
Would you consider being in a relationship with someone who is mute?


Yes if they made it worth it. I dont think we can choose who we like or love. What makes me like a person is the things they do and how and why they do those things. Talking has a lot to do with the how part of that. But if they put the effort into teaching me talk to them another way and making me want to learn... that's the thought I think love is. growing together because both people enjoy being together, it makes everything better. Maybe not being mute is the thing that makes a relationship with them better then with someone else... it sure would make for a lot less yelling lol
I can think of a bunch more stuff a mute person can do better then an average person, then things a average person can do better the a mute. A disability a lot of the time makes people work harder for the same things as a normal person... that doesn't look like a disability to me, it looks like a strength.
That depends on the nature of the silence. A mute person's inner life is just as real as yours. The problem isn't their silence; it's the spiritual dynamic. For a relationship to work, the connection between the higher, spiritual self and the lower, physical self must be maintained. The lower world is a mirror of the higher. If the connection is broken, the mirror shatters. In a relationship with a mute person, the connection is one-way. You are unable to fully connect with their inner self because the bridge of speech is gone. It's not about ability or willingness; it's a spiritual disconnection.
@hardon-collider reminds me of that decent recent song sometimes ago on the trending radio remake of *the sounds - of silence* with some throaty masculine American singer and a πΈ guitar or base deep drone in tone
@hardon-collider obviously I don't speak music language lol π΅πΆ
I used to have open standards in the past where I would have been open to dating people with all kinds of grievances, needs, and setbacks, provided they were moral and loving, but now that I have established my connection with my boyfriend, I am far more restrictive about who I will and will not date, and that is if I were still single, and I am not single right now, I am in a relationship.
Sounds perfect at first thought! LOL
I would think yes it is possible, but sure it would come with many challenges.
Absolutely! Relationships are all about connection, not just words. Communication isn't limited to spoken language. It's in the glances, touches, and shared smiles 😘. Understanding each other sometimes goes beyond words and into the realm of feelings and vibes. Being with someone mute could deepen that non-verbal communication, creating a special bond. Love is truly universal and can absolutely thrive beyond spoken language 💖.
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No problem. I'd learn sign language for him. If he's a good person and smart and have a sense of humour, I wouldn't mind he's mute. It's not going to stop me from developing feelings for him. I could still share music with him.
@SabinaV that stock photo Shutterstock (thanks google) looks like a typical male 20s 30s chin face clean shaven 🪒 like mine 👀 hooray ; surely the ladies do find us clean shaven faces attractive 👀 👄 😈 lol 🫦
No I couldn't date a mute woman, even if she had a flawless face 👀👀 😋
As long as she can suck my dick I'm happy. No, seriously I probably could, but would be hard not hearing her voice her thoughts and stuff. And it would worry me that I couldn't hear her scream if she were ever in danger.
Hmmmm, how would we communicate? Just written word on note pads 24/7?
I haven't met any mutes, I haven't thought this through. I'd be open to it I suppose.
Be extremely peaceful , but you could never tell her.
" 4 Fcks sake will you actually SHUT UP "
That part would be sad.
There will be no dirty talk, that's for sure...
Girls dont like weird and being mute is weird. Cool Confident Tall Athletic Attractive and Wealthy are the desired. Or be black with a 10+ in meat stick, women all want a huge D inside of them
Yes. It could involve with language or modern electronic technology.
If also deaf, no, because music is a huge part of my life and I want someone with whom I can share that.
Someone who doesnβt want this probably doesnβt really love.
Not for me. I've seen the struggles and I'm not that person I don't think
Itβs a tough question to answer.
It depends on the other factors.
That'd be tough. I can't even imagine that.
If I would meet a mute girl who is my type, yes I would.
Yes. We could just text.
@WhitneySnow intriguing - what do you make of the stock image of the guy's caucasian face /chin? Not your liking? Fan of clean shaven versus beard? Just curious Nicholas π asking the big sub questions β no one asked
@mysteriousNicholas I canβt tell if heβs handsome or not just from the lower half of his face. But in general I prefer clean shaven guys. My boyfriend is clean shaven. That being said, some guys with beards are very handsome and I wouldnβt rule out dating a guy because he had a beard.
@WhitneySnow okay. Fair answer. So looking at just the guy in the stock photo only and your imagination for the missing parts - yay, nay? He's got too thin lips, too much stubble leftover post shave? Or is his skin tone dreamy, his fresh razor look appealing - or is he no square jaw? π π
@WhitneySnow I may ask well ask "a woman" while you're here is all. Lol + just like people here often ask for " a man's opinion" - lol π even though ofc ladies can think for themselves - "they don't need no man" π
@mysteriousNicholas he looks decent from what I can see. Not unattractive.
@WhitneySnow thank you - you've made my Sunday morning ππ π god bless. "Easy like Sunday Morning,, thank you Stevie Wonder," π΅πΆ π πΈ
That would never work.
no.
communication is hard as it is.
Sure if we loved each other.
We can speak the language of our bodies.
Sure. Think of how peaceful it would be...
Definitely.
Sure.
It seems quite tough
Nope.
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