Why am I the type of girl that other girls hate?

Question

Guys love me, girls it's a very different story I have a smallish group of friends.

aWes0MeNeSs · Accepted Answer

Although I have a pretty mixed group of friends, I will say that I've always had more problems with girls than guys.

I think there is no shortage of girls who are extremely competitive and jealous of one another, and who decide they don't like another girl right off the bat just because they view her as potential competition. This is especially rampant during the teenage years, but sadly some people never outgrow that phase.

I always had issues with my female friends (and even a few male friends) becoming jealous of me and trying to tear me down, even when I tried my best to lift them up and made it very clear I had no desire to compete. Some people just cannot stand seeing things go well for other people, and typically when miserable people see other people happy, they want to take that away from them or decide they hate that person rather than doing something about their own situation.

Sweetie20 · Accepted Answer

Girl, U are not alone. I know exactly how you feel becoz that's exactly what I experience in my life as well. No matter what you do or how generous you are those hoes will use you and talk crap behind your back. So Stay strong. There will be someone who actually understands u. And don't do the mistake of hating yourself for those bitches like I did.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

You must be beautiful kind friendly out going helpful a nice car. Clothes nope none of those well the I guess it's because your a girl lol. I have never understood why girls do that I have friends like that and if for some reason there at the same place at the same time ,, my day is messed up because I have to hear it ,, sometimes all i can do is laugh and say you don't even know each other WTF or I just leave lol

ManHater · Accepted Answer

You know why guys love you so much it's no so much what you have for a personality but what you have between your legs and those 2 things on your chest. Every guys motive is to score a home run with a good looking girl. I'm sure you probably know this by now so why say "Guys love me". It's because they want to fuck you like there is no tomorrow.

Flower7 · Answer

I tend to have the same issue. A lot of times, girls dislike me for no reason at all. They give me dirty looks and give me dirty looks, even though I have done nothing to them.

I'm guessing the reason behind that for both of us is jealousy. Guys probably are attracted to you and that makes other girls feel threatened because you're getting more attention than they are.

Don-_-Don · Answer

Girls probably just envy you. As far as I know girls don't like other girls who gain a lot of attractions from guys.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

If your pretty but don't waste a man's time or mock your fellow females or bait guys with sex most girls won't hate you just because you look good - what I observe from school is pretty girls get better treatment not just from men but even more so from woman

COMMODOREII · Answer

Maybe they are jealous of you. You are a great person and i bet things come to you easily. These girls might not like that and try to make it hard for you. Don't worry so much about it. It will blow up in their face. 😎👍

modelUN242 · Answer

I think women usually hate other women, that's why most slut-shamers are women. They get jealous when one of them has a boyfriend and they don't. I think there are good women out there who will support you, you should probably get new friends.

AndrewMG · Answer

Life's essentially a cheese board. There's lot's of different varieties and it's rare someone will like all of them, and on occasion some people might just prefer the crackers!

mrgspoter · Answer

I don't like people so I don't know why most people are like it or why people care if outhers dont like them just don't bother with people who are not good to you. But all men like a gal that will bother with them they are men lol they want something..

scott04sa22 · Answer

The girls where I live they don't like very open guys, very adventurous guys and nerds. The girls are very shallow where I'm at 😒. There is also girls who doesn't like handicap and disabled people.

PureCharacter · Answer

It is because probably you have interests and personality traits that help you interact well with men, and not with women.

Shezadi · Answer

How do you those guys are genuine and sincere? What if those guys are fake?

MrHopper · Answer

Without knowing you better it's not easy to know. Some times people can be jealous of other people, maybe you have what they want

JosyJosy · Answer

Same here, I'm just not as subtle as some girls, and that throws them off sometimes

Zee1234 · Answer

Maybe they are jealous. This happened a few times in college with me.

Reputon13 · Answer

Can you elaborate on what kind of person you see yourself as? I don't have much to go on except your tone in the question.

Iron_Man · Answer

Because the girls think you’re cocky and a smart ass so they want to Dunk you in a keg full of cheese

1828avaava1828 · Answer

🧀 Cheese to you for being likable! i mean cheers to you!! 🥂

Mehzmeh · Answer

People hate people for no reason. There are bunch of guy's here in my town. That don't even know me. But have a problem with me. But, they are not stupid enough to try and do anything to me. Lol.

Anonymous · Answer

I guess they’re intimidated by the fact that so many guys like you. You’re probably pretty and get a lot of male attention but own it girl

Anonymous · Answer

Something it is a lot easier to be friends with guys, they are more straight forward about stuff and less bitchy

sheikalana · Answer

Quality over quantity. Maybe other girls just don't vibe with you.

Gedaria · Answer

Comes across as a little jealousy. If guys like you girls don't. You have some thing to offer they don't...

AmeerX · Answer

I think it is because sometimes you give them a piece of your mind lile to Shezadi

wannabe_cuckold_23 · Answer

Probably because you are different in a certain way, which is obviously a good thing, and they are either confused by that or they are just jealous, just my opinion though I guess

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Sometimes women don't get along with one another. It happens.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Cuz they think you will be the girl who stills the guy they like or sre seeing

Wise4myage · Answer

They are either jealous of you, or they think you're a snob.

tUCK_Frump · Answer

Maybe they're scared you're more approachable and a threat to them?

YHL6965 · Answer

Usually, I would say it's out of jealousy, they see you as a threat.

A_nne · Answer

They are probebly jalous at you for some reasons... just dont give them what they want and ignore them

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe you think for yourself rather than subscribing to girl code, gossip and blaming men.

mr_abhi00 · Answer

Because they don't have 2 things beauty with brain

Anonymous · Answer

Girls hate anyone who is competition to them. Girls are petty and childish.

Smf1989 · Answer

They are jealous of u

Jayrock24w · Answer

They do that because there jelous of u.

arun934 · Answer

Love yourself. Fuck off them who hates U.

msc545 · Answer

A "smallish group of friends" is not all that bad.

888theGreat · Answer

You probably flirt with their boyfriends

Nonfrivolous · Answer

You are pretty

hknmhmn4 · Answer

They are jealous of you, maybe

Bhavin2184 · Answer

Just ignore them

Kitty44cat · Answer

Girl I’m right there with you.

Oric5 · Answer

Yes..

Anonymous · Answer

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