Ya rolls the dice and ya takes yer chances!
Not to make light of your situation, but I've found that the more I tried to analyze, plan and predict outcomes, the more anxiety I produced within myself.
It wasn't easy coming to the realization that just being myself was my best asset. For myself and from hearing the experiences of friends, it takes active practice to comfortably be oneself, as strange as that may on the surface seem to sound.
As the question and reply goes, "How do I get to Carnegie Hall?" "Practice, man, practice!"
Simply ask her out. Give her two options get a commitment to one, day, time. You tell her these things with soft eyes but gentle serious tone. I’ve got you…
I'm not sure but according to me girls like things to go slow. Directly asking someone out is good but indirectly showing your feelings may be better. Like first get into her comfort zone by talking (what you are actually doing). Once she is comfortable around you may be at that time you can ask her out directly
Yeah definitely, sounds pretty good until now... I mean you two are already talking here and there and joking around... I would ask her out to hang out after work
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how can you not make it awkward...
that's the same thing that's bugged guys for years.
screw up the courage and just ask her out.
if she says "no," then it's over. she probably won't be joking around with you anymore.
if she says "yes," then expect your friendship to change.
big hint here is that - no matter her reply - your relationship will change.
if you value what you have now, then don't do it. if you think you'll value "stepping it up," then do it.
nothing ventured, nothing gained.
welcome to life.
It's not awkward. Make it not awkward by making it simple and not threatening. Just a simple, "hey, coffee after work?" Or, "Lunch one day when you're off?" Then follow through.
Just ask her bro, chances are good. Just make sure you know what's under the hood and check the trunk for baggage. Unless your into that stuff, then... You got this champ!
Ask her at the cashier.
" I'll get the usual, and whatever your having. if you would like to have our first lunch/ break blind date."
Chances are, that you will have to go back for her actual lunch.
I think you should. I’m jealous. I’d love for a guy to get a crush on me and wanna take me out. I hope it goes well
If you already get along and already know you like her, yeah, take the risk, it will be awkward, be ok with that, do it in private, not in a public space.
After some joke, just say you're really funny and I think your pretty. Do you want to go out for dinner sometime? She will say yes, then get her number and confirm and day and time, etc.
Just ask her out casually.. if she rejects just be friends then
No worry, invite her on lunch and fuck her, that is your mind
Just do it
You have nothing to lose. Ask her
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