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I'm not sure what you're asking.
I think you mean something along the lines of: "why don't girls just turn you down instead of friendzoning you, and dragging you along with them for attention?"
Some of them do, but not all of them, and the ones that do are immature. Some girls friendzone you because they really do just want to be friends. They might trust you, but not be attracted to you. Or they might like you, but not feel comfortable dating you for some reason.
Also, it's not all the easy to turn someone down without hurting their feelings, and friendzoning someone can be an easy way that doesn't end in someone feeling hurt... or at least AS hurt.
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That's why it's called friend zoning in the first place. It shouldn't be "free attention" but mutual attention and respect, just like a friendship with a guy. I don't think they do it out of malice, rather quite the opposite — instead of outright ghosting or shunning you, they see it as merciful to keep you as a friend even after you showed interest. You may see that as a form of torture, but it's up to you in that case to end the friendship if it's too painful for you.
No they keep you around because they consider you a FRIEND. That’s why it’s called the FRIENDzone. Do men not understand how friendship works?
If you’re friend zoned she wants to be friends with you. It’s not about validation.
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Deb and give you enough attention and home to me keep you around
I guess... for Free Attention and Validation :D
So that you do the advertisement.
Because thats the point of the friend zone.
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