''We're just too different'' - what does it really mean?

[Anonymous]

When someone you've been seeing for a while tells you ''we're just too different'', does it really mean something else?

I know relationships etc are all different, but generally could it mean something else?

Thanks.

[brkadv]

To be honest, in a way, we never know exactly what someone means by anything they say unless we clarify it with them. When it comes to something as vague as "we're just too different" that's especially true. It raises more questions than it answers. Like "How are we too different?" and "How different is too different?" and "Can those differences be coped with or not?" I could go on and on. So yes you would need a lot more discussion with this person to really understand what they mean.

[rebelsaskguys]

Well, as I see it there could be two cases.

1): Bad excuse, because he's just not that into you.

2): Like he said, you're too different. Maybe you're music taste, you're personalities, you're humour, anything.

Anyway, if I was him, I would give the relationship a chance, and see how it would evovled, because you know what they say; opposites attract.

[rebelsaskguys]

spell correction: your*

sorry for that :)

[Da100]

it could mean that the person is just not feeling the magic>>> and is using that as an xcuse>>> or maybe they think you guys don't have abything in common. But don't change yourself for emm because opposites do attract so just be yourself and the right guy will come along