Girl asked me out to meet her for a drink!! how to act? Quick help please!!!

[addict0709]

How do I act and keep her interested? I don't even know how to go about this...i need to reply soon as she has just asked me to meet her

[themastaplan]

dont try too hard...make her laugh, but like I said don't try too hard...try not to leave too many blank conversation gaps...like "so hows work"..."its good you?"..."not bad"...blank...blank...

try to keep the conversation going, she asked you to come out with her, that's a GREAT start...just again take things slow, don't over do yourself...another thing don't talk about EVERYTHING, you want to have her get an idea of what type of person you are, yet you still want to leave her coming back for more to leave room for another "date" or drink out...

dont work yourself up, the hardest part was already achieved by getting her to ask you out for a drink! have confidence but don't be cocky...talk about random stuff - stay away from politics, religious beliefs, anything that people are VERY opinionated on...just go with the flow!

[Belgie]

Don't act like you're doing now. Freaking all the hell out because a girl asked you for a drink.

You have to act as if this isn't your one and only chance at happiness. As if meeting a girl for a drink was the most common and natural thing in the world.

Then, somehow, you'll have to put your nervousness somewhere she can't see it, and try to enjoy yourself.

Relax. Have fun. It's just a drink, not a proposal of marriage. The worst thing you can do, is stink of desperation.

You should be checking her out, to see if she is lucky enough and good enough to be allowed to spend time with you. Right now, you're acting the total opposite.

[addict0709]

how should I greet her..cos were going to the cinemas now haha...then a drink...is there anything I should avoid doing? she's like a model and I'm not jokin

[Belgie]

I don't care if she's a super-model.

YOU'RE A MAN.

ACT LIKE ONE!

She should be happy to be on YOUR arm.

She should be happy that you AGREED to out with her.

If this was a job interview, YOU'RE the potential employer. She's the hopeful interviewee.

Take charge. If you feel like giving her a kiss on the cheek when you meet up, do that. If you feel like holding her hand, do that. DO NOT ASK PERMISSION for doing what a guy should feel comfortable doing, with a girl he likes.

[Belgie]

There's nothing wrong with being charmingly old-fashioned either, so long as you do it confidently, and not as a desperate-to-please measure.

Hold the door for her, link arms when you walk, take the outside position so that you're nearest to the road, etc...

But again, only do that sort of thing if that's who you are, if you're comfortable doing that.

Oh and one other thing. If she's like a model, guys buy her drink all the time. Bust her chops a little. Tell her she has to buy you the drink.

[FruDawg1]

A model just suggested that we go out for a drink

[dalila]

Hey Good luck!

Just don't try to hard...

And If you get nervous its OK, I personally find it cute

Be a gentleman, Nice funny That's how to get a girl...

Hey I wanna now how it was ok?!

I got curious ;)

[addict0709]

ok..went well, we went to the cinemas, I grabbed her hand but she said..i don't know, and I don't feel right, I was cool with that...i sent her a text messge sayin she impressed me, and I told her its cos she looked beautiful and smelled lovely and her laugh is so cool...and I asked her if she thought there cud be somethin..and she said aww bless thanks love, I dno love your v lovely and we got on so well so we never know, ther mite be wel jus see ow things go. like I say I like to take things slow

[dalila]

Interesting, but I think you were to much all over her...and she wants to take it slow...so wait for her now don't message her too soon

[addict0709]

so do you think she is interested? and I never asked her for a kiss or owt, I jst hugged her wen she left =] so I will chill out. what would be the best way to keep her interested? and cheap date ideas ?

[dalila]

Just be normal with her like she was one of your girl friends but make sure you smile yo her look into her eyes, touch her she just can't be complete sure you are really into her...Cheap dates, walking around the park, free festivals, free open cinema just don't take her to McDonalds you will be ok

[addict0709]

yesterday, she was kinda leaning into me, at least I hope she was, we went to see west is west, both laughing, she felt kinda awkward wen I grabbed her hand so I let go lol. anyway, we were both laughing at it, and she kept looking at me and laughing at the film, so I kept looking at her back and smiling and askin if she wa OK, I told her she smelled nice and stuff like thtt. nowt to ott with compliments haha..wen I asked her if she wanted to take things slow she said ''jus see ow things go love x

[dalila]

Don't grab her hand yet, just touch fast without intention you know...Be laid back otherwise you will look like clingy and clingy for a guy is worst than for a girl...so treat her just like a friend in the begining so she will try to make you interested

[sheweet]

:/ YOU ARE SUCH AN INSECURE/AWKWARD/NERVOUS GUY! yikes.

[tjasa]

go out with her and be yourself :)))) good luck :))

[RealDeal]

Don't walk into it with expectations, so you won't disappoint yourself. It's just a drink and that is what you have to tell yourself. Stay calm and confident, she already is interested you just need to listen to what she has to say and have a good response. Just ask her questions and let her do all the talking. Just make sure you are looking into her eyes and remember what she tells you. Good luck.

[Jonny_]

Be rational about it, she's no different from any of your female friends... She may be better in your eyes, but she most likely thinks she's just another one of the girls. Be nice, show abit of sense of humour... don't try too hard. And don't draw her attention to how much it has been getting to you. I'm seeing someone who is way out of my league, oddly she actually does like me, for me... So go with the flow.

[ikarus]

If she asked you out I don't think you should be stressing much, I'd say she likes you as is already?

[socalgamehater2006]

lucky you, it is ridiculously insanely extremely rare for a girl to ask a guy out, initiate

[lyra11]

ok so she likes you for you, don't act any different than you normally would around her!

[Anonymous]

OMG, just be yourself. (although I can never do that)

[Anonymous]

say yes and be interested