Visiting a country that my crush lives in, should I tell her I'm visiting or tell her once I arrive?

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Visiting a country that my crush lives in, should I tell her I'm visiting or tell her once I arrive? We do have good feelings for each other, we talk on a casual basis (once a week or once twice a week) reason being said I wanted to mimic my expectations and feelings since its a long distance.
Visiting a country that my crush lives in, should I tell her I'm visiting or tell her once I arrive?
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