You can't both love and understand women, do you agree?

[CasaNorba]

i heard this quote a lot growing up and the more time goes by the more true it becomes to me. I mean could it be a coincidence that almost all men who are successful with women tend to be misogynists?

is also usually the men who dont understand women that tend to LOVE women the most. the type of dudes who believe to much in that Disney lifestyle and have high ass expectations of them.

till then if this is true then I dont think now couldnt of been a better time to understand women because loving them can put you through hell.

True

Bullshit

[NamerOfStars]

That seems an incredibly cynical attitude to me. Sure, you can successfully manipulate people (male or female) into doing your bidding by tweaking the noses of their animal natures, but would you really want to live that way, with nothing being genuine and no one really caring about you? Women are *human*, and have the moral agency to make the choice between beast and person, just like men do.

Humanity at its worst is the foulest thing on the planet. But if the choice is between tilting at windmills or milling at Quixotes, count me in amongst the the optimistic fools.

[CasaNorba]

"Women are *human*, and have the moral agency to make the choice between beast and person, just like men do."

yet look at all the women who choose to become beast just to fit in society or just because they think they're entitled to and everyone has to accept it. yea you go be an optimistic full alright, just dont bitch and whine when you get hit with child support and all the other consequence that you can suffer for loving women

[NamerOfStars]

I can make my choices about when and whether to have children and marriage. I can minimize the risks and improve my odds and still keep my faith. Can you say the same?

[CasaNorba]

nope if I say the same then I must be on drugs.

PS: no offense but I have a lot of male relatives who are currently stranded on child support. and they all sounded just like you before biting their own tongue

[djmzes]

Simple

No one will ever understand each other fully and if you think there will exist a book that will always give you the right formula, forget it it will never happen.
Relationships and understanding are a matter of stuff that need to be refactored on and on until it work out. It is tailored made.

[CasaNorba]

i dont think mother Teresa was ever in a relationship. and I'm not talking about relationships only I'm talking about understanding them in general

[djmzes]

Do not try to understand them fully. It will never be possible. Just do what is right, practice respect and go with it.

[mistixs]

"almost all men who are successful with women tend to be misogynists" That is false. It is men who are unsuccessful with women who tend to be misogynists.

"Men who reported liking sex also preferred women, but only if they were high on sexual experience. Men low on sexual experience showed implicit sexism to the extent they liked sex." https://www.apa.org/monitor/dec04/women

[CasaNorba]

says the woman who blames her asexual life on the pandemic yet still confessed she was a virgin WAY before the pandemic started.

til then I rather hear personal experiences over bullshit statistics that we have no idea who they might of been funded by

[Avaemmaa]

We’re not as bad. Wait some are, I literally run from some. It’s some good girls out there that is not so bad

[CasaNorba]

this has nothing to do with women being good or bad, this is about women nature in general

[Avaemmaa]

Bullshit I’m typsy don’t beat around bushes

[CasaNorba]

then keep drinking, when you try to explain logical stuff to a drunk fool you're bound to beat around bushes

[Avaemmaa]

😂😂 keep talking let’s see what happens

[Avaemmaa]

Ohhhh you’re trying to tell me you’re a fool? I get it it. It’s ok

[CasaNorba]

no I said the person who's TIPSY is a fool. damn your comprehension level at the moment screams out that you're more than tipsy

[Avaemmaa]

😂😂😂 I like sarcasm... whatchu got on?

[joeblow123]

For me to properly deal with the bush I must take a look at it first.

[hellionthesagereborn]

I'm somewhere in between on this. I think like with men, that their can be things to love about women, its just in this day and age those things are rare if not nonexistent.

[CasaNorba]

but sometimes I think that our parents and grandparents are talking out their asses. I believe miserable women have always existed, even before feminism. I bet the reason why women werent as rebellious back then as they are today is because this type of behavior was discourage and they had no choice but to pretend they were understandable to men

[hellionthesagereborn]

Nah. It was a different era. If you were raised to never be held accountable for your actions, to be told that being selfish wasn't just okay but a virtue, and that you no matter what you have done or not done are a victim, then you would turn out pretty damn twisted as well. This is what the modern era has done to women, trained them to be the worse human beings women can be. Men can be just as shitty, we can be violent and selfish, act like whores etc. The difference is society will never tolerate that behavior in men and as such we have had to learn to be in control of our feelings, we have to be aware that our actions have consequences etc. For example, every guy knows that just because a girl is hot doesn't mean you should fuck her or wife her up. She could be bat shit crazy and you don't stick your dick in crazy. Women don't have that rule because for them they can do what ever they want and if it turns out bad not only does the guy get blamed for her choices, she can then divorce him take everything he has ever earned and ever will earn take his children from him etc. and end up better off then when she started. For the guy if he goes and marries crazy, this is done to him (and she will probably set fire to his car too or accuse him of rape and destroy his life that way) and their is nothing he can do about it. So men have to reign in their impulses and women don't. Women are spoiled and not accountable for their actions and men are always accountable. Thats the only difference.

[monkeynutts]

Probably true, I have had more success with the ladies when I did not give a shit about them or what they think. I would agree with anything they said just to get into their pants one more time.

[NerdInDenial]

If you want true loyalty, get a dog.

[CasaNorba]

totally agree!

I am thankful to find that out the hard way 8 years ago. as a bonus you dont really have to understand them at all. just feed them and take them for a walk and they'll always love you with their own lives

[NerdInDenial]

The type of love that dogs give is similar to what men give: sacrificial love. Women love men differently; they love men by the way they make them feel. As such, women tend to fall out of love easier.

[Annarosa]

so you can hate women and understand them... So if you understand them you'll hate them?

[CasaNorba]

yeah perhaps you will realize this in 2 more years when you;re officially an adult

[KrakenAttackin]

This is just a way for men to excuse bad behaviour by women.

[888theGreat]

Love but never understand

[CasaNorba]

dont let love get you killed these days

[joeblow123]

@888thegreat

I would say understand but never love.

[Juxtapose]

Only LOW QUALITY women are that predictable.

[CasaNorba]

what about the low quality women that love to play hard to get?

[Juxtapose]

Eh, I don't chase them. I hate games.

[CasaNorba]

sounds like you know the game very well to claim you dont chase

[Juxtapose]

I'm autistic, I *can't* do mindgames. I'm too direct.

I have people hit on me from time to time of various ages so that's something.

[CasaNorba]

I'm autistic too but I'm pretty sure you got some neurotypical friends or relatives that do chase. dont tell me you never seen them in action. hopefully they dont ridicule you for not chasing like my neurotypical peers and relatives to do me; not like its a problem anymore.

[Juxtapose]

Man, even "normies" are getting tired of the dating game. No man in his right mind likes the fact that he's expected to do all the initiation while women have no idea what it's like and eviscerate him mercilessly.

Good women are pretty hard to come by these days. I'm just thankful I have options considering I don't go out very much.