Should I just obey my parents?

[creambutter656]

I live in a very conservative society. Here girls always follow the orders. But I have been very different. I always wanted to break all the restrictions. When my parents wanted me to wear modest clothes I wore provocative clothes. When they wanted me to come early I stayed late out. So am I doing right?

[btbc92]

Nope, you are not doing what is right. Your rebellious and it shows not only do you not respect your parents, but you also don't respect yourself. It is not about being conservative, it's the fact this is just in you to do that you refuse to listen about. There is a good reason why your parents are your parents. If one thing, if you don't like their rules it's best to leave and find your own place to live. Being at your age is not priveledges to disrespect others either. I say it is a good thing for girls to follow the rules. But also for boys to do the same. Should you obey your parents? YES. They are your parents. They aren't abusing you, they are disciplining and telling you. For your own good and safety. And where you are, it is extremely dangerous and you want to fool around and play with that? BAD ENOUGH you run the risk anyway even if you did dress appropriately? Ain't worth death, that's for sure.

[yucychan]

I feel you should be sensible in this. I'm pretty sure that your parents want the best for you. And sure, we'll try to obey parents as much as possible. But parents are still people, they are not perfect, they do make mistakes. For example, career choices, choosing who to fall in love with etc., you are still the best person to decide these for yourselves.
That said, I do not want you to blindly rebel against your parents for no apparent reasons. For instance, deliberately staying out late and wearing provocative clothes just to piss them off, just makes you very immature and childish.

[TJFreshman22]

Figure out what the intention of their rules are. If you agree with their intention follow them. If you don't, don't. They may say go to bed early at 10pm to be well rested for school and get high grades. If you want high grades, understand they have lots of life experience and trust to follow their guidance. It is a gift if you follow it. If they say don't stay out late because they don't want you having sex, I would tend to follow your heart. You're only young once (use protection though because kids are permanent). If you want to hook up do it, if you don't, don't. Trust yourself to make the right decision. If you feel guilty about a choice you are making, you are likely making a dumb one. Trust your parents in that case.

[luffysecret]

Do what you want to do.

Just going or doing things against your parents is fine.. but this may lead to some situations which you weren't aware of, thought of or ready to face them yet...

Never do things for others, Do things which you really want to do irrespective of anyone's opinion or feelings about it, they maybe parents friends or whomever close to you..

[Nxtawm]

While I think you should do what you want, often times parents just care about you and your safety. So I suggest you compromise a little bit, you don't have to always do the complete opposite of what they want. It's fine to dress how you want but maybe once in a while listen to your parents and put on something to cover a little.

[andy530]

At your age it is appropriate to push and test limits and explore yourself and your style. You naturally are breaking away from your family and defining yourself as your own person this is developmentally normal. Try to be respectful but keep being authentic to you

[Bhavin2184]

Your parents care about you that's why they put some restrictions for our safety
Just dont blindly do opposite the thing the say instead try building a trust with them so they reduce some restriction.

[rhiannathompsonxo]

Try to find somewhere that you're both happy. Wear clothes that cover you up but also show your body a bit, and agree on a time for you to come home, e. g. if they say 10, try to persuade them to let you come home at 11/12, but be polite to them so they don't think you're just being rude

[Potateopp]

Probably you should try to obey them or talk to them about what you want to do and what they want you to do and find common ground.

[RHK36]

Do whatever you want unless you living at home with your parents. You don't deserve to have options if you leeching.

[andreasderjuengere]

Rebellion fuels progress.
Keep questioning 'the System' - but be safe :)

[nodnol32]

I think its not about disobeying your parents. Its more about doing what makes you happy.

[TacosRAwesome]

You need to choose your battles and not rebel just for the sake of rebelling.

[Anonymous]

That sounds dangerous in Pakistan; so be careful about how far you go with that.

[mrgspoter]

No your doing bad maybe lol, but its still normal your at the age where you can't really be told what to do no more so it will happen.

[asshole_]

Yeah

You would be seen as a provocateur, A rebel rowser, basically

[Nawawee]

I also break my parents rules, but sometimes modest clothing can be sexy too. Where are you from

[creambutter656]

Pakistan

[Nawawee]

I'm from South Africa

[Nawawee]

U want to private chat

[Anonymous]

I know girls like you. You all think that by acting dumb you're making an statement. No one but your parents really care.

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah break the mold. 😛😛 and rock on!!

[codyccc]

Lol just move to Canada

[hknmhmn4]

The parents are important

[ItsTheNephilim]

You do you.

[magiusX26]

what country?

[Fuentes]

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