The real question is: What do YOU want in a woman?
And what KIND of MAN do YOU WANT to BE?
Because I can give you the most simple generic answer as a woman and you can give me the most simple generic answer as a man and we will both be right AND wrongat the same time.
What a woman/girl/female wants in a man?: A man who will love, cherish, provide, care and of course MARRY HER.
What is a woman's dream?: To be married.
What does a woman want in a relationship? Partner?: Varies by person to person.
How does a woman want to be treated and courted?: Also, Varies by person to person.
There. I told you what we want. Now is this true for every woman in the world? Yes. BUT do EVERY person now shares that desire as opposed to their past selves regarding relationships? No. Because the reality is this. People have been sold a lie, have poor experiences, unrealistic expectations not only formed for ourselves but also expected and dumped on us. Just like with men.
So, the same question applies to you as a man.
What does a man/boy/male want in a woman?: A woman who honor's, respects him and his personal leadership, a woman who won't cause strive, somebody he can provide for and she lets him, somebody he can love, cherish, provide for, care for, and wants to MARRY HIM. Somebody who is willing to be his helpmeet.
What is a man's dream?: To live a simple life according to his needs, and share intimacy with another human being. Somebody to express sexual intimacy with, and have offspring.
What does a man want in a relationship? Partner?: Varies by person to person.How does a man desire to be treated and be dating?: With RESPECT. But the answer is also, Varies by person to person.
Now it is best to remember that Jesus said not EVERYBODY is called to marriage [sexual relationship]. Some are called, others are NOT. Then there are those who were made eunuchs [physically or spiritually] for the sake of the kingdom. <-- Has little to do with being a nun. It is also wise to know that there is a major difference between abstinence and celibacy. Abstinence just means to abstain from it until a certain time frame. Celibacy is having NO desire for a sexual relationship and what it entitles or comes with it [dating, marriage, children, sex PERIOD]. Now you may ask what does any of this have to do with what you're asking or referring to? A HECK of a lot. Whether one believes in God, religion or not, it is imperative to know that we are made as human beings to be SEXUAL CREATURES. That's why we have sexual organs to procreate and desire sex. Everybody unless there is a mental or medical problem has them. But just because your body wants it, like craving for sugary things. It doesn't mean we personally want it, if not, or that its healthy to indulge it in not just sinful ways but unhealthy ways and intent. It hurts EVERYBODY, not just you.
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Every woman is different. In a man, I seek a partner. An equal. Someone who doesn't treat me like I am a child that needs affection and caring for 24/7, but loves me as a whole and appreciates who I am. That is what I seek. Someone who I can laugh with - who has the same humor. Someone willing to go on random adventures with me, cuddle with me, is willing to work on becoming us. I have bad days, someone who can live through those without a problem. Someone willing to watch what I want or to teach me new things. Someone who is not all about sex, or reminds me about sexual stuff 24/7. That is what it is about for me. I, however, am not all women. All women have different ideals for a man. I seek an equal, some seek a protector, others a provider. Be the man you want to be, the best version of yourself... the most you can offer a woman is your best self and good communication (as in honesty). Never fake who you are, never try and be someone else. No woman is worth it if you aren't true to yourself. Love who you are. Treat everyone with respect. You will find your person.
I've been told that chicks dig a funny dude.
Simples...
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I dont get the "yet I'm only attracted to bad women".
You mean u only like bad women or only this type of women get attracted with you?we are all people with different preferences
the thing is that you just have to be lucky to meet a woman that likes you for you, and that you also like back! talking about impossible!Everybody has different preferences
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