Would you marry a mute?

[Lamnad]

I have seen many girls talk about liking shy guys and quite men but would you marry a man who had no vocal speech at all. what kind of love story would that make. for this occasion he is ideal in every other way: caring, hard working, strong but tender, and handsome and well enough off in money to take care of you and possible future rug-rats.

Cons:

he would never tell you he loved you,

never sing you a song with his own voice,

never tell you his stories

and you would not ever hear him laugh.

Pros: know that he would show his love.

ether way, explanations would be great and if you think of some more cons or pros please give them for up dates.

Easy Yes

Easy No

I would have to think about it.

Updates

+1 y

Pro: could communicate through sign language. (I was telling my self to remember that.)

[KryHeart]

I would. Easy yes. When you said "love story" I laughed, because I'm a writer and one of the stories I was experimenting with was one revolving around two characters in love - one mute and one not. It really ended up quite sweet. Granted, life hardly ever turns out like a story or movie, but it is definitely possible. The cons are all materialistic, the "this is what you're supposed to do when you're in a relationship with someone."

In some countries, such as Japan, telling someone you love them is a little empty. You have to show them, or the words mean nothing. If you think about, that's the case with everyone. You can say you love someone all day long, but if you have no speech, the connection becomes much more real.

[Lamnad]

I'm a writer too and this was the basis of a book I was going to write about the relationship of a man and his son when the father lost his ability to speak wile fighting in a war.

Have you ever gotten published or are you just writing for fun?

[KryHeart]

I've only written for fun so far, mostly because of my age. I've been working on quite a few things, however, that I want to get published. I hope it works out for you. I think it's a great story line.

[karla1527]

Yes I would, when two people love each other, they can work things out. I wouldn't mind him not saying ever "i love you", I know that actions are heavier than words, and I if I loved him, I wouldn't mind him being mute, because I would love hm for who he is.

[kmhco]

There are many ways to communicate other than speech.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

I probably would, but I'm gonna put "I would have to think about it" cause nothing is "easy" when it comes to marriage >.>

[Lamnad]

very well stated.

[Belleza]

If there is love between two people - why not!

[The-Nash]

what about sign language?

[Belleza]

oh my god - hi long time no hear...lol but sign language can be learned very easily in fact I am learning it right now but you would know when he will say I love you - the gestures he will make or the way he would kiss you and the opposite for girls - it is there - if true love is there - it can be easily seen

[RockyGabriel]

I will marry her with my clear mind...