asking for nothing in return... most wouldn't.
Usually i dont think that much about other people, sometimes it just annoyes me when a girl is talking very loud probbably not aware of that just to bring my attention to her.
So it doesn't bother you?
It's all pretty annoying actually. Any sort of attention seeking. Why do you need attention? What is so important about you specifically that everyone else (who are all apparently NOT important) have to give you their time?
The way I see it is the guy gives all other people his attention but doesn't give that specific girl any, which propels her to want to seek attention and get noticed. It's because she feels Ignored and excluded from regular people by him. She then starts feeling lonely. I don't think she wants to be considered more Important than anyone else, she Just wants you to treat her equally like everyone else. Have you considered looking at it from this perspective?
I suppose in your original example that makes a bit of sense. But if I'm the guy, depending on how the girl is trying to get my attention I may actively ignore her. If she wants to talk to me, then I'm more than happy to talk. Otherwise, if someone else has my attention it's for a good reason
What if she Just wants you to spend time with her, talk to her and give her company? There's loads of reasons people seek attention, behind bad habits like this there are hidden Innocent reasons. It's usually the loneliest people that seek the most attention. They are Just alone and have no one to talk to. They are Just trying fill an Innocent void in their life. I don't believe they mean to seek attention, loads of people do it when they feel like they aren't being noticed enough. Otherwise I don't think people would get a thrill out of doing it, because trying to get someone's attention takes a lot of effort.
Most of the time from the looks of her she doesn't need it.
Why not? 😂😂
Adults don't seek attention. Children do. Some children live a lot longer before maturing.
There's loads of adults that have also seeked attention at least once in their lifetime. It's not always children lol
I don't mind girls seeking attention. It makes me think they might like me or something
They don't always like you Just because they seek attention, they can seek attention from other people alongside you. They can like the type of attention that you give them, but not you specifically as a person. It's the mistake that guys always make, he automatically thinks the girl likes him Just because she goes after his attention.
if its a small casual and friendly way to get me to talk or hang out with you this is ok.
But you wanna do some BS crazy drama lama stuff I got to walk away.
Yeah she usually wants to talk to you. Lol but I don't know what type of kame and dramatic stuff you're talking about...😂
*Lame
Lack of internal validation and a red flag if dating.
What if it's because she feels left out and lonely? And what if she never used to seek attention before but only started doing because she felt excluded and Ignored by people around her? There's other angles and perspectives to look at it from.
Seeking attention is different from trying to socialize or make friends.
Seeking attention infers you are doing something loud (socially loud) to draw in many others to look at you.
Asking someone if they share your hobbies or asking for a chat is different.
Are you sure about that? If no one is already noticing her, then how else is she supposed to socialise and get people to talk to her without drawing attention to herself? It kind of makes no sense. Imagine if you are being Ignored of excluded and no one give a damn about you in a big crowd, what would you do? Draw attention right? Or you would do something to get people to notice you're presence and existence.
Attention seeking, that is a sure fire way to get me to walk the fuck away. It's childish behavior. I don't have any patience for it. This whole 'look at me thing', is a plague on our society today. Social media is a huge part of this attention seeking bullshit, and it really needs to stop. I see the results of this kind of behavior. Inflated egos, entitlement behavior, narcissism, it's just bad.
See, you're looking at it from a negative light. I was asking about real life not social media. That's a whole different story. It's usually the most saddest, loneliest, left out and Ignored people that seek the most attention. They Just want you treat them equally and not exclude them from you're sights. They're Just looking to get noticed. A bad attention seeking behaviour always has an Innocent reason behind it Instead of an ego boost. Have you ever stopped to ask a girl why she does it? She might be hesitant to tell you that feels lonely and Ignored. But that's the real case. People easily over look these kinds of situations. Don't make assumptions right of the bat. Instead of Ignoring, find out the root cause of the problem and help her to quit the attention seeking behaviour. That what I say...☺
*That's
Don't care because when I was little boy I used run behind my elder brothers like tail
Lol 😂
It's true story 😂
Well I'm sorry to hear that, sometimes life Just isn't fair...😂
Lol yes back then I thought they were cool
That explains why you did what you did then...😂
Yep and do you have elder siblings?
No, not really.
Okay
Depends on whose attention they are seeking for what.
Just wanting to be talked to and appreciated specifically by the guy she likes...
That's fine. Guys do it all the time. Its flirting. LOL!
As long as it's not harassment or stalking.
Humans are very social animals.
Yeah but loads of guys Just don't understand that. They see it as "seeking attention", but in reality the girl likes the guy and Just likes it when he's the one giving her attention. But guys for some reason start avoiding that certain girl that seeks attention, not knowing that she likes him. Or maybe he probably is aware for her Interest in him, but still avoids her. I think it's the latter to be fair. And by "Stalking" do you mean stalking him on Facebook or did you mean stalking in real life? I generally see stalking as someone showing their love and Interest. But for some reason guys complain when they find out a girl stalked him at one point in time.